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Boys Name Help: Which way round?

21 replies

sunshinesandybeachclearbluesea · 18/02/2022 20:28

Hi all,
I have a son called Noah.
Expecting another baby. Unsure of sex. Decided on Matilda "Tilly" Grace for a girl.
For a boy I really like the name Jacob. Struggled to find a middle name to go with Jacob. I kept coming back to Oscar, a name which I also loved before I had Noah. I'm really happy with both Jacob and Oscar and they are definitely "the ones".
However, I can't decide which was round sounds better:
Oscar Jacob or Jacob Oscar.
I think I'm leaning slightly towards Oscar Jacob.
Looking for some others opinions as to which way round looks and sounds best?
Thanks.

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PolkaSpace · 18/02/2022 20:30

Jacob Oscar

Samanabanana · 18/02/2022 20:34

Jacob Oscar

NoddingTulip · 18/02/2022 20:37

Jacob Oscar

Velvetbee · 18/02/2022 20:40

Jacob Oscar.

Derrymum123 · 18/02/2022 20:41

Jacob Oscar

CouncilHousedAndViolentBaby · 18/02/2022 20:43

Jacob Oscar

DogsAndGin · 18/02/2022 20:46

Think more about what you want him to be called - which will most likely be the name which comes first. The middle name will most likely be unknown to 99% of the people in his future life. If you like Oscar best, go with Oscar Jacob

bloominglovelyorange · 18/02/2022 20:47

Both ways round are lovely

sunshinesandybeachclearbluesea · 18/02/2022 21:15

@DogsAndGin I love them both equally. Also with my older son, about 75% of the time I do call him by his first and middle name. I very much feel like there isn't any point having a middle name if your not going to use it, so I make a point of using it. He also refers to himself by his first and middle Name too. I will do the same for this baby. Hope that makes sense.

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averythinline · 18/02/2022 21:22

Both names are lovely but think Oscar Jacob works better .....
Every Oscar i know has been lovely and would have used if worked better with my surname....

MaizeAmaze · 18/02/2022 21:25

I prefer Oscar Jacob.
Does your surname make a word with JO? Might that influence your choice?

Spiderinthedownstairsloo · 18/02/2022 21:27

I’m going to be very unhelpful here but they both sound lovely, I can see why you’re having trouble!

Arewethebadguys · 18/02/2022 21:29

Jacob Oscar. Makes more sense with Noah and Jacob both being biblical names. And it sounds better that way round.

Workin8til6 · 18/02/2022 21:36

Noah and Jacob are lovely.

Crunchysnap · 19/02/2022 05:26

Jacob Oscar.

Because I knew an Oliver Jacob and he went by OJ as a nickname and I just never liked it.

IAmSantaOhYesIAm · 19/02/2022 07:06

Do you like Jake as a nn? You may not use it but school friends will!
And as a pp said - what initial does your surname start with? Does JO - surname spell anything?

You have 2 lovely options. Wait until the baby is born and decide when you meet him/her.

PurpleMoon12 · 19/02/2022 07:44

Jacob is more 'in' and would probably fit better at school. It would probably be shortened to jake. I prefer Jacob as a first name

Mumofgirls2017 · 19/02/2022 08:30

Oscar Jacob sounds better, but
If you prefer Jacob as first I’d go for that as middle name not said together that often. Jacob Oscar is fine too

mugoftea456 · 19/02/2022 08:44

OJ for short !

sageandbasil · 19/02/2022 10:15

I prefer Oscar Jacob.. I also prefer Oscar as a first name.... why don't you wait and see what he looks like? We had 2 names for both and I knew what she looked like straight away x

DramaAlpaca · 19/02/2022 20:54

Oscar Jacob, but it depends which way round sounds best with the surname.

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