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Shay or Chase?

113 replies

ShayOrChase · 27/06/2023 13:45

I know that they're marmite names but which do you prefer for a boy?

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SleepingStandingUp · 29/06/2023 22:26

If these were the only two names in the world, Shay.

sanityisamyth · 29/06/2023 22:45

Neither.

mathanxiety · 30/06/2023 19:44

@TimeToMoveIt
Do you mean what's wrong with being named after a bank, or having a comedy name?

Watchinghurling · 30/06/2023 19:45

Shay is a classic Irish name. I like it but I prefer Shane.

Derrymum123 · 30/06/2023 20:00

Séamus or Shane, shortened to Shay if you must. Good strong names. Not keen on Chase tbh.

MyTruthIsOut · 01/07/2023 14:56

You absolutely cannot name your child Chase! They will be teased relentlessly about Paw Patrol!! Can you imagine how many times he’d have the theme tune sang at him?!

I do like Shay though 👍

KayEmAy · 03/07/2023 19:43

Love Shay!

KayEmAy · 03/07/2023 19:44

@Watchinghurling out of curiosity is Shay considered a boy name or more neutral?

MouseSculptureMadeOfOldHairbrushFluff · 04/07/2023 00:05

KayEmAy · 03/07/2023 19:44

@Watchinghurling out of curiosity is Shay considered a boy name or more neutral?

Exclusively a boys name in Ireland

Puppyseahorse · 04/07/2023 00:13

Yikes! Seamus and Shay for short? Charles and Chase for short, if you really must?

frenchfancy81 · 04/07/2023 00:20

Puppies

Smallonesaremorejuicy · 04/07/2023 01:51

Really like both , but Shay would be the one I would choose 💐

BritInAus · 04/07/2023 02:15

Chase?
For a human child?

miraveille · 04/07/2023 04:28

Shay is a girls name

Simonjt · 04/07/2023 06:01

miraveille · 04/07/2023 04:28

Shay is a girls name

In South Asia Shay is exclusively a boys name.

user1492757084 · 04/07/2023 06:21

Seamus and Shay and Shannon are fine boys' names.
Chase seems okay for a cartoon.

Also there is Chas which I like and is a nick name for Charles.
I know of a young man called Chance! who has an Uncle called Lance!

Goldencup · 04/07/2023 06:27

I see OP hasn't been back. Where I live these would be very working class names, possibly with a hint of Irish Traveller heritage. If that is your demographic then fine, but in the UK they have definite social connotations. Mumsnet is populated by articulate, degree educated middle class women, they would not use these names.

CrazyArmadilloLady · 04/07/2023 06:38

TimeToMoveIt · 29/06/2023 21:55

What's wrong with that?

Well, if you’re not into cowboys….?

SpringIntoChaos · 04/07/2023 06:42

Just no...neither of these. No.

St0nehenge · 04/07/2023 06:46

Goldencup · 04/07/2023 06:27

I see OP hasn't been back. Where I live these would be very working class names, possibly with a hint of Irish Traveller heritage. If that is your demographic then fine, but in the UK they have definite social connotations. Mumsnet is populated by articulate, degree educated middle class women, they would not use these names.

You sound so ignorant. Shay is from Seamus, so, the same name as James or Hamish. Traditionally, travellers chose names like Margaret, Mary, Patrick, James, so whatever else you criticise them for, it shouldn't be their name choices.

Chase sounds too American for any of us to assess through the correct social lens. Chase might inherit a chain of banks. He might live on the upper East side. It might be their 'Arthur' which gets the mumsnet thumbs-up

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 04/07/2023 06:46

Chase reminds me of Falcon Crest

GoodChat · 04/07/2023 06:50

Shay sounds like a nickname. I thought Chase was a girls name but maybe it's unisex.

Simonjt · 04/07/2023 06:54

Goldencup · 04/07/2023 06:27

I see OP hasn't been back. Where I live these would be very working class names, possibly with a hint of Irish Traveller heritage. If that is your demographic then fine, but in the UK they have definite social connotations. Mumsnet is populated by articulate, degree educated middle class women, they would not use these names.

As a South Asian the name Shay is most definitely my demographic. I guess that means South Asians can’t be articulate, degree educated or middle class as Shay is a very popular boys name.

Maddy70 · 04/07/2023 07:10

Really not keen on either. Both are quite "chavy" I'm so sorry to be so rude and blunt but I'm a tea her and I'll know what I would think if I saw those names on any register

GlassWall · 04/07/2023 07:19

Goldencup · 04/07/2023 06:27

I see OP hasn't been back. Where I live these would be very working class names, possibly with a hint of Irish Traveller heritage. If that is your demographic then fine, but in the UK they have definite social connotations. Mumsnet is populated by articulate, degree educated middle class women, they would not use these names.

Thank you for being so upfront about your own ethnic prejudices. Loving the ‘hint’ of Irish Traveller.