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Struggling to pick a name for our 4 day old

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Luckyasall · 20/12/2024 15:09

DH and I welcome our lovely little baby girl into the world 4 days ago, before she was born we had a list of names we liked but decided to wait until she was here to decide for sure, but now we still can't quite decide and I'm not sure how much longer I can go on calling her baby girl!

Our shortlist is
Leonora (personal favourite)
Arabella (DHs personal favourite)
Clara (seasonal contender, we go to see the nutcracker every year and baby girl was born on the day we were due to go see it this year)
Madeleine (really not a fan of Maddy as a nickname).

My personal choice would be Leonora with Clara as a middle name in place of using Elizabeth (both of our grandmas are Elizabeth but I'm not really attached to using this and it feels like we are filling a gap).

So full name Leonora Clara Taylor-Scott

But DH is worried it doesn't flow well so thinks either

Arabella Clara or Clara Arabella would be better.

Madeleine is the name we first set on naming a little girl when we got married and started TTC but I'm not sure it feels right now.

Any thoughts?

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Microgal · 20/12/2024 17:48

anjtger vote for Clara Elizabeth. It flows better than all the rest to be honest

RaininSummer · 20/12/2024 17:51

I like Clara Elizabeth as it has meaning for you both.

Zephyry · 20/12/2024 17:54

Leonora Clara is lovely, you don't often say the names together so it's not much of an issue. However, Elizabeth has meaning so I would go with that if you aren't sure about the flow of Leonora Clara.
What about Leonora Elizabeth Clara? Two middle names not uncommon
I don't like Arabella at all

WaltzingWaters · 20/12/2024 17:55

Clara Elizabeth for sure. Lovely that both your grandmas are Elizabeth so the middle name has meaning. I love the name Clara, and the missing the nutcracker because you were giving birth to her gives the name a lovely little story!
Arabella Clara (or vice versa) is definitely too ‘a’ heavy. As is Leonora Clara, though not quite as badly.

Puddlelane123 · 20/12/2024 17:59

I’d go with Clara, no question. Absolutely beautiful, under used, and flows beautifully with surname. Elizabeth for middle name.

OSU · 20/12/2024 18:01

People are very rarely are going to say the whole name so go with whatever you want and don't worry about the a issue.

Clara Arabella Taylor Scott I like the best.

Not a mad fan of Leonora - would it get shortened to Nora and would you mind?

Clara wouldn't get shortened. Arabella likely to be shortened to
Bella which is nice.

Luckyasall · 20/12/2024 18:04

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 20/12/2024 17:06

Leonora - bit like laundry softener
Arabella - super posh
Clara - literally a million of them in school.
Madeleine - yeah MMcann connotations.

Cleo is nice (and a bit like Leonora). Cleo Arabella.

I don't think Cleo could be further from our taste if it tried!

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HPandthelastwish · 20/12/2024 18:09

DD has a hyphenated name and 2 long first and middle (8, 6, 8-6), she hates it. She has more letters just in her first name than her friend does in her whole one so on that basis Id go for a shorter first and middle.

She also has a _belle name and thinks it's too feminine and doesn't suit her. She would have been a good Harriet in hindsight.

Linnet · 20/12/2024 18:09

Clara is a lovely name so I think Clara Elizabeth or Clara Leonora.

winkygirl · 20/12/2024 18:15

My DD is Madeleine. She is known as Maddie but has more recently gone by Mads which suits her.

Luckyasall · 20/12/2024 18:17

After a little more back and forth and a nap. I think we are going to go with Clara Elizabeth. DH pointed out that I've only just started like Leonora as a name but I've liked Clara for a long time. I also love that both Clara and Elizabeth have meaning/a little story to go with.

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Olika · 20/12/2024 18:19

Clara Elizabeth is great. And congratulations! 💞

emmax1980 · 20/12/2024 18:26

Leonora sounds nice

lemoncrisp · 20/12/2024 18:28

I have a Clara Elizabeth - she's over 30 now and I still love her name. She loves it too.

RuthW · 20/12/2024 18:35

Leonora Elizabeth is absolutely lovely.

Clara and Arabella are nice but popular.

Madeline I don't like.

Dcbjgfdh · 20/12/2024 18:39

Clara Elizabeth is gorgeous. I love names with sentiment behind them,

CurlewKate · 20/12/2024 18:40

Co an I put in a last minute vote for Clare, rather than Clara? For no real reason except the I like it better🤣and it's more unusual.....

RosesAndHellebores · 20/12/2024 18:44

Leonora Elizabeth works for me. Lets also works as a nn.

Mintupp · 20/12/2024 18:44

Congratulations!

Clara Elizabeth - just lovely!!

strawberry2017 · 20/12/2024 18:51

Leonora makes me think of lenor fabric softener. Not remotely a fan. Clara is lovely.

Moreteaandchocolate · 20/12/2024 18:59

Luckyasall · 20/12/2024 18:17

After a little more back and forth and a nap. I think we are going to go with Clara Elizabeth. DH pointed out that I've only just started like Leonora as a name but I've liked Clara for a long time. I also love that both Clara and Elizabeth have meaning/a little story to go with.

Clara Elizabeth is perfect - love it!

Xmastree5 · 20/12/2024 19:00

Clara Elizabeth is a lovely choice. I'd definitely use Clara if I had another DD!

momofonex · 20/12/2024 19:11

Arabella is definitely my favourite

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AUDHD · 20/12/2024 19:18

Clara Elizabeth is perfect