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What do you think of Persephone?

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woodysquirrel · 18/09/2009 21:13

What do you think of Persephone as a girl's name? It's listed on Mumsnet's Baby Name Finder.
Please could you help with this. I'm guessing this is very unusual, am I wrong? How popular is this and what do you think of the name? We're shortening to Sephy or Persy.
Middle names will be Constance Jane.

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YLP8 · 17/07/2014 07:56

Reading this I'm astonished at the casual bullying going on of potential parents of a Persephone.

Comments about "poncey-ness" of the name say so much about the character of the posters.

If I were to have an opinion about one of the names offered by posters as an alternative, for example that Stephanie sounds like she is a cheap 17 year old with 3 kids living off benefits in a council estate, or that Helen sounds like a common old woman waiting to have her incontinence pad changed, there would be uproar.

And the reason is that many of you know or ARE a Helen or a Stephanie so such an opinion wouldn't be accepted.

Instead you revel in your collective ignorance, hiding behind reasons such as "people will mispronounce it" - should everyone with heritage from overseas abandon their roots for the same reasons? No, because it seems it's not alright to be xenophobic or racist, but it is alright to be "classist".

It boils down to the idea that some people feel confined by tradition and the opinions of others when naming their child. Anything which is new or different is regarded as "not normal" but it's only in the circles you move in that these names are "not normal" just as in the circles others move in Stephanie would be unthinkable.

Discussions about sound, mouth-feel, nicknames, back-story etc are all valid and valuable, but please don't try to humiliate or degrade others using your own sheltered standards.

Degustibusnonestdisputandem · 17/07/2014 07:58

Well, I like it, but it's the name of my sister's cat! (Seph/Sephy for short) Grin

rachel234 · 17/07/2014 08:11

Beautiful name!

Bannakaffalatta · 17/07/2014 08:14

This thread was from 2009 Persephone may be at school now!

ShadyLadyT · 17/07/2014 17:38

Blimey yes, this thread is old. Persephone is a middle name for one of my daughters. Anyone out there considering it - please don't reject it on the basis that some thicko or other can't pronounce it, or feels threatened at the mere whiff of anything they fear is 'posh'.

KittiesInsane · 17/07/2014 17:51

Goodness, so it is.

I was about to say there's a Persephone (Sephy) at DD's v definitely non-private school. Can't be this one, though, as she's still be too young!

Mind you, they also have at least one of each of Jocasta, Pandora and Spinoza...

bouncingbelle · 17/07/2014 18:34

Go for Stephanie instead.

Gingerjv · 17/07/2014 19:46

Persephone - i love love love this name!! i think it's extremely beautiful! Much better than popular "4/5 letter names with leeee/xieeee sounds". The shorten is Sephy

ScrambledEggAndToast · 17/07/2014 20:25

Sounds like you are trying too hard to be "different"

Mybigfatredwedding · 17/07/2014 22:54

Percy-phone

That is all.

Sophronia · 17/07/2014 23:09

I think the meaning of Persephone is something like 'to destroy, murder' so I wouldn't use it for that reason.

SillyTillyTilly · 18/07/2014 00:17

Nice name. In fact, it's great. Though can't see it having the popular appeal of Penelope, personally.

I wonder if there's a five-ish year old Persephone wandering around now (zombie thread!)

SillyTillyTilly · 18/07/2014 00:20

And whatever did happen to the Mumsnet Baby Name finder Grin

Rhubarbgarden · 18/07/2014 12:55

Are we called Persephone, by any chance, YLP8? Or do you make a habit of seeking out five year old threads to get offended by? Hmm

devoncreamtea · 18/07/2014 13:31

I never say this - but: I don't like it. The myth is tragic and their are a lot of connotations about class/snootiness (as mentioned already) that even if don't bother you, might impact on your daughter's life. My line is usually if you love it, go for it...but in this instance maybe if you love it, let it go...

devoncreamtea · 18/07/2014 13:32

Is it an old thread (observant!) hmmm wonder what the OP chose...?

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