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Dual Nationality. Two Names

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Rosemary2022 · 23/04/2022 20:11

Does anyone use two baby names, or two variants of the same name in different countries?

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Thehundredthnamechange · 24/04/2022 16:06

Sorry, this was in reply to the comment about Chinese people choosing English names for themselves. They do, but they're not in any official documents at all.

Which is why it’s a useful solution. One legal name, but different everyday names for different cultural contexts.

CakesOfVersailles · 25/04/2022 00:48

I had a close friend growing up called Catherine. Her maternal grandparents and great aunts/uncles called her Caterina.

No one had a problem with it, it was like a nickname for her.

But I imagine it would be different if she didn't like it or if her parents took offence.

beetree1 · 25/04/2022 11:38

I'm friends with a Fijian family and they have names that still represent their culture but I guess more easier to pronounce in English. But their actual names on documents etc are more complex. I believe some of them have used their middle names for England or used a abbreviated version of their actual names.

They have moved from Fiji but the youngest daughter and son who were born here in England were given an English first name.

TheVanguardSix · 25/04/2022 11:43

Not sure if I'm answering your question, OP but whatever is on the birth cert, put it on every passport.
My kids have 3 passports. I don't deviate from their given names (much as I'd like to- DD and I really dislike her second middle name, chosen by her father).
With the latest British passport renewal, they took their sweet-ass time double-checking that my kids' names are the same on all of their passports. It's taken more than 10 weeks and I'm still waiting. The names matching up on all passports was a big deal this time. I've never had that issue before.

welliebootsandwheelbarrows · 25/04/2022 14:39

It used to be quite common in the Highlands of Scotland to have an English name on the birth certificate, but use the Gaelic form day to day. I.e. John on the birth certificate, but Ian day-to-day. My late grandfather used to call my son by the Gaelic version of his name.

Nowadays, if people want a Gaelic name they just put the Gaelic version on the birth certificate.

Luredbyapomegranate · 25/04/2022 15:12

No, I think it’s much harder to get away with these days, and could be a real headache for your kids as they grow up - as adults they would likely have to standardise to one version for paperwork.

We just picked names that worked in both and lived with the fact that the spelling was more standard in one country eg Anna and Emilie - even though in the other country it would be Ana and Emily it was common enough that it was fine.

OakleyStreetisnotinChelsea · 25/04/2022 15:16

My dc's names are pronounced differently but they just see that as normal. My name is pronounced differently too. More difficult when there is a wide gulf in convention but ours are just between 2 European countries so not take an issue.

gogohm · 25/04/2022 15:24

You need to ensure passports and birth certificate are the same - you have to show them all your passports these days. Nicknames can be used

EileenGC · 25/04/2022 15:27

I have two passports and until recently had my two surnames in the Spanish one, only one surname in the other.

It wasn’t that big of an issue until I started using both of them for work but in different countries. When doing tax returns or other paperwork, I needed to have it all in the same name and with the same amount of surnames, so I’ve added the second surname to my other passport now.

I imagine it would be the same for given or middle names. I’d make sure all documents show the exact same name just avoid this kind of mix up in the future, if the children were to use both passports / names professionally.

Marty13 · 25/04/2022 20:49

I'm a single parent from country A living in country B and my kids have biological ties to country C. I chose to use fairly international names (like Alex for instance). I used my country's spelling for the names where applicable. The names do get pronounced differently by different people but I really don't care, and I'm not sure why some people seem to think it's a big deal. Even the most common names have different sounds depending on the speaker's native language and accent.

I would give your child the name you plan on calling them in everyday life and let other people, friends, family members manage.

One of my DC is Mathias, which in my SIL's native language is pronounced differently (she'd pronounce the H, we don't). I honestly don't care. In the end she chose to use his nickname the way I say it (Matty).

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