We have such different choices of names 😂

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I always find naming part sooo hard but honestly me and DP can not agree on 1 single name we even vaguely both like 😅

these are the choices combined either he loves one and I don’t or vice versa 😂
polly
posie
penelope
sunny
violet
and vada
( middle name would be iris )

sonny
Spencer
Kit
bodhi
maverick
artie
sheldon
joey
Dexter
( middle name Jack or Arthur depending on name chose )

😅 like any of the above

Polly or Joey short for Joseph

I've seen an app called Kinder recommended on here. You both swipe on names independently and the app shows which match or something.

Posie and Violet are my favorites from your girls' names. I actually like Bodhi from the boys' names.

polly - like this
posie - love Posy (the correct spelling) which is on our list after Posy Fossil from Ballet Shoes. Posy means posy of flowers, Posie is a plural spelling
penelope - i dont like this and its too popular at the moment for me
sunny - dont like
violet - like this
and vada - also on our list. Love Vada

sonny - dont like
Spencer - dont like
Kit - like this
bodhi - i like this but its getting more popular by the day
maverick - no.
artie - cute
sheldon - no
joey - ok
Dexter - like this

Penelope and Violet are my favourite but not sure I'd pair Violet with Iris. My first thought for vada was darth vada. I don't mind most the boys names except Maverick and Sheldon.

Iris is a lovely second name.
I also like Arthur and Jack.

Inspired by your list I like:
Iris Penelope
Polly Sienna - Posie
Arthur Jack - Artie
Hector Jack

And for fun
Sonny Boy and Darth Vader
Violet Posie and Sunny Kitty

Penelope Iris is a lovely combo for a girls name, the only one I would chose from your list.

The boys names - none of them, sorry 😂 if you both like Jack and Arthur as middle names, why not use them both as a first and middle name? Arthur Jack sounds lovely.