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WeasilyPleased · 01/06/2022 22:49

We already have DD Carys.
Boys
Adam
Alistair
Abraham (Bram)
Daniel
Rufus
Edwin

Girls
Eliza (worried about her being called Ellie)
Zadie
Sylvia
Tasmin ( not Tamsin)
Finnuala
Robyn

Thank you.

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KayEmAy · 02/06/2022 18:39

Love the name Carys!

Boys
Adam - strong, classic, great name
Alistair- I'm not a fan personally
Abraham (Bram) - I like Bram on it's own!
Daniel- Great name, love
Rufus- eh
Edwin - Love the nn Win!

Girls
Eliza (worried about her being called Ellie) - Love the name Eliza, I would have the exact same concern
Zadie - cute
Sylvia - I don't understand the hype on this one
Tasmin ( not Tamsin)- Tas is a cute nn
Finnuala - just go Finn
Robyn - I like it! I may like Raven more

Hazelnuttree · 02/06/2022 22:29

Carys is beautiful.

Adam - ok, bit meh
Alistair - ok
Abraham (Bram) - awful
Daniel - ok
Rufus - like
Edwin - nope

How about - Aidan, Fraser, Reuben, Bryn?

Eliza - bit dowdy, loads of Ellas, Ellies, Eleanors around
Zadie - like, reminds me of Zadie Smith
Sylvia - love
Tasmin - dislike, and will be called Tamsin all the time
Finnuala - awful
Robyn - like Robin, perhaps slightly dated though

How about - Jasmine, Serena, Sabrina, Nia, Erica, Erin, Ffion, Fern, Rowan?

Shmithecat2 · 02/06/2022 22:31

I love Daniel, like Finnuala, don't like the rest.

ahwobabob · 02/06/2022 22:51

Is that meant to be "fionnuala?" Not sure you can get away with using that name unless you're Irish...

mathanxiety · 02/06/2022 23:35

Sure she could, as long as she spells it right.

DacwMamYnDwad · 03/06/2022 08:30

If you want to misspell it, wouldn't Finola be simpler?

blameitonthecaffeine · 03/06/2022 15:18

Adam - very solid. Can't really go wrong with it. Suitable for all ages and places.
Alistair - like it. Make me think Scottish and 1990s but those aren't bad things!
Abraham (Bram) - Not so keen on Abraham. Bram is cool. Bram Stoker link?
Daniel - like Adam but a bit more 'now'. Fine.
Rufus - cool. Does kind of make think of a dog's name but I quite like it.
Edwin - prefer Edward but nothing against Edwin.

Eliza (worried about her being called Ellie) - there are 'El' names I like much better but it's fine and I don't think it's a natural candidate for Ellie.
Zadie - love this. Cool and quirky. Also love Sadie.
Sylvia - elegant and pretty. Maybe a bit old lady. Sylvie is a cute nickname.
Tasmin ( not Tamsin) - sounds a bit odd but that might be because my brain is trying to make it Tamsin.
Finnuala - I've seen so many spellings and pronunciations of this that I'm confused. The only one I've ever know was Fionnuala (said Fin-ooo-luh) which I like. But not sure it that's the same name.
Robyn - love it.

I don't love any of your boys names but think I would go with Adam as first choice.
For girls I'm torn between Zadie and Robyn but think Robyn is the better match for Carys.

ahwobabob · 05/06/2022 10:31

mathanxiety · 02/06/2022 23:35

Sure she could, as long as she spells it right.

In my opinion people look rather stupid using name from other cultures. Just like if she named her child Sven, Enrique or Ramesh.

saynotoo · 05/06/2022 11:22

I have a Silvia and no one has ever called her Silv. She gets called Silvia or Silvie.

WeasilyPleased · 05/06/2022 22:50

So sorry you think I'm stupid @ahwobabob. My dh has an Irish granny, cousins, uncles and aunts, one of which spells her name as I have spelt it. It's where we got the idea from.
Maybe you should ask about heritage before making yourself look stupid.
For the record, ours includes English Welsh Irish Scottish Swiss and Swedish so by your reckoning we could have Amanda, Mabli, Aine, Morven, Heidi or Astrid!

