We spend the first 12 or so weeks tentatively suggesting names to each other, and sometimes laughing at each other's suggestions (I recall Dp coming out with What about Jason? and me just staring at him) ... some time around the middle trimester, we agreed on a girl's name we both loved, and just before Christmas we settled on a boy's name too. The names don't have any particular significance, we just like them.
We haven't revealed the names to anyone at all, so they haven't really been talked about anywhere, including between us - it's kind of been 'that's that, then'.
I'm now starting to waiver towards other names, with only 2 weeks to go! I think it's due to starting Mat leave, and spending too much time on MN baby name threads!
I'm also worried about having the baby, and in a post-birth drug-filled (hopefully) haze, saying 'sod it, let's call him/her....' and then thinking, what was I thinking?!
Did anyone else experience this kind of thing??