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Bobby as a girl’s name

87 replies

Semma · 19/07/2025 14:49

What does everyone think of this? I love that it is the more masculine spelling, feels cool and edgy but also cute. But just need some positive reinforcement as most current online threads really slam it as a full name!

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Laiste · 19/07/2025 17:28

As a deliberate short for a suitable real name yes. Robyn ect.

Bobbie.

MysteriousUsername · 19/07/2025 17:29

The only Bobbies I know are short for Robyn or Roberta. I do like it, but I'd have to go with a full name. I think Robyn and Roberta are both lovely names.

Pinty · 19/07/2025 17:31

I am confused about why people want male names for their daughters but wouldn't consider a female name for their sons why is that?
and sorry OP I am not keen on it

Pinty · 19/07/2025 17:33

Nothinglikeagoodbook · 19/07/2025 16:53

But that was spelled Bobbie.

and it was a nickname her name was Roberta

Nothinglikeagoodbook · 19/07/2025 17:34

Pinty · 19/07/2025 17:33

and it was a nickname her name was Roberta

Yes, I know. I quite like the nickname Bobbie. But not "Bobby" for a girl.

SpottyAardvark · 19/07/2025 17:36

Boy’s name, great.
Labrador’s name, even better.

Girl’s name? Absolutely not. It would sound like you were desperate for a son so you gave her a boy’s name because being ‘only a girl’ she was second best. Not good enough. In her position, how would that make you feel?

Comedycook · 19/07/2025 17:37

Downmarket

MrsTerryPratchett · 19/07/2025 17:40

You like the male spelling because male is a promotion and female is a demotion. If you wouldn’t call a boy Niki or Jean, don’t call a girl Bobby.

JDM625 · 19/07/2025 17:46

Bobby as her whole, legal name or a nickname? Either way, I personally hate typical 'boys' names on 'girls'. Its not edgy or cool!

Charley, Dylan, Frankie, Bobby on a girl- no! I can hear kids chanting Booby 😬

Asparagusandpotatoes · 19/07/2025 17:48

Love Bobbie as a nickname for Roberta. 30s vibe, sparky and cute when younger, cool as a teen and really versatile as an adult. Unusual without being totally made up or overly frilly.

Stormroses · 19/07/2025 17:51

I think it's cute and cool and lovely but would always use it as a nn and give a real name of Robyn or Roberta or Robina on the birth certificate. (I love Robyn too - Robyn nn Bobby is very cool and cute.

RandomMess · 19/07/2025 17:54

I love it, DH vetoed it but by chance she ended up with the nickname Bob due to the Bobinogs TV show. I know a child Bobbie and it suits her.

LucieLemon · 19/07/2025 18:00

Have worked with an adult Bobby, it suited her, I didn’t give it a second thought.

It’s only on Mumsnet I hear how much the “wrong” name will hold you back and cause career problems in later life.

NeverTrustTheScales · 19/07/2025 18:01

What ever the opposite of cool and edgy is, it's that.

muggart · 19/07/2025 18:02

I just think Bob the Builder. I certainly don’t get the edgy/ cool association. It’s a bog standard bloke’s name like Phil or Gary.

Bowling4soup · 19/07/2025 18:02

Not too keen but there is a girl in DS class called Bobby. They’re age 5/6, I just asked him but he doesn’t know if it’s short for anything

MargaretMarigold · 19/07/2025 18:02

I like it. I also knew a female Joey once and that was cool too.

newfriend05 · 19/07/2025 18:02

Personally I love it , one of the most inspirational special-needs teachers that I ever met was called Bobbie .. so for me it will always be linked to her .. she was so kind , and beautiful in a really lovely way ..

Toddlerteaplease · 19/07/2025 18:03

No. It’s a poo where I am
from.

Viviennemary · 19/07/2025 18:03

It's pretty awful. Not a name to be taken seriously.

lovemycbf · 19/07/2025 18:08

Im not a fan
especially the male version spelling.
Edgy try hard names are a bit naff

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 19/07/2025 18:13

Liliwen · 19/07/2025 17:08

I taught a Bobbie many years ago. She suited it

It looks like boobie to me

TheEndlessNight · 19/07/2025 18:16

I really like the name although would spell it Bobbie. Like other posters it reminds me of the railway children.... Doubt future generations will know that film at nursery, school etc.

user2848502016 · 19/07/2025 18:17

I like it but would go Roberta on birth certificate so she has a “grown up” name in the future

Ddakji · 19/07/2025 18:27

I never get MN’s obsession with “proper” names. I have a “proper” name which I have never in my life used. The only things it’s in are those that relate back to my birth/marriage certificate. I never use it at work, it’s not on my CV.

Pretty much no one asks if I have that name. Because no one cares outside the name snobs here.

And I don’t really get the issue with the “male” spelling. Most kids these days won’t even know Bobby as a male NN for Robert, nor care that it “should” be spelled Bobbie (or even Bobbi - gasp) for a girl. There are no male and female spellings for Alex, are there? And Sasha as a boy’s name is become more common as it’s a male diminutive elsewhere in Europe.

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