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whattodo2019 · 05/06/2022 23:42

Adam - no
Alistair - yes but prefer Alisdair
Abraham (Bram) - ???? what??? NO
Daniel - no
Rufus - ok
Edwin - hideous

Girls
Eliza (worried about her being called Ellie) - yea, i've never heard Ellie as a non
Zadie - umm not really
Sylvia - OMG you must joking!!
Tasmin ( not Tamsin)- NO however Tamsin is lovely
Finnuala - NO
Robyn -NO

I'm afraid i really don't like your name choices

mathanxiety · 06/06/2022 03:42

In my opinion people look rather stupid using name from other cultures. Just like if she named her child Sven, Enrique or Ramesh.

Or Margaret or Penelope or Miriam or Ingrid or Joshua or Felix or Marcus or Atticus. All their parents looking rather stupid...

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I do think the standard spelling Fionnuala is better than a misspelling, though.

mamaneedsanap33 · 06/06/2022 04:21

Not keen on any of your boys names sorry! Robyn is beautiful though, seems to be having a revival lately and the Y spelling is gorgeous too. Makes it more feminine in my opinion. Also goes well with Carys.

jadey1991 · 06/06/2022 04:42

Boys
Adam - don't like
Alistair -don't like
Abraham (Bram)
Daniel- okay
Rufus - don't like
Edwin- don't like

Girls
Eliza (worried about her being called Ellie)- like
Zadie- it's okay
Sylvia - don't like
Tasmin ( not Tamsin) - like
Finnuala -don't like
Robyn- like

What about reign for a girl
Josiah for a boy

KirstenBlest · 06/06/2022 13:32

mathanxiety · 06/06/2022 03:42

In my opinion people look rather stupid using name from other cultures. Just like if she named her child Sven, Enrique or Ramesh.

Or Margaret or Penelope or Miriam or Ingrid or Joshua or Felix or Marcus or Atticus. All their parents looking rather stupid...

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I do think the standard spelling Fionnuala is better than a misspelling, though.

I agree with @ahwobabob , @mathanxiety , and Margaret or Penelope or Miriam or Ingrid or Joshua or Felix or Marcus or Atticus are not closely linked to a certain culture, language or religion

AppleJack263 · 06/06/2022 13:40

Boys
Adam - aright
Alistair - meh
Abraham (Bram) - loveespecially with bram as a nn
Daniel - boring
Rufus - posh twat
Edwin - not keen

Girls
Eliza (worried about her being called Ellie) - love
Zadie - no too close to sadie
Sylvia - yes
Tasmin ( not Tamsin) - no too confuseing
Finnuala - no
Robyn - nice

fireandpaint · 06/06/2022 13:41

Rufus and Eliza for me

WeasilyPleased · 06/06/2022 23:30

Well thank you for the reasonable replies and I know Im hormonal but I got very upset being judged

  1. For choosing names inappropriate to my culture. See previous post as I have not.
  2. Misspelled dh's aunt's actual name with that actual spelling.
There really are some trolls just gagging to put you down on here.
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KirstenBlest · 07/06/2022 08:12

Don't be upset @WeasilyPleased , you asked for opinions and got some.

Re culture, I'd find siblings with very different names a bit strange. I'd think nothing of siblings with names from the same language, e.g. Carys & Ffion/Huw, but Carys & Eliza/Sven have such a different vibe.

I know someone with a German/scandi type first name (not Sven but something along those lines) and he gets asked an awful lot if he's half Swedish.His parents just liked the name

I know someone with a 'Fionnuala spelt differently' name and lots of people misspell it including her relatives. She's known by a nn

LiveSimply · 07/06/2022 21:25

Boys
Adam 8/10
Alistair 1/10
Abraham (Bram) 0/10
Daniel 9/10
Rufus 0/10
Edwin 0/10

Girls
Eliza (worried about her being called Ellie) 0/10
Zadie 0/10
Sylvia 6/10

Tasmin ( not Tamsin) 0/10
Finnuala 0/10
Robyn 6/10

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