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Baby girl name - too old ladyish?

112 replies

andres42 · 26/01/2026 13:31

Hi all,

currently pregnant with my second, and I originally really loved the name Sylvie. I thought it was quite unique and sweet. Everyone now keeps telling me it's an old lady name... which is starting to put me off a bit!

My daughter has now absolutely decided that the baby is called Sylvie, even if we offer alternatives. So I guess it's stuck now? I just don't want to name my baby something that people will think is awful! Especially as the middle names will be quite old fashioned too (both the babies Great Grandmothers names).

The other name I really loved was Josie.

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takingthepissoutofme · 26/01/2026 13:33

Not a fan, reminds me of Sylvia.

tinytinyviolin · 26/01/2026 13:33

I think Sylvie is lovely.

Hotdoughnut · 26/01/2026 13:36

I know 3 Sylvie's at our childrens' junior school, definitely not unique! I know 1 Josie.
Choose what you love, nobody else's opinion matters. If we all loved the same names we'd have serious identification problems!

MotherJessAndKittens · 26/01/2026 13:36

I think Sylvie is lovely. Makes me think of a fairy like child. I don’t think it’s old fashioned though Sylvia is.

MerryGuide · 26/01/2026 13:37

I love it, there's a Sylvia in my family tree so we've often said we'd use Sylvie for a girl. Every name is an old lady name now so she'll fit right in! I think its a nice modern twist on it personally though.

CurlewKate · 26/01/2026 13:37

I would go for Sylvia-shortened to Sylvie. I think it’s lovely.

HelenaWilson · 26/01/2026 13:38

I prefer Sylvia. Sylvie/Sylvia has a nice meaning. It's from the Latin 'silva' meaning woodland or forest.

Lots of 'old lady' names have become popular again, so I wouldn't worry about that.

Numberwang66 · 26/01/2026 13:38

Sylvia / Sylvie is a lovely sweet name!

Do whatever you like, don't listen to others

ObladiObladah · 26/01/2026 13:39

All the Sylvie’s I’ve known are French - it is a beautiful name when spoken with a french accent and not too much emphasis on the first syllable

Maybeitllneverhappen · 26/01/2026 13:42

Edna is an old lady name. Sylvie is nice.

RedStars · 26/01/2026 13:43

It's not unique at all, but it's nice, and no, not all old ladyish. I mean, I'd be surprised if it started being used in any numbers in the UK long enough ago for those baby girls to be old yet.

goldtrap · 26/01/2026 13:45

It's sweet and pretty. I think it's nicer than Josie and sounds more of a complete name, whereas Josie sounds like it's short for something.

Sylvia sounds more old fashioned (only because I know a couple of older Sylvias).

QuickPeachPoet · 26/01/2026 13:48

I hate 'ie' name but I love Sylvie. But I love all French names.
I know a Polish girl called Sylvie and it really suits her.

HelenaWilson · 26/01/2026 13:50

I'd be surprised if it started being used in any numbers in the UK long enough ago for those baby girls to be old yet.

I knew a lady called Sylvia who would be in her 90s now if she was still alive. I think it was popular in the 1920s and 1930s, but not one of the most popular names.I

Josie sounds like it's short for something.

Usually short for Josephine.

Applecup · 26/01/2026 13:50

We have a little Sylvie in our family and I love the name. All names were old lady names at one stage - Mabel, Maud, Edie, Esme, - they are all pretty and popular now. My advice is don’t tell people until you name her.

TenuousTed · 26/01/2026 13:51

Sylvie is lovely.

bells456 · 26/01/2026 13:52

love Sylvie. Definitely not too old lady ish.

Ducksbehindthesofa · 26/01/2026 13:53

I love it.

A friend had a daughter last year and named her Cynthia. No reason or historical family connection etc., she just likes the name!

Badacrowe · 26/01/2026 13:56

ObladiObladah · 26/01/2026 13:39

All the Sylvie’s I’ve known are French - it is a beautiful name when spoken with a french accent and not too much emphasis on the first syllable

I also “hear” Sylvie in a french accent eg Sylvie Vartan (was very famous along with husband Johnny Hallyday) in the 1960s!

Shedeboodinia · 26/01/2026 13:57

There are some absolutely outlandish girl names at my sons primary school.
Sylvie is lovely and noone will bat an eyelid.

unpcplod · 26/01/2026 13:58

I love the name Sylvie and I’m not a fan of the old fashioned names like Emmeline and Connie

Delphiniumandlupins · 26/01/2026 14:04

Don't think Sylvie is an old lady name and even if it was I would still use it if I loved it. I know one baby Sylvie. If you think rationally, your child will be an old lady for many years (hopefully) and a baby for around one.

Don't tell people your planned name in advance.

Emanwenym · 26/01/2026 14:09

I'm not keen on Sylvie but it's popular on here. I dislike Sylvia.

Nonbio46 · 26/01/2026 14:16

I have a niece called Sylvie who’s 14, I’ve never thought of it as an old lady name as I think it’s beautiful.

Monty34 · 26/01/2026 14:17

Choose a name you like. Not one that pleases other people.