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Sister for Raffy and Dolly?

74 replies

AquaWriter · 26/04/2025 19:05

Hi all, me and my husband are expecting a little girl and have been going back and forth on baby names. We currently have a son named Rafferty who we call Raffy usually and a daughter named Delores who we tend to call Dolly. I would love a name that fits into the style of my previous two children that can be shortened to a nickname as well. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

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FindAnother · 07/05/2025 19:05

I think we might be more bothered about ideas for naming the baby. @AquaWriter hasn't returned after the opening post.

AquaWriter · 07/05/2025 19:51

@FindAnother appreciate the grave concern but as much as the replies were really helpful and we’ve now chosen a name from them, i’m not really sure why it’s any of your business whether i have time to reply. I’m a university lecturer during finals and i have two under five.

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AquaWriter · 07/05/2025 19:52

we’ve decided to use betsy as a middle name, thank you for the idea!

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AquaWriter · 07/05/2025 19:54

we’ve decided to use the name dorothy/dotty thank you so much for the lovely recommendation

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FindAnother · 07/05/2025 22:32

AquaWriter · 07/05/2025 19:51

@FindAnother appreciate the grave concern but as much as the replies were really helpful and we’ve now chosen a name from them, i’m not really sure why it’s any of your business whether i have time to reply. I’m a university lecturer during finals and i have two under five.

You asked a question, then no response…good job PP’s have ‘time to reply’.

AquaWriter · 07/05/2025 22:35

@FindAnother some of us don’t have time to obsess over random people on mumsnet but that’s just me. maybe you should get a life rather than focus on my replies, just a suggestion.

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MyTattooIsBetterThanYours · 07/05/2025 22:36

AquaWriter · 07/05/2025 22:35

@FindAnother some of us don’t have time to obsess over random people on mumsnet but that’s just me. maybe you should get a life rather than focus on my replies, just a suggestion.

Rude.

AquaWriter · 07/05/2025 22:39

@MyTattooIsBetterThanYours
sorry how is this any of your business?

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MyTattooIsBetterThanYours · 07/05/2025 23:58

This is a wind up thread, isn’t it? Is it half term already?

Crispynoodle · 08/05/2025 07:42

As another lecturer I completely understand! This time of year is lethal!

MyTattooIsBetterThanYours · 08/05/2025 08:40

Crispynoodle · 08/05/2025 07:42

As another lecturer I completely understand! This time of year is lethal!

Then why start a thread when you have no intention of answering and then when you eventually do, solely be snarky to the posters?

FindAnother · 08/05/2025 09:18

AquaWriter · 07/05/2025 22:35

@FindAnother some of us don’t have time to obsess over random people on mumsnet but that’s just me. maybe you should get a life rather than focus on my replies, just a suggestion.

This is really not for you!

So full of random people on Mumsnet!

How disrespectful to PP’s time and effort.

Calliopespa · 08/05/2025 09:23

FindAnother · 08/05/2025 09:18

This is really not for you!

So full of random people on Mumsnet!

How disrespectful to PP’s time and effort.

Yes it’s a bit rude when she’s asked for advice and people have given it.

TotemPolly · 08/05/2025 09:29

Lucinda - Lucy
Charlotte - Lottie
Katherine - Kitty

AquaWriter · 08/05/2025 13:04

yes thank you! i’m stressed out of my mind and some people think i should be monitoring my mumsnet 24/7!

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YourWinter · 08/05/2025 13:07

Catherine or Catriona, nn Kitty

AquaWriter · 08/05/2025 13:09

No it’s not rude. I asked for advice and people kindly gave it. I being extremely busy, had not been able to reply. This does not mean i hadn’t appreciated the advice or taken it on. What is rude is someone coming here and shaming me for not replying, writing a snarky comment and carrying on to argue with me, then when i defend myself people like you coming in and being rude. Not that it’s any of your business but I am a university lecturer during finals, i am a mother to a five year old daughter, a three year old with additional needs, and i’m pregnant. When i asked for advice i did not realise i had to reply to every comment and i certainly did not think i would be criticised and ganged up on by a bunch of women!

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Energe · 08/05/2025 14:18

Dolly and Dotty are very similar

FunnysInLaJardin · 08/05/2025 14:21

Tabitha nn Tabby

AquaWriter · 08/05/2025 15:17

yes but dolores and dorothy are lovely together and i quite like the similarity.

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AquaWriter · 08/05/2025 15:17

we still have time to change if it doesn’t feel right too

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Calliopespa · 08/05/2025 15:49

Energe · 08/05/2025 14:18

Dolly and Dotty are very similar

Agreed. I’m not sure they work together.

Dolores and Dorothy go better but I just think Dolly and Dotty sounds like a CeeBeebies show.

LindorDoubleChoc · 08/05/2025 15:52

Zippy
Dippy
Brenda
Noreen

oxfordmummy2 · 08/05/2025 17:35

I have a rafferty, it’s a lovely name. If it’s a boy I love the name Laurie. (Sarah Beeny inspired 😂)

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