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Are hyphenated first names a bad idea?

80 replies

NannyOgg26 · 19/05/2026 22:50

Are hyphenated first names a bad idea? There are a couple that we like, but I've heard people be quite disparaging about hyphenated names before. The ones we are considering are
Anne-Marie and Amy-Beth.

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Overtheatlantic · 20/05/2026 10:58

I was at school with a Mary-Margaret. I still love that name, many decades later.

Calliopespa · 20/05/2026 11:00

Overtheatlantic · 20/05/2026 10:58

I was at school with a Mary-Margaret. I still love that name, many decades later.

Reminds me of Gwendolyn Mary Lacey somehow!

But I agree: I actually think more classic (I suppose more stiff and starchy) hyphenated names are due a comeback.

I think it's the cutesy ones that have out people off.

Riapia · 20/05/2026 11:03

Hyphenated names whether forename or surname are pretentious.

Overtheatlantic · 20/05/2026 11:04

They can have a melodic quality that I like

Overtheatlantic · 20/05/2026 11:05

Riapia · 20/05/2026 11:03

Hyphenated names whether forename or surname are pretentious.

I’ve never heard that before, and don’t agree.

Electriceelslunch · 20/05/2026 11:08

They sound a bit 90s ish dated to me and a bit chavvy

Giggorata · 20/05/2026 11:10

I am of 50s vintage and have one of those classic hyphenated French names, and don’t like being called a shorter version.
I wouldn't have chosen it.

Aliceinmunsnetland · 20/05/2026 11:11

I know a hyphenated child, mum was very THIS is their name when they were young.
However, she must have thought it pointless to keep correctly as said child, now 4. in known by first name only now.

StationJack · 20/05/2026 11:16

Not RTFT but Anne-Marie is ok but very 1960s. Amy-Beth sounds like she should be one of The Waltons. I don't like Amy or Beth and the hyphen makes both parts worse.

StationJack · 20/05/2026 11:20

Riapia · 20/05/2026 11:03

Hyphenated names whether forename or surname are pretentious.

Pretentious? Shock

'Downmarket' in a first name and 'unmarried parents' in the surname.

Calliopespa · 20/05/2026 11:26

StationJack · 20/05/2026 11:20

Pretentious? Shock

'Downmarket' in a first name and 'unmarried parents' in the surname.

Edited

We clearly mix in different circles, you and I.

Missey85 · 20/05/2026 11:32

Calliopespa · 20/05/2026 10:54

To me that isn't remotely awful!

I've had people ask me if my parents really liked Spider-Man 😊 also people that know it as a name for marijuana 😂

StationJack · 20/05/2026 11:34

Calliopespa · 20/05/2026 11:26

We clearly mix in different circles, you and I.

Thank God.

Calliopespa · 20/05/2026 11:44

StationJack · 20/05/2026 11:34

Thank God.

Indeed!

WhimsyWhim · 20/05/2026 11:44

I'm going to disagree with a majority of these comments. Anne-Marie isn't downmarket or chavvy. It's viewed this way only because names like Gracie-Mae and Isla-Jade have given all hyphenated first names (even the classics) a negative connotation. Anne-Marie sounds quite posh and potentially Catholic. Amy-Beth sounds very 1950s-1980s American.

RegalDiamondMonster · 20/05/2026 11:45

I didn't realise hyphenated names were so disparaged until coming on mumsnet. I don't know if they are in real life or not.

I quite like names like Lily-Anne and Carla-Marie.

Calliopespa · 20/05/2026 11:46

WhimsyWhim · 20/05/2026 11:44

I'm going to disagree with a majority of these comments. Anne-Marie isn't downmarket or chavvy. It's viewed this way only because names like Gracie-Mae and Isla-Jade have given all hyphenated first names (even the classics) a negative connotation. Anne-Marie sounds quite posh and potentially Catholic. Amy-Beth sounds very 1950s-1980s American.

Totally agree.

You can't blanket-categorise these things.

Calliopespa · 20/05/2026 11:47

RegalDiamondMonster · 20/05/2026 11:45

I didn't realise hyphenated names were so disparaged until coming on mumsnet. I don't know if they are in real life or not.

I quite like names like Lily-Anne and Carla-Marie.

I think it is a bit of a MN fixation - like Balonz!

StationJack · 20/05/2026 11:56

Anne-Marie isn't downmarket or chavvy. RC name.
Lily-Anne and Carla-Marie Dreadful. Both sound like 1960s names.

Most hyphenated names are -May/Mae, -Rose, -Grace, -Rae or -Jay (boy)

Lyyt · 20/05/2026 12:00

Anne Marie makes me think of the singer with the bleach blonde hair. Also sounds like a wealthy Frenchwomen who gets murdered by the peasantry.
I like Amy but not Beth.

Amy-rose?

StationJack · 20/05/2026 12:04

Amy-rose? Awful. Amy is dated and Rose is boring.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 20/05/2026 12:12

There are only a couple that have ended up being called the full version at all times at the school I work in most just use the first part.

StationJack · 20/05/2026 12:16

I lknow one who goes by the last part and one who goes by a 'nn'.

The names are something like Kate-Lyn (Lynne) and Kelly-Anne (Lee).

user1492757084 · 20/05/2026 12:18

Why add the hyphen?
I don't mind a double first name but I would never use a hyphen. I know of all these actual people who have lovely double names ..

Mary Rose
Mary Ellen
Sue Ellen
Marie Claire
Mary Beth
Anne Marie
Merry Ellen
Mary Faith
Sunday Rose
Wendy Joy
Maggie Mae
Eliza Jane
Emma Jane
Mary Louise

Flinderskleepers · 20/05/2026 12:28

Missey85 · 20/05/2026 10:53

Mine is Mary-jane for the most part people assume Jane is my middle name 😊

Isn't that a euphemism for cannabis/cocaine though? (Not sure which)

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