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Is Frankie truly gender neutral?

32 replies

NEC2678 · 28/03/2023 12:59

Or am I saddling my son with a girly nickname.
Frankie will only be a nn whilst he is young for everyone who will say he’ll need a more formal name on the BC

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TobiasForgesContactLense · 28/03/2023 13:01

I know both male and female children called Frankie (actually called Franklin and Francesca). At one point I would have assumed male if I saw the name but now would not assume.

TheBirdintheCave · 28/03/2023 13:01

Yes, Frankie is definitely gender neutral as there are names on both sides that it could be short for.

If I saw Frankie written down I wouldn't assume one way or the other.

Twoinapod · 28/03/2023 14:00

I’d be more likely to assume boy than girl

Twizbe · 28/03/2023 14:05

My mum is Frances known as Frankie. I always think of Frankie as a female nn and Frank as a male one.

Time40 · 28/03/2023 14:25

I would assume that Frankie was a girl

user1492757084 · 28/03/2023 14:30

Frankie is a nick name for boys and girls - Frances and Francesca and Frank and Francis.
It has also become widely used as a name outright, mostly for girls.

I think it is truly unisex - like Alex.

Reclining · 28/03/2023 14:31

Yeah gender neutral. Love it for a boy

pooroldEnga · 28/03/2023 14:33

I think its ok for both. Suits a boy just fine.

gogohmm · 28/03/2023 14:44

I would initially say it's a boys name so no it's definitely not a girls name

VeryQuaintIrene · 28/03/2023 14:46

My 2 week old niece is Frankie, for Frances (thus a girl).

pooroldEnga · 28/03/2023 14:48

Do you remember the pop singer from early 2000s Cassie? I saw on Instagram that she has a daughter called Frankie. I also know a Frank (bloke) who goes by Frankie. I honestly think it's totally fine either way

mathanxiety · 28/03/2023 14:49

What's wrong with a unisex name for a boy?

inappropriateraspberry · 28/03/2023 14:51

I now a boy Frankie. Not at all seen as a girly name. I'd assume boy over girl each time and think it more unusual for a girl to be called it.

Mumof1andacat · 28/03/2023 15:01

I would always give a baby a name which they can choose to shorten when they are older if they want to. So Francis (frank or frankie) Charles (Charlie) Edward (Ed, Teddy or ted)

GrinAndVomit · 28/03/2023 15:02

No more or less than Alex is

Honoraryuce · 28/03/2023 15:19

I'd say more for a girl than a boy but fairly gender neutral.

Mixkle · 28/03/2023 16:20

Yes, I know 3 Frankies, two female one male. Two primary age, one (female) middle aged.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 28/03/2023 18:25

I'm thinking.... I know/know of two boys and two girls called Frankie. I don't think I'd assume either way, . Maybe for an adult I'd assume a man. Maybe not, since I know adult Jamies and Johnnies.

drpet49 · 28/03/2023 18:26

Twoinapod · 28/03/2023 14:00

I’d be more likely to assume boy than girl

This. I’ve never known or met a female Frankie

PurpleAirGuitar · 28/03/2023 22:14

I've known one of each. The male Frankie was officially Frankie, the female one was short for Francesca. I think I'd assume a boy if I didn't know anything about the person apart from their name.

Luredbyapomegranate · 28/03/2023 22:25

Yes it’s a unisex nn for Francis or Frances, same as Alex is a unisex nn for Alexander or Alexandra (and various other versions of the names, obviously)

fairycupcakes · 29/03/2023 00:05

I would say so!

I can remember 2 from school. A boy and a girl and both of their names were just Frankie, not short for anything.

Climbles · 29/03/2023 00:07

I’d definitely think boy over girl

ourflagmeansdeath · 29/03/2023 23:38

Yes. I've known both and they both suited the name very well.

Train007 · 29/03/2023 23:42

The only Frankie I know is female…never occurred to me it was a boy’s name.