Narrowed 2 names for each sex, can't choose!

[elm26]

Surname is a pretty normal surname ending in "der" and our middle names are set after grandparents.

Aria
Tilly/Tillie (not sure if I prefer y or ie)

Joshua
Arthur

Help!

Aria and Josh.

Aria or Arthur. I love Matilda but not so much Tilly on it's owned

I like both your boy name options but prefer Joshua. Just love the sound.

I'm not a fan of Aria at all. I think it will date badly and seems a bit teenage mother-esque.

I also wouldn't use Tilly alone but it's nice enough as a NN. I think I would use it as a shortening of Ottilie

I don't like any of them, really, but forced to choose, Aria or Joshua.

Aria and Joshua.

Tilly needs a longer official form (Matilda, Ottilie etc) as it's so twee by itself.

You need to go with your heart. What do you like saying? Practising saying it multiple times. Everything else is subjective. I’ve met all sorts of names in scoops and at the end of the day, no one cares.

I like the sound of Joshua and like Tilly personally

Schools not scoops

i prefer Aria, because Tilly is to me a shortening/nickname.

I like both Joshua and Arthur, slight preference for Joshua, and Arthur is very popular round here.

Arthur as Joshua seems dated and to me.

Aria purely because its a full name. I feel like if you're going to be called Tilly your me should formally be Matilda. It's far to cutesy as a full name imo

Aria and Joshua get my vote