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Have you noticed a correlation between names and personality?

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LuckyCharm3 · 18/04/2026 18:30

Do you think there's a correlation between names and personality (including future life choices/outcomes)? I have worked in multiple prisons and have noticed that there are names that we see more frequently than others. It's difficult to not notice when it's quite obvious. These typically aren't even names that you'd "expect". I do take it into consideration when naming my own children. Does this make me superstitious? Perhaps. Will I change my mind? Probably not.

This isn't to say that everyone with a certain name will end up in prison or that everyone with a certain name will be successful, just that there are general patterns.

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NamingNoNames · 21/04/2026 12:36

I know some Haydns and Aidans who were named long before the Jayden, Kayden, Brayden trends. All of them very nice and well-behaved.

Calliopespa · 21/04/2026 12:42

Eedjjt · 21/04/2026 08:48

Aah but we don’t know your name. For all we know you could be a Rebecca, which would explain everything 🤣

😂

Allseeingallknowing · 21/04/2026 12:48

Don’t like the trend for hyphenated girls’ names, Eg Ellie-Mae

Thistimearound · 21/04/2026 12:53

I agree with PPs that it’s mostly correlation, although I think there will be a bit more to it - maybe a name conjurs up a certain expectation and the child often lives up to it (partly because they are treated that way so just become it).

At one point the name Eleanor was the most likely name to get you into Oxford. So there is probably correlation - middle class name, parents can probably afford tutors, are well educated themselves, have been pushy enough. But the name also conjures up an image (for me at least) of that same middle class child, probably doesn’t get into much trouble, plays the cello.. If everyone around you is treating you like that you probably just become it. I actually know a (young) Ellie / Eleanor that is quite of a handful (to put it mildly) and I find it very disconcerting.

Bbq1 · 21/04/2026 12:56

Allseeingallknowing · 21/04/2026 12:48

Don’t like the trend for hyphenated girls’ names, Eg Ellie-Mae

Similarly, even if not hyphenated every other baby girl seems to have Mae as a middle name. It's almost standard

XelaM · 21/04/2026 12:59

Yes! Absolutely any variation of Gillian/Gill/Jill have been awful

NamingNoNames · 21/04/2026 13:09

XelaM · 21/04/2026 12:59

Yes! Absolutely any variation of Gillian/Gill/Jill have been awful

All the ones I know are really nice.

CanterThroughChaos · 21/04/2026 13:14

https://amzn.eu/d/0hbL7Kjf I recently read this, it was brilliant and is a fictional story about how the same person’s life is affected by having 3 different names. The story of each name runs concurrently in 7 year intervals.

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NamingNoNames · 21/04/2026 13:40

You need a better link. I'll be inundated with emails/ads if I look at Amazon and I can't see what the link is to.

TeenLifeMum · 21/04/2026 13:41

NamingNoNames · 21/04/2026 12:03

It is. Jadon is a name from the Old Testament, Jayden is a name from around 2000.

The ones I know would have been born 2010-11. One has parents who have both been in prison and the other has parents who never come to school for anything and his uniform always has holes. The third sells vapes in the school toilets.

TeenLifeMum · 21/04/2026 13:47

Bbq1 · 21/04/2026 12:19

Do those names end in don or den? I've heard Jayden etc but never pronounced JayDON, it's always been den, however it's spelt.

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I checked with dd and 2 are Jayden but one is Jaydon. Cayden is en (but definitely with a C) then Laydon is on.

NamingNoNames · 21/04/2026 13:47

The Jadon I know is older and from a Jewish heritage. The Jayden is a teenager, parents no loner together...

Jayden peaked in 2009. Baby name explorer

dailyconniptions · 21/04/2026 13:55

BristolHelp · 18/04/2026 19:04

Absolutely yes. My husband and I always joke that people with certain names always have the same personality type! For example all the Hannah's we know are kind, gentle, timid, old soul kind of people. Martha's tend to be similar but perhaps a bit more reserved and very family oriented. We have a few other names but these are the main two we always giggle about!

It's Hannahs and Marthas. No apostrophe in plurals!

CanterThroughChaos · 21/04/2026 16:52

NamingNoNames · 21/04/2026 13:40

You need a better link. I'll be inundated with emails/ads if I look at Amazon and I can't see what the link is to.

Here’s a pic if you don’t trust the link, I would highly recommend, it’s very relevant to this topic

Have you noticed a correlation between names and personality?
NamingNoNames · 21/04/2026 18:05

I'll have a look, thanks. Just bit wary in case I got bombarded with dodgy ads. Smile

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 24/04/2026 06:27

Hmmm I don’t know.
Peter Sutcliffe, Ian Huntley, Ian Brady…. I’ve always disliked the name Ian as it happens and Peter too.
Ted Bundy, Levi (can’t think of his last name), Ed Geine (sp) Jeffrey Neilson, all vile evil men.
I think these were just common names at the time of their birth.
I think it’s down to the parents. Their aspirations and parenting which help shape the child.

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 24/04/2026 06:29

All the Janes I know are really nice, never met one I disliked.

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 24/04/2026 06:34

LuckyCharm3 · 21/04/2026 01:24

There's quite a few. The ones that immediately come to mind are Michael, Darren (every spelling), James, Jace/Jase, Eric, Joshua, Ian, Amir, Tony, Paul, Alex(ander), Daniel, Ahmed, Andrew, Omar, Marcus, Malik.

James (including every nickname) is one that I see very often.

James is such a common name. It must also be the most common middle name too.
Not surprised by Ian.
Darren was always a lower class name and very common for men of a certain age.
Andrew will be forever tainted by Tate.
Perhaps it’s too early to see if prisons will be full of Jaxs, Hunters, and Jaxsons.

Bellybellas · 24/04/2026 08:30

Correlation definitely! Certain parents choose certain names and parent accordingly.

Causation no.

2pence · 24/04/2026 08:34

There’s scientific studies on nominative determinism and explicit egotism in relation to how our names shape our lives if you fancy some googling OP.

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