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Theo or Adam....?

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Dahliasings91 · 25/02/2025 15:02

As per title, torn between the two names for DC3.

I know both are quite common, well used names.

Not keen on Theodore so it will just be Theo.

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BarnacleBeasley · 26/02/2025 12:30

I love Adam. I wanted to use it for DS2, but it got vetoed due to having no viable nicknames.

I would imagine it's probably more popular in London because it belongs to multiple traditions (Christian, Jewish, Muslim) and London is more diverse than other parts of the UK.

Dahliasrule · 26/02/2025 12:43

Emanwenym · 26/02/2025 07:28

@Moveoverdarlin Probably a 30 yr old, but it was probably unusual 50 years ago.
Babies called Adam in England & Wales since 1996

Theo/Theodore is far more likely to date. There are so many of them.
I much prefer Leo.

Yes, Emanwenym, it was very unusual 50 years ago. I have a 55 year old DS called Adam. I remember when he was about twelve years old in the park, turning around as someone had called ‘Adam’. It was to round up a little toddler and he was the first other Adam we had come across. We gave our DS a more nondescript second name in case he didn’t like it when he grew up but he is quite happy as an Adam.

Emanwenym · 26/02/2025 12:53

I have a name that wasn't popular in my age group. I was in a shop a few years ago and someone was calling my name. Her little girl had the same name.
Adam is nice - simple for a little boy but also manly.

BoleynMemories13 · 26/02/2025 20:04

pearbottomjeans · 26/02/2025 07:57

Much prefer Theo but so does everyone - it’s everywhere!

To me Adam is for a 30 year old. I’m a 90s baby and we had a Keith and a Martin in our year which are current 60 year old names if you ask me. Ie a generation older than they were, like Adam would be to a current newborn. Adam would be the male version of say, Becky. Not a problem, I know a primary aged David and Derek and Ian, but they are stand out.

It depends where you are, David is by far and away the most popular boy's name at my school (very popular among many Eastern European and African families). Adam is also fairly well used, being popular among both our Muslim and Polish families. Both are traditional classics, still well within the top 100 boys names in England and Wales. A young David or Adam now is nothing like a Keith being born 30 years ago.

For what it's worth, I know several Martins who are in the 30s too. I don't think that's unusual at all. Martin would be dated now, but not so much in the late 80s/early 90s. I'll give you Keith being woefully dated, even in the 80s!

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