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Valeria, Lilian or Vivian? For a girl!

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Sparklingroses · 27/01/2024 21:39

Which one do you prefer?

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Grazyna80 · 28/01/2024 19:41

Vivian ! It’s beautiful.

MaloneMeadow · 28/01/2024 19:42

nameXname · 28/01/2024 19:30

Vivienne sounds the opposite of classy to me.
The standard female spelling is Vivien. Simple and elegant.

I knew an utterly admirable Holocaust survivor named Valeria. It's a very dignified ancient Roman name and she continued that dignity and strength and added compassion and humanity, in spite of all. Whenever I hear the name, I think of her.

Unsure how this is possible me for you as Vivienne sounds the exact same as Vivien? I know both.

sprigatito · 28/01/2024 19:44

I prefer Vivian to Valeria, they're both pretty but Viv is nicer than Val. Lilian is lovely, but it will be shortened to Lily which is a bit ubiquitous (you may not mind that!)

But they're all gorgeous names, so whichever you choose will be fine.

DuchessOfSausage · 28/01/2024 19:56

@MaloneMeadow , Vivienne can be VIV-yen or Vivvy-EN

MaloneMeadow · 28/01/2024 20:07

DuchessOfSausage · 28/01/2024 19:56

@MaloneMeadow , Vivienne can be VIV-yen or Vivvy-EN

Both the Vivienne and Vivien that I know are VIV-y-en

nameXname · 29/01/2024 19:50

@MaloneMeadow
It's the unnecessary frilly spelling - it's just not needed in English, as your comment shows. The same applies - in my opinion - to Annabel and Isabel/Isobel, and to Juliet. No need for doubled-consonants-plus-an-e at the end. Plain and simple is almost always more elegant, IMHO.

DuchessOfSausage · 29/01/2024 21:01

@nameXname , Faye and Fearne could go on that list and one I saw today, Aleighcia

KayEmAy · 30/01/2024 15:23

Valeria <3

xTheLoudLeaderx · 31/07/2024 23:04

Vivian is so cool ! Definitely my favourite ! X

43ontherocksporfavor · 01/08/2024 07:33

Vivienne or Vivian. But love them all.

OlympicsFanGirl · 01/08/2024 07:33

Vivian

Firsttimebabymummy · 01/08/2024 08:43

Vivian followed by Lilian

ComealongMartha · 01/08/2024 08:45

Vivienne is beautiful.

user1492757084 · 01/08/2024 14:29

Vivian is mostly a boys' name.
Example.. Sir Isaac Vivian Alexander Richards (Viv).

Vivien and Vivienne are my favourites, inspired from your list.

Theoldwoman · 01/08/2024 14:32

Lillian

TheYearOfSmallThings · 01/08/2024 14:34

I like Vivienne, don't like Lillian. Valeria is nice if you come from a country where it is used - for a child in the UK I would assume there was some connection with one of those countries.

FayCarew · 01/08/2024 14:47

Valeria makes me think of Venereal. Lillian is grannyish and not in a good way. Vivian sounds like one of The Young Ones.

Vivienne is popular on here but I'm not keen Vivien makes me think of someone about 70. The Vivian spelling is for boys.

Seaglassandchampagne · 01/08/2024 15:09

Valeria is a bit ‘heroine in a fairy smut romance novel’ for my liking. Lillian and Vivian are both beautiful, I like Vivian especially.

Hannahspeltbackwards · 01/08/2024 15:24

Valeria is beautiful.

CruCru · 01/08/2024 21:59

I don’t like Vivian because the spelling causes confusion. Vivian is that guy from the Young ones. Vivien is okay but some people will spell it Vivienne. Will that bother you?

Lilian is nice. If people spell / pronounce it Lily-Ann, will that annoy you? People are annoying and someone will do that.

I like Valeria. I actually love Valerian when it appears in my garden.

Jins · 01/08/2024 22:17

Anything but Lilian. 90% of the time it’ll be spelled Lillian. Shortening it to Lily is vaguely ok apart from the fact that there’ll be loads of them around and shortening it to Lil is going to make people my age have a mental picture of fag ash lil, a deeply unfunny comedy character.

I hate the name. Don’t ask why 🤣

salamithumbs · 01/08/2024 22:45

Vivian, but I would spell it Vivienne!
Valeria makes me think of malaria

GoldenLegend · 02/08/2024 16:38

Valeria is lovely. The only Lilian I’ve ever known was rough as a badger’s arse so no to that.

timoteigirl · 02/08/2024 17:46

Throwing Verena into the options pool.

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