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Lilou

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bellarosabella · 27/01/2023 06:04

Could you give me your thoughts on the French name Lilou?

We are thinking Chloe Lilou. Or maybe Sienna Lilou, Savannah Lilou.

It's pronounced lee-loo.

Any similar names you can suggest to Chloe and Lilou (in style not necessarily sound)?

Thanks

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JupiterFortified · 27/01/2023 13:37

I don’t like it purely because it sounds like a nickname rather than a real name? It also sounds very childlike to me so maybe not great as she grows older.

Chloe is lovely though. Maybe Chloe Lila or Chloe Lana x

HakunaMaToytes · 27/01/2023 13:41

Makes me think of Lilo and Stitch

bellarosabella · 27/01/2023 13:57

Mamoun · 27/01/2023 13:34

@bellarosabella
As a nickname for Louise or Emilie maybe but in France nicknames are not the same thing as they are in the UK. They are kept very much in the family setting and it would extremely unusual that someone called Louise, nicknamed Lilou at home, would use Lilou at school / with friends / outside the home. I can't think of any nickname used as a first name. Maybe the most obvious ones like "Benji" would be used by friends, but not at school, work or when first introduced...

I think Lilou isn't elegant at all as it sounds like a made up name trying to be cute but actually very try hard. Think Chanelle, Wynter, Kathrisha in English. Sorry if I am snobbish!

Obviously because you don't live in France it wouldn't affect you as much but since you asked for our thoughts...

Thank you!

Lilou was in the top 10 of most popular names in France, wasn't it? It's what I found online.

Not trying to say you aren't entitled to your opinion but top 10 feels pretty established to me and a name that high up would be used in all social classes to be able to make it so far up.

But of course personal opinions are always different. I feel the way about Harper you feel about Lilou even though it's popular too and probably used everywhere so I get what you mean.

But then again I also like Winter/Wynter ;) Everyone's different. Thanks for your input, I appreciate it!

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emmathedilemma · 27/01/2023 14:18

Chloe is lovely but Lilou is terrible, particularly after Chloe! There's just too many vowels and l's in it. It sounds like a character from a kids cartoon.....Chloe Lilou is a french child detective......

KirstenBlest · 27/01/2023 14:46

Lilou was in the top 10 of most popular names in France, wasn't it? It's what I found online.
I think you must have been looking at an unreliable baby name site or one for top french names for pets

LaLuz7 · 27/01/2023 14:47

I think it will not age well

LaLuz7 · 27/01/2023 14:51

KirstenBlest · 27/01/2023 14:46

Lilou was in the top 10 of most popular names in France, wasn't it? It's what I found online.
I think you must have been looking at an unreliable baby name site or one for top french names for pets

More like top 88

www.behindthename.com/top/lists/france#girls-table

bellarosabella · 27/01/2023 15:05

KirstenBlest · 27/01/2023 14:46

Lilou was in the top 10 of most popular names in France, wasn't it? It's what I found online.
I think you must have been looking at an unreliable baby name site or one for top french names for pets

No.

www.behindthename.com/top/lists/france/2010

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bellarosabella · 27/01/2023 15:06

It was a top 10 name: www.behindthename.com/top/lists/france/2010

That's why I wrote was not is.

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Soubriquet · 27/01/2023 15:07

Leeloo Dallas, multipass

BellatrixLestrangesHeatedCurlers · 27/01/2023 15:31

I don't think it goes with any of those first names. It sounds more like a nn than a full name. If you had Lucy or Lulu it would be better I think.

KirstenBlest · 27/01/2023 15:41

That's not a particularly reliable site, @bellarosabella .
You'd need to look at the ONS type site for France www.insee.fr/fr/statistiques/3532172

Sunshineandflipflops · 27/01/2023 15:44

I'm not keen, sorry. I'm sure it's widely used in France and I'm sure it also sounds better In French but some names just don't have the same ring to them English. Unless you live in France, which would maybe change my opinion but I'm still not keen.

