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How would you pronounce Esme?

165 replies

copynpaste · 28/01/2025 19:55

Would you pronounce it Ez-me

Or would you pronounce it Ez-may

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NattyTurtle59 · 29/01/2025 01:06

JC03745 · 28/01/2025 19:58

Ez-May

Its only on MN that I've been aware that people say EZ-ME! 😕

I don't live in the UK and it's always pronounced as Ez-may here. However I work with someone who moved here from the UK and she pronounces it Ez-me - and as far as I know she isn't a MNer. I think it's a UK thing (but obviously not everyone there).

purpleme12 · 29/01/2025 01:08

I've only heard it pronounced Ezmay

Eenameenadeeka · 29/01/2025 01:35

May

MarkingBad · 29/01/2025 01:36

Ez

MadisonAvenue · 29/01/2025 02:18

Ez-me.

I’ve only ever known one Esme, she’s in her 70s now, and that is how her name is pronounced.

USaYwHatNow · 29/01/2025 02:40

Ez-mee because there's no accent above the last e. If spelt Esmé then that changes the pronunciation to Ez-may

DPotter · 29/01/2025 03:13

The only Esme I have known pronounced it Es-Me. She was from Yorkshire if that makes any difference

BeaAndBen · 29/01/2025 03:54

Esme is Es-mee or Ez-mee. It’s been used in the U.K. since the 1600s, so it’s a good old name with plenty of heritage.

Esmée is Ez-may (well, not quite ay, but you know what I mean. Like the e acute is café) - French spelling and pronunciation

PuppyMonkey · 29/01/2025 07:26

There’s also a strong Scottish tradition with the name Esme, pronounced me at the end. I’ve been having this argument since 2007 when I named my daughter Esme. Grin

We hate hate hate the May ending. Sounds like Dismay.

bluebunnys · 29/01/2025 07:40

Esmé is actually the masculine spelling

Esmée is the feminine spelling.

Emanwenym · 29/01/2025 08:35

Esmy

thinktwice36 · 29/01/2025 08:38

Ez-May.

ezmee sounds a bit…..😳

thinktwice36 · 29/01/2025 08:39

PuppyMonkey · 29/01/2025 07:26

There’s also a strong Scottish tradition with the name Esme, pronounced me at the end. I’ve been having this argument since 2007 when I named my daughter Esme. Grin

We hate hate hate the May ending. Sounds like Dismay.

This Scot never heard of Es-Mee being acceptable 😂

PuppyMonkey · 29/01/2025 08:42

thinktwice36 · 29/01/2025 08:39

This Scot never heard of Es-Mee being acceptable 😂

Maybe you just need to get out more? Grin

HousedInMySoul · 29/01/2025 08:42

USaYwHatNow · 29/01/2025 02:40

Ez-mee because there's no accent above the last e. If spelt Esmé then that changes the pronunciation to Ez-may

Agree with this. If no accent, why would the 2nd E be pronounced with an ay sound? But then if the person whose name it was said 'actually it's esmay' I would then say it that way

bluebunnys · 29/01/2025 08:53

For those that want the Esmay pronunciation, why not spell it that way?

Why should Esme be pronounced like that? Even the French pronunciation of Esmé is not Esmay!

thinktwice36 · 29/01/2025 08:53

PuppyMonkey · 29/01/2025 08:42

Maybe you just need to get out more? Grin

very much depends where..

thinktwice36 · 29/01/2025 08:54

bluebunnys · 29/01/2025 08:53

For those that want the Esmay pronunciation, why not spell it that way?

Why should Esme be pronounced like that? Even the French pronunciation of Esmé is not Esmay!

What is the actual (ie correct) French pronunciation?

bluebunnys · 29/01/2025 08:57

The french pronunciation of Esmé is more Esmeh than Esmay. Hard to describe in words, but try googling a native french pronunciation.

JC03745 · 29/01/2025 09:51

NattyTurtle59 · 29/01/2025 01:06

I don't live in the UK and it's always pronounced as Ez-may here. However I work with someone who moved here from the UK and she pronounces it Ez-me - and as far as I know she isn't a MNer. I think it's a UK thing (but obviously not everyone there).

I too was born abroad and moved to the UK 20yrs ago. Growing up, I knew of many elderly ladies who all pronounced it Ez-may. Its only recently, on MN, I've ever heard of the Ez-Mee pronunciation, but maybe it is more common in the UK than I knew?

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 29/01/2025 11:38

Ez-May

Sandyview · 29/01/2025 11:50

Ez may

RuthW · 29/01/2025 12:22

Ez-mee.

I really dislike it Ez-may

RuthW · 29/01/2025 12:23

And Ez-May is the new fangled way of saying it

Completelyjo · 29/01/2025 12:36

RuthW · 29/01/2025 12:23

And Ez-May is the new fangled way of saying it

It’s really not.

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