Hi everyone, hopeing someone here can help. So i dreamed of a baby girl forever had a DS and had no idea what i would call him, picked his name and adore it, i only ever had girls names picked never thought of a boys names overly much. Fast forward two years and we finally have a Dd, the name i always wanted at this stage was used by a family member so my husband was not willing to using it he said it felt wrong, i found it hard setting on DDs name
and we finally did i love her name but have had adults and kids say stuff about it and i find myself obsessing over what could be said to her about it when shes growing up, i feel like ive done something bad by given her this name. shes two now just feel kind of stuck. DH thinks im being silly but finding it really hard to overcome this. anyone else been like this? the name is an older name used for years i know a few kids with the same name but just still feel im obsessing over it daily i dont know if im being silly and to get over it and move on or what to do. any advice would be great!