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Help! Only 10 days to name baby and STUCK! Bethany maybe? Or???

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alrightbab · 05/05/2023 07:57

Hi everyone. Baby girl is coming next week and we’re not in the U.K. so only have a few days after the birth to register a name. Feeling the time pressure!

We’re really, really stuck for names. Husband and I can’t decide (or agree!)! His favourite is Emily, I don’t like it at all, I don’t know why (sorry Emily fans!). I like botanical names but loads of them don’t work with our surname. My favourite is Martha but husband doesn’t like it ☹️

The closest consensus we’ve got is Bethany but I don’t love it and I love the names we chose for our two boys (but maybe that’s because they’ve already ‘grown into’ them??)

Is it unrealistic to find a name I love? I don’t want to ‘settle’ for something and regret it later. This baby is our last (and only girl) so maybe I’m feeling/making a pressure that wasn’t previously there.

In no particular order this is our current list (though worth noting husband doesn’t like several of these and I’m feeling quite meh about many of them):

Estelle
Jemima
Mirabelle
Tabitha
Heidi
Rosemary
Emily
Lydia
Zoe
Bethany
Martha
Esther
Hazel

Middle name will be Madeleine. I’m not bothered about the first name flowing well with middle name, I find it more important that first and surnames go together. Our surname begins with T so first names ending in T or D don’t really work (imo).

Please help me with inspiration of other names we could consider. I’d really like something a bit more unusual but not off the wall (loads of us are trying to find that fine line, no?).

Thanks MNers!

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BMS1989 · 10/05/2023 08:48

Margot
Colette
Eliza
Cleo
Julietta/Etta
Rosa
Athena
Pippa
Dorothy/Dottie
Florence/Florrie
Monet
Alessia

rainbowstardrops · 10/05/2023 09:29

I'm not that keen on your list (sorry) but to each their own and all that.

I quite like Madeleine.

How about

Eden
Willow
Rowan
Rose
Daisy
Poppy
Fleur
Honey

BlossomJill · 21/05/2023 21:50

Hazel. Love it!

Gettingbysomehow · 21/05/2023 21:53

I love the name Bethany. I cant remember the last time I met someone with that name. I think its unique.

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