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Tom connotations put anyone off?

39 replies

Idontthinklikethat · 15/02/2022 21:39

Okay it may be hormones but…Tom Riddle? Tom tit? Tom foolery? I could go on, has this put anyone off the name and should it put me off this name (would be Thomas on bc but only called Tom)

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TooManyQuavers · 16/02/2022 17:29

God I forgot what a fantastic name Tom is. Just don't use it if your surname is Ato...or Bola.

KirstenBlest · 16/02/2022 17:46

Peeping Tom, Tom Thumb, tomming...

It's fine

eddiemairswife · 16/02/2022 17:54

Tom Kitten
Tommy Robinson
Tommy Duckworth

KirstenBlest · 16/02/2022 17:59

Tom Jones, Thomas the Tank

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 16/02/2022 18:00

I have a Tommy I wouldn't think of any of those things if someone said Tom to me, although mine refuses to be called Tom

There's only him and a Thomas in the whole of the junior school which is 2 classes per year so not hugely popular around here

Not sure about the infant or nursery though!

Liv999 · 16/02/2022 18:25

You're definitely overthinking it, Tom is really nice on it's own, not really a fan of Thomas

Roselilly36 · 16/02/2022 18:26

Thomas is a lovely name, I also love Tom as a nn.

topcat2014 · 16/02/2022 18:31

I've been Tom for 50 years and it hasn't given me any issues.

KylieCharlene · 16/02/2022 18:34

Love Thomas nn Tom.

Don't love Tommy though.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 16/02/2022 20:25

You are overthinking it for "Tom" having a negative meaning in most peoples heads - Thomas has been in the top 50 for more than a century (often top 10), so there are gazillions of "Tom's" and Thomas's out there, which negates any negative associations to me (the same as for William, Alexander, James, Edward etc - all lovely, classic, timeless names).

If you like Tom (Thomas), I'd say go for it - it's lovely imo. I adore most of these timeless boys names in full - my only issue is I sometimes don't like the most common shortenings, but Tom is nice (ie. personally not keen on "Alex" for Alexander, "Ed" for Edward etc but that's personal taste).

Lockdownbear · 16/02/2022 20:30

Classic name, I've got it in my head it's a Biblical name, can't really go wrong with it.

PurrBox · 16/02/2022 20:33

Wonderful name, no bad connotations.

Idontthinklikethat · 16/02/2022 20:34

Thank you all for your comments! Really to hear everyone’s views :) sounds all good on the connotations front!!

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MrsMigginsCat · 16/02/2022 20:38

I have a Thomas, known as Tom who is now 22. None of the connotations you mention ever entered our heads OP. Defo overthinking.

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