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Barbara

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user2468101214 · 04/08/2023 20:27

Due little girl April 2024

Always had a soft spot for the name.

I understand it's following the 'old granny' comeback trend.

(I may be thinking too deeply but can see this name becoming more popular soon due to new Barbie film)

Thoughts please? TIA

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 05/08/2023 18:51

What a lot of extreme language on this thread! Horrific? Really? It's just a name. I've known several Barbaras my age (early 60s now) but I think its heyday in the UK and the US was a bit earlier. Like my own name, it was a lot less popular by the 1960s, but still popped up.

Names of girls in my year at secondary school: Caroline, Kate (Katherine), Jane, Kathy (Kathryn), Rebecca, Gillian, Lesley, Lianne, Sue (Suzanne), Sally, Anita, Claire, Julia, Margaret, Becky (Rebecca), Cathy (Catherine), Clare, Rosalind, Suzanne, Fiona, Alison, Susan, Nicola, Charlotte, Amanda, Janet, Hilary, Ginny (Virginia), Barbara, Michelle, Shirley, Victoria, Judith, Jocelyn, Joanne, Joanna, Tracy, Sharon, Tanya, Rosemary, Leigh, Jacqueline, Carol, Elizabeth, Emma, Ruth, Diane, Helen, Jill, Kay, Kirstie, Angela, Deborah, Julie, Sarah, Pamela, Katrina, Kirsty. (I have a list from a reunion. I've omitted a couple of unusual names.)

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 05/08/2023 18:54

Also, if we're looking for precious stones to use as baby names, I wonder why Onyx has never caught on. I rather like it. Jasper is underused too.

Maireas · 05/08/2023 18:55

Yes, Jasper is a nice name. I once taught an Emerald, which I thought was lovely.

fatherliamdeliverance · 05/08/2023 19:05

PossiblyNotOne · 05/08/2023 12:18

It’s the sort of name I can imagine a teenager saying ‘what the fuck did you make me that for?’

I said that regularly and have the most innocuous classic name you can imagine. Love it now, simple and elegant. Teenager behaviour.

EmmaPaella · 05/08/2023 20:14

fatherliamdeliverance · 05/08/2023 19:05

I said that regularly and have the most innocuous classic name you can imagine. Love it now, simple and elegant. Teenager behaviour.

Indeed I am called one of the most popular names of recent decades yet still announced to my mother I wanted to be called a different name. It lasted a day.

EmmaPaella · 05/08/2023 20:14

There was supposed to be a full stop after that Indeed by the way…

TooOldForThisNonsense · 05/08/2023 20:15

It’s a no from me but that’s because I have a horrible aunt of that name. Also the shortening Babs is awful

ClaraBean · 05/08/2023 21:46

I adore Barbara. It was on our list for dd, along with Shirley and Maureen. We went with Shirley in the end, but Barbara would definitely be in the running if we're lucky enough to have another.

UsernameIsHarderThanBabyName · 05/08/2023 22:13

Lovely name

NeverGoodEnough21 · 05/08/2023 22:57

Sorry OP, but It's ghastly. Right up there with Ethel. I can't imagine if I had a baby named Barbara and everyone cooing over her when she's first born "ooh baby Barbara aren't you cute!!" It's just weird

Maireas · 06/08/2023 05:49

But you don't name a baby, you name a person. I think, particularly with girls, this leads to all the "cutesy" names which don't suit adults.

merrymelodies · 06/08/2023 05:51

I like Barbara.

hattie43 · 06/08/2023 05:56

Horrible . Very harsh sounding name .

rwalker · 06/08/2023 06:03

I like it it makes me laugh
not sure your child would thank you in later life for calling her that though

howaboutnextweek · 06/08/2023 06:08

100% NO!!!!

Divebar2021 · 06/08/2023 07:02

I think context is everything - the Barbara I know is Portuguese with long dark hair and lovely accent. Barbara Mitchell is born into a family of actors / writers / presenters and professional poker players…. Pretty cool. It all off-sets the frumpiness of the name in the same way Pearl Lowe off-set her old fashioned name with a rock and roll lifestyle ( although I think Pearl is much nicer than Barbara). If you live in suburbia and you have quite an ordinary lifestyle then it’s not elevated at all.

Maireas · 06/08/2023 07:18

Mabel and Elsie have become quite common, and I don't think they're any more attractive as names.

KirstenBlest · 06/08/2023 12:44

PuffyShirt · 05/08/2023 18:03

Beryl is even more horrific than Barbara 😂

I have an Auntie Babs, Auntie Barbara (not a real aunt but that's what we call her) and an Auntie Beryl. Not horrific names, just a bit old fashioned.

barbarahunter · 06/08/2023 12:50

Brilliant name 😁

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 06/08/2023 13:04

Plenty of good associations with the name Barbara. Here are three.

Barbara Stanwyck - if you've never seen Double Indemnity, you should. Terrific actor.
Barbra Streisand (N.B. spelling is her choice)
Barbara Castle, Labour politician - we owe her a lot - seatbelts, breathalysers, other road safety measures -and the Equal Pay Act! a huge step forward for women. Many other achievements.

KirstenBlest · 06/08/2023 13:16

Barbara Broccoli
Barbara Windsor
Barbara Bach
Barbara Bush
Barbara Royle

Maireas · 06/08/2023 13:37

Barbara Castle, yes @Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g .
A very underrated politician.

Longdarkcloud · 06/08/2023 22:18

Someone I knew called her cat Barbara and we all fell about laughing.
However I think it’s quite okay for a little girl and is a name that suits older women, too.

BungleandGeorge · 06/08/2023 22:35

I don’t think it’s going to get wildly popular due to the barbie movie but those types of names will start being used again so likely to get more popular. I think it’s fine. I think it’s brilliant as a cat name though!

continentallentil · 07/08/2023 09:49

It probably is coming back

It’s ok. Barbie is a nice nn

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