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Abigail, Phoebe or somthing else?

52 replies

bogie · 09/05/2008 22:12

These are the 2 names me and dp have agreed on and I want to know which one everyone likes best.

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CristinaTheAstonishing · 09/05/2008 22:14

They are both pretty but I think I prefer Phoebe.

posieflump · 09/05/2008 22:15

Abigail is usually Abbie or Abby so it depends how you feel about that shortened version
Not much chance of shortening Phoebe...

Lizzylou · 09/05/2008 22:16

Oh, I like both (mother of two boys, who could only ever think of pretty girls names}

If pushed, think I would choose Phoebe, only because I know of another Abigail (DH's cousin's daughter)

Spidermama · 09/05/2008 22:16

They're both quite nice but I think of them both as being a bit prim.

I'd go for Abigail but then call her Abi.

Janni · 09/05/2008 22:17

I like Abigail and Abi is fine as a shortening of it.

LynetteScavo · 09/05/2008 22:18

Both are nice, but I prefer Phoebe.

BigBadMouse · 09/05/2008 22:19

Abigail is nicer IMO - even when shortened to Abi or Abie. I knew a phoebe who everyone seemed to shorten to 'Feeb'

ButterflyBessie · 09/05/2008 22:21

Phoebe is such a beautiful name, I wish it had 'gone' with our surname - lucky you

ElizabethBeresfordSW19 · 09/05/2008 22:23

I prefer Phoebe to Abigail. I like Abi and I like Gail, so I don't understand why I dislike Abigail. But I love Libby! which is like Abby but nicer. So Phoebe or Libby I'd say.

cyteen · 09/05/2008 23:07

I like Abigail more

tootiredtothink · 09/05/2008 23:14

Love them both, but prefer Phoebe

chopchopbusybusy · 09/05/2008 23:20

Like them both - Phoebe favourite though.

Posiflump - if it can't be shortened it will be lengthened - DD1s friend is Phoebes

branflake81 · 10/05/2008 06:10

Don't really like Phoebe, it sounds a bit pretentious. Abigail is nice though.

KelaH · 10/05/2008 06:23

I don't think Phoebe is pretentious - it is lovely, and not that common which is a plus - definately prefer it to Abigail

CocodeBear · 10/05/2008 06:25

I like Phoebe.

Not pretentious one bit.

I do remember a friend mispronouncing it Phoibe once (like foible but with no l) years ago.

Abigail is a bit bland IMO.

BexieID · 10/05/2008 06:27

Phoebe was on our girls shortlist, as was Chloe and Erin. A guy I used to work with had a Mini called Phoebe. Abigail is nice too.

Botbot · 10/05/2008 06:32

They're the names of Roy and Hayley Tuckers' daughters on the Archers! Both nice names though.

umberella · 10/05/2008 08:07

I have a Phoebe

branflake!!

I really like Abigail too.

umberella · 10/05/2008 08:10

I actually think Abigail goes better with Justin though.

..."Justin and Abigail" - sounds nice.

Re: nicknames, after we had named Phoebe, DP's cousin (13) told us that her best friend was also called Phoebe and they all shortened it to "Phub". Classy. Kids will always find something!

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belgo · 10/05/2008 08:25

Abigail is nice.

I don't see the appeal of Phoebe at all.

Buda · 10/05/2008 08:25

I like both but prefer Phoebe.

AbbeyA · 10/05/2008 08:28

I think that they are both nice. Abigail shortens nicely but with Phoebe you run the risk of her being known as Feebs, or similar.

CantSleepWontSleep · 10/05/2008 08:36

Phoebe.

Nancy66 · 10/05/2008 08:40

Phoebe is a great name - I'm a bit bias because it's what my 8 year old niece is called. She's the only one in her class compared to about half a dozen Chloes and Jessicas.

I always think of an old slapper when I think of an Abi - probably thanks to the likes of Abigail Clancy and Abi Titmuss