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Why shouldn't I use these names?

55 replies

manhattenrain · 18/08/2021 08:57

This may be a strange request but I'd like to know any bad associations or reasons I shouldn't use the following names:

Eli
River
Levi

Tess
Juliet
Ivy
Mila
Scarlet
Esther
Sabrina
Wren
Eve
Hazel

Hopefully this helps me cut out some names.Grin

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tanstaafl · 18/08/2021 13:01

Wren - baby conceived in the kitchen ? Wink

Shallwegoforawalk · 18/08/2021 13:02

You asked for bad associations so for me it's River (Phoenix early death) and Levi (Bellfield unspeakable horrific man)

Juliet also an early death Grin

You do have a very pretty list though so I'm sure you will have options.

Marcipex · 18/08/2021 13:04

Sadly, I wouldn’t use Tess. It’s the name of an undeniably large nursery assistant, and parents taught a child to call her Ten Ton Tess. Shocking of the parents, but shows it is still current.

CaffiSaliMali · 18/08/2021 13:27

I love Tess, Juliet and Sabrina. The latter two are on my list. Teenage witch wouldn't bother me as it isn't a bad association IMO. My father had a great Aunt Sabina which is similar but a little less witchy.

Only comment on your list is Scarlet, it just makes me think 'scarlet woman' or 'Scarlet the Harlot'.

AllTheSingleLadiess · 18/08/2021 14:21

River- are you a fan of River Phoenix ?
Levi- Bellfield or jeans

Tess - is this is nickname
Juliet - will it annoy you if people spell it Juliette ?
Mila- Mila Kunia fan? Too similar to milia
Scarlet- some people will spell it Scarlett
Wren- unisex name so some people will be surprised that she's not a boy
Eve- Eve/Evie/Eva/Ava are extremely popular and I reckon often interchanged
Hazel - is she likely to have hazel eyes?

CoalCraft · 18/08/2021 14:35

Eli - Love it
River - Personally don't like "Object names" but no specific negative associations
Levi - Jeans/underwear brand, but a nice name personally wouldn't see this association as a deal-breaker

Tess - Gorgeous
Juliet - Romeo and... But again wouldn't consider this a dealbreaker
Ivy - See River. Also, I see Ivy as a weed
Mila - Fine
Scarlet - For some reason I associate this name with sex workers
Esther - Lovely
Sabrina ... the Teenage Witch. Still a good name though
Wren - Object name, though definitely a nicer one. She would forever be reminding people about the W though.
Eve - Adam and... Though lovely.
Hazel - Wasn't that Fiver's brother in Watership Down?

Eli, Tess and Esther are my faves.

VienneseWhirligig · 18/08/2021 14:38

Wren looks pretty but sounds sort of unfinished as a name. Not keen on Mila but like all your others.

Peccary · 18/08/2021 20:43

Eli - like
River - too happy and associated with a sad death
Levi - just think of the brand

Tess - like
Juliet - love (this is DDs name so am biased)
Ivy - poison ivy
Mila - looks nice on paper but meela or myla?
Scarlet - really dislike the scar sound
Esther - like
Sabrina - like
Wren - dislike but don't know why
Eve - generic (DD has eve, evie, a a in her class)
Hazel - love

Peccary · 18/08/2021 20:43

Hippy not happy for River

WeAreTheHeroes · 18/08/2021 20:47

Eli is a name in its own right - not a shortened version of another name. Several of your choices are biblical names. I wouldn't choose Levi because of Belfield and the jeans.

PattyPan · 18/08/2021 20:49

River is too hippyish, I struggle to imagine it on a serious adult
Sabrina the teenage witch
Scarlet is a naughty child name
Wren makes me think of a weedy/feeble child

I don’t really have any negative associations for the others but I don’t particularly like Esther or Mila

Violetlavenders · 18/08/2021 21:18

Eli looks like a nickname for Elinor.

dryasaboner · 18/08/2021 21:33

@Mischance

All look great - except Sabrina, which I associate with the glamour model with the large boobs who was around in the 50s and whom my Dad fancied rotten!
That was the 80s wasn't it?
lottiegarbanzo · 18/08/2021 22:25

No, all good!

Personally I'd avoid Scarlet, as in 'scarlet woman' (also scarlet fever, small scar) and I just don't think it's very nice. But it is a well-used name now.

lottiegarbanzo · 18/08/2021 22:26

Levi makes me think of Roots, more than Bellfield (whose name will be forgotten, for the most part, I think). It's a lovely, Biblical name, common enough to avoid any one association.

WeAreTheHeroes · 18/08/2021 22:43

@Violetlavenders

Eli looks like a nickname for Elinor.
It's pronounced Ee-lie
Sarahvn · 18/08/2021 23:01

Lovely names
I really like River (could be for boy or girl I think?)
Wren
Tess
And Hazel

Someone said no nice shortenings for Sabrina - what about Rina?

thingymaboob · 18/08/2021 23:04

Levi Bellfield raped and killed 3 girls. Levi will always have that connection for me.

manhattenrain · 18/08/2021 23:13

@thingymaboob Out of curiosity, do you know who Ivan Milat is? I ask because I've never heard of Levi Bellfield and wonder if he'd only really be known in the UK. (I'm living in Australia.) I think most Australians wouldn't use the name Ivan now.

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HopingForOurRainbowBaby · 18/08/2021 23:34

River-ridiculous
Levi-jeans
Sabrina- the teenage witch

thingymaboob · 18/08/2021 23:37

@manhattenrain oh no I didn't know who Ivan was but had a google and can see why Australians would have a bad association. Urgh.

MNmonster · 18/08/2021 23:40

Being totally blunt, Eli, Levi and River all make me think of hill billies.

Esther reminds me of Esther Ranzten. Sabrina the teenage witch. Wren kitchens. I know about a million Eves now.

I like Ivy and Hazel. Although Hazel reminds me of Watership Down.

miltonj · 19/08/2021 00:10

No negative associations for any.

I really like most of them. Levi is a brilliant name.

Frederica852 · 19/08/2021 00:20

Scarlett always me think of periods!

Buttercup54321 · 19/08/2021 00:43

I know a Kabrina.
Selina?
Rowena?
Dont live Levi.
Lee
Leighton
Leon
Laurence
Elias
Elijah
Rory