It sounds a bit like a pet name for a small child, which is fine when they are a small child but not as an adult.

Chloe is fine though.

bellarosabella · 27/01/2023 16:02

KirstenBlest · 27/01/2023 15:41

That's not a particularly reliable site, @bellarosabella .
You'd need to look at the ONS type site for France www.insee.fr/fr/statistiques/3532172

If you had paid attention you would have seen that that's where behindthename gets its data from and it's actually a very reliable site.

It is even confirmed here but I guess you didn't bother?

It was a top 10 name: www.insee.fr/fr/statistiques/3532172

It's like you are going out of your way to prove people wrong without even checking. It's quite unpleasant.

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HelloBunny · 27/01/2023 16:07

Not saying this to upset to annoy you, OP. Honest opinion...

First thought is Lil-Lets.

FineThings · 27/01/2023 16:16

KirstenBlest · 27/01/2023 15:41

That's not a particularly reliable site, @bellarosabella .
You'd need to look at the ONS type site for France www.insee.fr/fr/statistiques/3532172

The OP is correct, on that very site it has Lilou as a top ten name in 2010
www.insee.fr/fr/statistiques/3532172

KirstenBlest · 27/01/2023 16:21

@bellarosabella @FineThings , I am basing my opinion on some of the entries on the BTN site in general, and I certainly found odd name suggestions on there
I'm not arguing about whether or not Lilou was a top 10 name in France in 2010.
It's not now.

As it happens, I did check, that's why I included the link. Being accused of something that is untrue isn't pleasant.

NoraLuka · 27/01/2023 16:36

I'm in France and can confirm that it is really popular, along with other Lou type names, Louane, Louna, etc. I don't think it stands out as posh/not posh, it's just an normal name. Louise is really old-fashioned in France and Lilou is a modernisation of it.

TheBestTeam · 27/01/2023 16:58

It's a middle name so it really really doesn't matter. No one apart from new parents and grandparents will ever use it.
I'm indifferent to it. I know a few Louise's that are called Lou.

lovelilies · 27/01/2023 17:13

TheBestTeam · 27/01/2023 16:58

It's a middle name so it really really doesn't matter. No one apart from new parents and grandparents will ever use it.
I'm indifferent to it. I know a few Louise's that are called Lou.

My point exactly.

Although by the look of it, OP only wants people to say "Oh yes it's a timeless French classic and will mark your cherub out to go onto great things".

helloelsie · 27/01/2023 17:15

What about Lila? Lee-la
That was my first choice

ReadtheReviews · 27/01/2023 17:19

Milla Jovovich Fifth Element

ColonelSpondleClagnut · 27/01/2023 17:47

Multipass!

bellarosabella · 28/01/2023 01:56

lovelilies · 27/01/2023 17:13

My point exactly.

Although by the look of it, OP only wants people to say "Oh yes it's a timeless French classic and will mark your cherub out to go onto great things".

No.

If you had paid attention you would have noticed that I didn't comment on a single negative opinion voiced respectfully such as that it makes people think of "loo" or "that it won't age well" because I respect opinions.

I do, however, not respect rude behaviour and people belittling me, saying I used the non-reliable data and then linking the exact same data.

There's a difference between politely voicing an opinion and being haughty and impolite.

Thanks to all the people who voiced their opinion in a respectful manner! I will simply ignore the rest from now on.

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whatausername · 28/01/2023 15:21

Thoughts as they came to me:

  1. I think of Oksana's disguise when she murders the asthmatic woman in Killing Eve.
  2. I (unsure why) have a very strong association with bichon frises and poodles.(Was it a comedy stereotype of idle rich women or overpampered dogs somewhere!?)
  3. It sounds a bit infantile over here, might be dated in France as it is from 13 years ago and definitely doesn't sound as nice as it does in a French accent.
  4. It's a middle name, nobody will ever know it unless you make a point of telling them.
  5. It's your child, it's not ridiculous and won't make her a laughing stock so go for it!
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