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Jack, Alexander, Thomas or William

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Imtryingmybest123 · 24/05/2022 13:59

Which do you like for a first name and why?

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LivesinLondon2000 · 24/05/2022 17:42

Just noticed your oldest is Jacob

I quite like the sound of Jacob and Alexander. They go well together 😊

Imtryingmybest123 · 24/05/2022 18:10

Re middle names if Thomas it would likely be Alexander as a middle name, or if Alexander possibly James,

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DuchessOfSausage · 24/05/2022 18:23

T A followed by surname might make a word.
As much as i like the name James it is very popular as a middle name

BeatricePortinari · 24/05/2022 18:27

Thomas not shortened.
I love Thomas for a little boy so sweet.

The Tom is nice for a teenager and man.

DuchessOfSausage · 24/05/2022 18:29

surname initial. Be wary if your surname is Watt or Watson. School kids would not be kind to Thomas regardless of middle name

pinklavenders · 24/05/2022 18:39

Tom, Alex, Jack and William are all VERY popular - there's one in most classes in our secondary school.

Imtryingmybest123 · 24/05/2022 19:16

Ah thank you all for comments, really useful. Popularity of names doesn’t bother me at all for boys,
@DuchessOfSausage I’m probably being silly but I don’t understand what you said about the surname thing? (ours isn’t a W though but now I’m genuinely curious as to what you mean!) 😃

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DuchessOfSausage · 24/05/2022 19:36

Say your surname was Watt. Thomas Alexander Watt would be TA Watt or T Watt

Initials with surname or just initials might make a word. Thomas Alex Green would be TAG, Serena Lily Annabel Green might not like her name. Rory Aktins might be Ratkins ...

Imtryingmybest123 · 24/05/2022 19:51

Oh I see!!
🥴 Yes that would be bad!
I think it’s down to Tom or Alex …

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DuchessOfSausage · 24/05/2022 19:57

Rowan would not be good with the surname King

DuchessOfSausage · 24/05/2022 19:57

or Kerr

MassiveSalad22 · 24/05/2022 20:00

They’re all much of a muchness but I’ve really come round to Alex lately. I like the X sound and it has loads of options for shortening. I know a great young Al. Always liked William too, a Will is a nice guy.

cptartapp · 24/05/2022 20:12

James is nicer than them all.
James Alexander.

Dreikanter · 24/05/2022 20:15

Thomas William gives him lots of options to choose from as he gets older.

Imtryingmybest123 · 24/05/2022 20:24

I really don’t like Al, really hope he’d never be called that!

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Imtryingmybest123 · 24/05/2022 16:10

Also wondering if anyone would see Alex (as a unisex name) as a negative for a boy?

Confused

No.

MassiveSalad22 · 24/05/2022 21:08

Imtryingmybest123 · 24/05/2022 20:24

I really don’t like Al, really hope he’d never be called that!

I totally see that! But you can’t really prevent shortenings. People will always shorten even the shortest shortening 😄 Arabella - Bella - Bebe - B and so on 😄

pitterypattery00 · 24/05/2022 21:23

I love Alexander. Growing up (in Scotland) the two in my year were known as Alec and Sandy. I generally prefer two syllable names but Alexander is great.

Thomas is also a nice name. I like Tom but not keen on Tommy.

I like Jack too but agree it is much too similar to Jacob.

Not keen on William.

WeasilyPleased · 24/05/2022 22:33

Good names...all in my family. I like the. In this order. (The names not the people!)
Thomas
Jack
Alexander
William.
A friend of mine has a Tommy because she's a massive Who fan. Better than Keith or Roger

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 24/05/2022 22:53

All are really lovely choices but William (Will) would be my pick due to the most interesting namesakes imo.

But between Alexander and Thomas, I'd probably go Thomas - Tom's such as friendly sounding nn to me, where as I'm less keen on unisex Alex (I've known too many female ones).

LizzieBet14 · 24/05/2022 23:00

Love Tom! 🥰

MushyPeasPrincess · 24/05/2022 23:29

Alexander
Jack
Thomas
William

In that order. But with your update on Jacob you need to drop Jack definitely! Poor kid would think you couldn't be arsed coming up with an individual name for him.

IStandWithMaya · 24/05/2022 23:36

Alexander

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Imtryingmybest123 · 25/05/2022 08:57

Thanks everyone it’s useful to have everyone’s feedback, I love hearing what people think!

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