We have three DC: Gabriel, Samuel, and Isabel. Due with DD in March and genuinely stuck between two names. DH and I are leaning in different directions but neither of us feels strongly enough to overrule the other.
Option 1: Maya Campbell
Campbell is my maiden name (Scottish). Would honor my heritage directly as DH is Hispanic and our surname reflects his side.
Option 2: Naomi Jane
Jane is a family name on my side. (We can’t use Campbell as the middle name with Naomi for obvious reasons.)
Our debate:
Maya Campbell:
• Fresh, modern feel
• Campbell as middle name directly honors my family
• Only two syllables vs. siblings’ three
• Surname-as-middle-name feels strong and meaningful
Naomi Jane:
• Three syllables matches the sibling pattern
• Classical, historical weight feels cohesive with Gabriel/Samuel/Isabel
• Solid, established name that’s neither trendy nor dated
• More traditional middle name structure
• Substantial, timeless feel
What we need help with:
When you read all four names together - Gabriel, Samuel, Isabel, and [Maya/Naomi] - does one feel like it disrupts the sibling cohesion?
Does the syllable count difference actually matter in real life, or is pattern-matching just overthinking?
Is there value in having a surname as a middle name (Maya Campbell) vs. a more traditional middle (Naomi Jane)?
Our surname is three syllables, Hispanic, similar rhythm to Martinez or Fernandez if that helps with flow.
Honest opinions please - we’re properly stuck and need outside perspective!