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Longer baby names that are unlikely to be shortened?

63 replies

Meelien · Yesterday 04:01

Are there any longer names (5+ letters) that are not commonly shortened? I really dislike the concept of shortenings (mainly as I find them to be pointless), but it feels like my only options are short names like Ava, Mia, Adam, Cleo, Ivy, Noah, Lucy, Eric (just examples) if I want to avoid the inevitable. I just have a love of those long elegant names that are often shortened to something boring.

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NuffSaidSam · Yesterday 14:56

Meelien · Yesterday 14:20

That type of shortening doesn't bother me as it can happen with any name. Even Sarah can become Sar occasionally. I'm more talking about names that are shortened to diminutives that sound nothing like the original name. Examples would be Margaret - Maggie, Abigail - Abby, James - Jim, Matilda - Millie, Patricia - Patsy, Theodore - Teddy, Henry - Harry, Alexis - Allie.

In that case I don't think you need to worry, most people don't shorten names to things that are completely different! That comes from the parents or the person themselves.

For example, lots of people would call a Christopher Chris, but you'd have to be nuts to be introduced to an Elizabeth and just start calling her Betty!

NuffSaidSam · Yesterday 14:58

And fwiw I know a Steven who's is always Steven, a Matilda who is always Matilda, an Eleanor who is always Eleanor, an Alexander who is always Alexander...

NamingNoNames · Yesterday 15:15

An Elizabeth who was a Betty would probably introduce herself as Betty. Elizabeth going by the full name would probably get shortened to Liz.

Daffodilsinthespring · Yesterday 15:32

Most of the names on this thread can be shortened. I think Anne, Ivy and Bea are the only names I can think of.

OttersOnAPlane · Yesterday 15:35

Never go to Liverpool. A Scouser can find a nickname for anything. My brother thought his name was immune to nicknames until he worked in Merseyside.

MrsAvocet · Yesterday 15:40

OttersOnAPlane · Yesterday 15:35

Never go to Liverpool. A Scouser can find a nickname for anything. My brother thought his name was immune to nicknames until he worked in Merseyside.

Absolutely! My DH is from Liverpool and his name, which only has 3 letters, is shortened, lengthened and completely changed by a variety of his friends and family.

NamingNoNames · Yesterday 15:40

They'd be Annie/Annabel, Ives/Ivor and Bibi. Smile

Tryagain26 · Yesterday 15:45

Conchiglie · Yesterday 04:03

How about Sophia? I know two and neither of them are shortened.

I know one called Soph
To be honest usually all names are either shortened or lengthens when the child goes to school and makes friends outside the family. You can't control a diminutive or nickname that naturally evolves. I have a very short name but some people always lengthened it. It never bothered me

Meelien · Yesterday 15:46

NamingNoNames · Yesterday 14:51

Give us examples of names you like and we could comment. I know a couple of Margarets who are always Margaret, a few Jameses, no Matildas known as Millie but Tilly, an Abi and a Gail, Patricias who are Pat or Trisha, several Henrys who are never Harry, an Alexis who's not Allie...

I like Alexandria, Charles, Christina, Jacqueline, Joseph, Katherine, Lawrence, Madeleine, Michael, Stephen, but I feel that these names are almost always shortened to the point where it is rare to hear the full name. I'm just not keen on the idea of DC always being Charlie, Joe/Joey, Katie/Kate, Larry, Maddie, Mike, etc. I feel like these nicknames are just given to a child once they start attending school, and then they're kind of stuck with it (if that makes sense). I have a name like this and have always hated it being shortened by strangers even when I introduce myself as the full name (so much so that I want to avoid that for my child).

(We don't know the gender yet, so I'm listing examples of both.)

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NamingNoNames · Yesterday 15:53

... thought his name was immune to nicknames until he worked in Merseyside.
They're usually very 'scouse' nn.

I've known Ian be shortened to E (not by scousers).
Scouse ones are often from surnames - Tommo, Jonno, Macca etc
or things like Marg, Gags or Kags, and Stephen shortened to Ste.

@Meelien , I think the ones you've listed would be shortened, having said that I know a Jaqueline, Katherine and a few of the others that aren't shortened.

