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Is it possible to change a babies name AFTER you have registered the birth???

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needtoasksomething · 17/03/2008 12:02

What are the rules on this? Is it 100% too late?? Baby is 4 weeks old, was registered 2 weeks ago....

Long story and got baby in one arm and toddler wanting my attention so cant post all detsils now! but would really appreciate some advice on this if anyone knows!!

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ruddynorah · 17/03/2008 12:03

you'd have to do a deed poll i think.

belgo · 17/03/2008 12:03

yes, in the UK you can change the baby's name. I believe up until one year, but I'm not sure.

If you are sure, do it as soon as possible

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 17/03/2008 12:04

yes its pips

you just nip a;ong to the register ofice within one year of the date of REGISTRATION not birth and they alter it for you for a small fee

we did it - to change one letter in the spelling of ds name and it could not have been easier

PortAndLemon · 17/03/2008 12:05

Yes, if they are still under a year old, but only once I think. I'll look up the details for you.

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 17/03/2008 12:05

i think its 12 months from registration

PortAndLemon · 17/03/2008 12:10

The law allows for a change to a child's forenames to be added to the birth register, provided the new forenames were given either in baptism or by regular use within 12 months of the birth being registered.

The new forenames may be added to the birth record after 12 months, but you will need to provide documentary evidence that the new forenames were in use within 12 months of registration.

Forename changes may only be made once in the birth register ? any later forename changes cannot be recorded.

The new forenames are written in the space at the end of the birth record.

If your child was baptised in a Christian church, form 13 (Certificate of name Given In Baptism) ? or form 13W for births which took place in Wales ? will need to be completed by the vicar or minister of the church where the baptism took place, who will make a small charge.

If your child has not been baptised, you will need to complete a form 14 (Certificate of name given not in baptism, sometimes known as a Certificate of naming) ? or form 14W for births which took place in Wales.

The completed form should be returned to the register office where the child?s birth was registered. There is no charge for adding the new names to the birth register, but you will need to buy certificates showing the new forenames. Short versions show just the new name with the date and place of birth but full certificates will also show details of the previous name shown at the top of the record, with the new name appearing in full in the space at the end of the record.

PaulaYatesBiggestFan · 17/03/2008 12:16

no one asked any questions by the way they just did it - that all sounds very formal and difficult and it was not!

needtoasksomething · 17/03/2008 12:19

Thank you very much, really appreciate the info!

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belgo · 17/03/2008 12:21

you have to tell us the names now!

PortAndLemon · 17/03/2008 12:21

Those are just the rules about which form you need to fill in and where they put them on the register (so, for example, you can't obliterate in perpetuity all evidence that in a post-birth hormone-induced fuddle you originally thought it was a good idea to name your DD Shaznay-Chanterelle).

All you actually have to do is fill in the form and give it to them, and presumably if you attend on site they'll fill in the form for you.

The more complicated stuff is around that apparently you can change the registration after more than 12 months have elapsed, provided that you changed the name itself within 12 months -- which is interesting as I know my parents didn't get my sister's extra middle name added to her registration record because they thought there was a 12-month cutoff, whereas as she got it at her baptism before 12 months they could presumably get it added in now (hmm... she's 25 so it may be a little late... )

needtoasksomething · 17/03/2008 14:14

Ok, here's the lowdown on why I'm asking for the info!

I posted this a couple of weeks ago as had an idea that DH didnt like DS2's name (I chose it myself at last minute to summarise!)

Since then he has made it obvious with several different comments at different times that he really doesnt like it and admitted that he had agreed only in the heat of the moment as I had just given birth!

Its really been getting me down tbh and as much as I love DS2's name, it makes me so sad that DH doesnt like it that I am thinking of having 'the big talk' with him tonight and offering to change it if he wants to
I cant bear the comments and the fact that he quite often 'corrects' me when I call DS2 by the short version of his name (he dislikes the full name less than he dislikes the short version)

I namechanged as I was a bit embarassed and wondered if people would think me stupid for asking about changing my baby's name (never heard of anyone doing it before!)

Not sure if i'm doing the right thing, or even what else I could do, but thats the full story....

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3NAB · 17/03/2008 14:22

TBH I would talk again and change the name to one you both love 100%.

Be prepared for lots of comments from other people so be sure in your own mind what you are doing but it really is no one elses business but yours and your husbands.

I don't particulary like Teddy for a name, but that is irrelevant, and think Edward is great and so is Leo.

needtoasksomething · 17/03/2008 16:39

Well I've started the ball rolling...

Have sent DH an email saying how I feel and that I want to talk it through with him this evening....cant chicken out that way! plus I can say it all clearly in an email without crying all the way through saying it (new baby hormones - I cry at everything!)

Will update tomorrow on what our decision is ..

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belgo · 17/03/2008 17:10

needtoasksomething - I also often communicate with dh over email.

I hope you reach a conclusion tonight!

3NAB · 18/03/2008 11:42

How did it go?

needtoasksomething · 18/03/2008 14:12

Well it went ok I think!

We are not going to change his name , so he is staying an Edward, which obviously I am very happy about. DH has said that he has got more used to the name over the last 4 weeks and that DS2 has grown into the name iyswim. He cant really imagine calling him something different now.

He was pretty scathing about the short name 'Teddy' but has said he is getting used to 'Ted' as much as he is getting used to Edward...

so I am going to call him Ted rather than Teddy from now on and DH is going to make an effort to call him Ted rather than Edward... hopefully leading to less confusion all round!

I'm still a bit annoyed with him for not being honest in the first place because I think it has caused more upset in the long run. He is still a bit annoyed at me as well as he is convinced that I knew how strongly he felt against the name before I decided on it (but if that was true why on earth would I have chosen it? ) but hopefully these annoyances will fade over time and be forgotten.....

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needtoasksomething · 18/03/2008 14:14

I just really hope that we have come to the right decision and that DH will get more and more used to the name over time.
I'd hate for DS2 to know later on that DH never liked his name...

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belgo · 18/03/2008 16:16

I'm sure he will get used to the name, in the same way I got used to DD2's name (chosen by dh, but we hadn't discussed it much prior to the birth).

You gave him the opportunity to change it, but he didn't take it, so that must be a good sign. Edward is a very traditional, normal english name, not whacky or way out, so I'm sure it will be fine.

PuppyMonkey · 18/03/2008 16:20

Ted's a really cool name imho

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