Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

Baby names

Find baby name inspiration and advice on the Mumsnet Baby Names forum.

Opinions on the name May?

42 replies

twofluffybunnies · 10/04/2025 01:10

May Arabella is what I’m thinking.

Opinions?

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
TheMadGardener · 10/04/2025 10:40

TaupeAndTeal · 10/04/2025 08:57

I think it’s very pretty!

I would be less concerned about her being born in May than pp. I see May as a name in its own right for some reason.

April and June however…. (I have a friend called April, it’s a very pretty name, but it drives me slightly mad that her birthday is in a different month)

Going off-topic re. your April story - I know someone called Thursday who was born on a Friday - insanity!!!

BootballJoy · 10/04/2025 12:21

I much prefer May Arabella to Arabella May. May as a first name is relatively unusual - really sweet and unfussy.

idrinkandiknowthings · 10/04/2025 12:23

I once knew a Mae and she was lovely. I prefer that spelling too.

Calliopespa · 10/04/2025 12:24

idrinkandiknowthings · 10/04/2025 12:23

I once knew a Mae and she was lovely. I prefer that spelling too.

I think I prefer this spelling as well.

RuthW · 10/04/2025 12:25

May is lovely however I personally don’t like names that can’t be shortened.

How about Maeve, shortened to Mae?

EcruCardigan · 10/04/2025 13:15

It's OK but a bit bland. I like that it can't be shortened. I prefer Mary, which May is a diminutive for.

The Mae and Mai spellings are bad, and I don't like Maeve.

Not what's being aske but I also dislike single syllable middle names. They seem pointless and it tends to be the same ones used for most children.

user2848502016 · 10/04/2025 13:39

It’s nice, pretty and classic - assuming she is due in May, if not it’s a bit weird

EcruCardigan · 10/04/2025 14:02

@user2848502016 , it's a diminutive of Mary, so can be used for a baby born in any month, but might get a comments about not being born in the month.

username462025 · 10/04/2025 17:05

This reply has been withdrawn

This has been withdrawn by MNHQ at the poster's request.

Scorpion84 · 10/04/2025 17:39

Soft spot for the name as it was nans middle name .

I considered as a middle name but was put off by all the hyphenated May names .

jjabrammms · 10/04/2025 17:56

I actually really like it! And the spelling Mae.

LilyJosephine · 10/04/2025 18:45

Stunning as a first name. I’ve never understood why May is so underused (as a first name) when fellow current ubiquitous middle names Rose and Grace are fairly popular as first names too.

May has everything going for it - quite international, easy to pronounce, currently fashionable (it fits all the trends as a retro name, a flower name AND a “nickname” style name) yet it still feels fairly classic and suits all ages. And of course she’ll also fit in at school, as at least a couple of the other girls in her class will probably have it as a middle name.

ETA: Arabella is nice enough but quite frilly in comparison imo. Personally I’d rather be a May than an Arabella and I’ve met so many Bella’s (pets and children). And no need to be born in the same month for May - it was traditionally a popular Victorian floral name (like Rose, Lily, Daisy etc) rather than especially associated with the Month like April or June.

HarpieDuJour · 10/04/2025 19:00

TheMadGardener · 10/04/2025 10:40

Going off-topic re. your April story - I know someone called Thursday who was born on a Friday - insanity!!!

I have a month name, and was not born in that month. I spent a lot of time explaining to adults that no, they did t know what month I was born in as a child.
May is a pretty name, easy to spell and I wish my bloody mother had called me May, because I actually was born in that month!

marshmallowfinder · 10/04/2025 19:01

It's a really dull and bland name.

BethDuttonBaby · 10/04/2025 19:02

It’s lovely. A classic that has stood the test of time

CherryRipe1 · 10/04/2025 19:29

My nan was May Isabella. May is a lovely name!

piscofrisco · 10/04/2025 21:07

I’ve got a Mae. Everyone says on these threads that it’s common and Boring. Yet I’ve only ever met two May/Mae’s in real life-one her and one a very lovely twinkly old lady I looked after when I first started work.
yes it’s overused as a middle name. But few people use their middle names anyway. May is a pretty month and a pretty name IMO.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page