MrsAvocet · Yesterday 16:05

You can resist shortened names to a degree though OP - assuming it's what the child wants. My DD has a name that is very commonly shortened and even though we always used the full version at home it was indeed shortened at secondary school which she didn't really like but tolerated. But when she went to University and later work she introduced herself to everyone as her full name and I have never heard anyone use the shortened version since. My son also likes the full version of his name and nobody calls him anything different. I think it might help that the full version of his name flows well with our surname, whereas the shortened version sounds really clunky somehow. DS has two friends with the same name -one is Dom and the other is most definitely Dominic - and his flatmate is called Michael and never gets Mike. Although some people can be very annoying and insist on shortenings, most will call someone the name they actually want if they are told. I think it's more likely to be an issue if the child actually prefers the shortened version and you don't like it!

WonderWeeksArentReal · Yesterday 16:08

I know a Persephone and an Aphrodite who never shorten their names.

Gateappreciation · Yesterday 16:45

Quite often, even if parents always use the full name, shorten versions or nn will crop at school, football clubs etc. It’s something you can’t really stop, and as others have said, short names will get lengthened, and long names shortened, or they’ll gain a totally different nickname. ‘Tiny’ or ‘Giraffe’ if they’re tall, for example.

Hinthebuild · Yesterday 16:54

After reading this thread, I think some PP are missing OP's point. I don't think she cares if Lily is sometimes affectionately shortened to Lil or Lils or Lucy to Luce or if the child gains a silly nickname like Hannah Banana. I think she simply doesn't want a name that is expected to be shortened and has traditional "built-in" nicknames, like Elizabeth.

Fifiesta · Yesterday 18:05

LivingTheDreamish · Yesterday 04:50

I do think some longer names have less ubiquitous shortenings:

Annabel
Lydia
Esther
Naomi
Maeve

Sorry but I know a Lyd and a Mimi.
My name has five letters and was shortened to two letters by my school friends…

astrozenica · Yesterday 18:07

-ena/-ina names like Serena, Selina, Marina aren't typically shortened in my experience.

OttersOnAPlane · Yesterday 19:32

NamingNoNames · Yesterday 15:53

... thought his name was immune to nicknames until he worked in Merseyside.
They're usually very 'scouse' nn.

I've known Ian be shortened to E (not by scousers).
Scouse ones are often from surnames - Tommo, Jonno, Macca etc
or things like Marg, Gags or Kags, and Stephen shortened to Ste.

@Meelien , I think the ones you've listed would be shortened, having said that I know a Jaqueline, Katherine and a few of the others that aren't shortened.

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And if there's a letter R it will be a Z -
Gaz, Tez, Baz etc.

SouthLondonMum22 · Yesterday 19:39

My twin girls are Felicity & Matilda and 90% of the time, they are just Felicity and Matilda. It's also what they are called at nursery.

10% of the time, at home, they are Fliss and Tilly but definitely just an at home thing right now.

Kazzalala1 · Yesterday 19:55

Conchiglie · Yesterday 04:03

How about Sophia? I know two and neither of them are shortened.

I know two Sophias

Everyone calls them So th

You are fighting a losing battle 😂

Ann/Anne doesn’t seem to be shortened so much.

Ian not some much

Our boys have short names but we have ended up elongating them

😂🤷🏽‍♀️

ilovemyrailcard · Yesterday 19:57

Monica
Marina
Seren
Serena
Sabrina
Tamara
Alessia
Alicia
Tamsin
Xanthe
Collette

Gareth
Clive
Bruce
Jenson
Elliott
Simeon
Arthur
Euan

Words · Yesterday 20:11

I have a four syllable elegant name, and I wouldn’t change it for anything. It is never shortened. When people try, I simply correct them. It only takes once. Go for your beautiful name.

SquishyGloopyBum · Yesterday 20:11

interesting thread. One which hasn’t been mentioned yet is Claire.

Daphnedolittle2 · Yesterday 21:19

I totally get you OP and think a lot of posters are missing the point. I loved the names Francesca and Alexandra but I had to really consider whether I liked Fran or Alex or Frankie enough for it to be my first choice name and ultimately I didn't.
I don't know any Alexandra's that are called Alexandra, so in the end it felt pointless using it. I ended up choosing a medium length name that doesn't have an obvious shortening.
Obviously all names can be shortened but some are more likely to be than others.

basoon · Yesterday 21:25

Conchiglie · Yesterday 04:03

How about Sophia? I know two and neither of them are shortened.

Soph

ThaneOfGlamis · Yesterday 21:34

One of mine has a name that is more commonly shortened eg Alexander/Alex. At least 50% of the time I introduce with his full name people immediately say hi Alex and he hates it! I just correct immediately and people manage full name after that.