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Ralph?

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WhoStoleTheTarts · 11/04/2025 15:09

I’m due in a couple of weeks with a baby boy, we’ve got a shortlist but we’ve not settled on a name yet. One name I was considering early on but that fell off the shortlist was Ralph (Rafe?), but I’m now considering it again. Would appreciate any opinions, is this cute and classic or are the pregnancy hormones getting to me?

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HeySnoodie · 12/04/2025 01:21

Love Rafe

Differentstarts · 12/04/2025 01:30

Everyone saying they like the name Rafe how do you even pronounce that is it rayfe or Raffey or Ralph or something else

EmpressaurusKitty · 12/04/2025 06:39

Differentstarts · 12/04/2025 01:30

Everyone saying they like the name Rafe how do you even pronounce that is it rayfe or Raffey or Ralph or something else

Rayf, to rhyme with safe.

homemadebasilpesto · 12/04/2025 06:43

WhoStoleTheTarts · 11/04/2025 17:04

So the Ralph/Rafe thing is because we’d be pronouncing it Rafe, so I don’t know if I’d spend the next 18 years correcting people’s pronunciation if everyone is going to assume it would be pronounced like Ralf.

I didn't know there was another way other than Ralf, as a pronunciation. I don't like the name but I did go to a school with a lovely Ralph. Nicest boy in the class, a real sweetie. Very kind. So it has good connotations for me.

jambunny · 12/04/2025 07:31

If you call him Ralph, people will call him Ralph, not Rafe.

WhoStoleTheTarts · 12/04/2025 09:33

pamshortsbrokenbothherlegs · 11/04/2025 21:43

I have a Rafe, we had the same thought re: the spelling, OP. I didn't want him to have a lifetime of saying "Ralph pronounced Rafe" and besides, it has a rather "aspirational" overtone that way that I wanted to avoid.

Oddly, it's by far the most popular of my three kids' names but we get loads of mispronunciations! Raffy and Raf-uh especially. I find myself saying "Rafe like safe" a lot. 😂

Still wouldn't change it, I love his name!

Yes I know what you mean about the aspirational overtone, that’s one of the main things that’s putting me off. That’s interesting about all the mispronunciations, I wouldn’t have thought it was difficult to pronounce at all!

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WhoStoleTheTarts · 12/04/2025 09:36

Thanks everyone for the input! I’ve always heard the Rafe pronunciation in the UK, I thought the Ralf pronunciation was more American but tbh I quite like both.

Anyway penises and vomiting aside, I still think it’s a nice name but I don’t know what this baby is going to be called 😂

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theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 14/04/2025 00:04

Melancholyflower · 11/04/2025 22:43

Is it? Because I’ve only ever heard of Ralph Fiennes pronouncing it that way.

Yes it is

The phonetic pronunciation is more recent

Agii · 14/04/2025 00:21

I’ve got one named Ralph. And his name is absolutely fine. Well, at least it is absolutely fine in Germany and Nordic countries. Disregard the bias.

Snorlaxo · 14/04/2025 00:27

I would avoid Ralph because of the Simpsons but Rafe/Rafa are great names.

The Simpsons is still on TV and more episodes are being created so it’s not an old reference.

Eenameenadeeka · 14/04/2025 00:41

I know a Rafe, that's how they spell it though. I think that's a lovely name. I didn't know that you could pronounce Ralph that way, might cause confusion

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