ok so long story short: ds3 is born, dp and i cannot decide on a name. we have a shortlist, then a longlist, then another shortlist.
all lovely names, none that we LOVE. i have one name that i love, dp hates it.
fastforward 2 weeks. i wear dp down and he agrees that he can live with my name i love. we go and register ds3.
problem: now i am not sure i love it as much as i thought i did.
maybe it was hormones. maybe i just wanted what i thought i couldn't have. maybe i am just blood stupid..
but i cannot stop thinking that it just isn't his name. it is a lovely name. everyone says it's fab and it is. but i am not sure it is the right name. we had a second choice and i was thinking of changing it to that, but now even that isn't quite right and i am starting to think of all the bloody names we had on lists and wondering if any suit him any better.
2 weeks time it's his naming day. so, he really needs a definite name by then.
despite not loving the name dp is reluctant to change it because it is his name now, and the 2 other ds's like it as well.
i am so torn. do i leave it and risk it annoying me forever more? do i change it? if i change it will i then decide it was right after all. because hey, i've already done that once! and i am scared that i'll change it and then hate the name i've changed it to.
what would you do? what should i do???
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thisisyesterday · 30/08/2009 21:00
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