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Thoughts on Bette?

56 replies

SemperIdem · 30/12/2020 12:53

Came across it on a Netflix programme I’ve been watching and thought it was quite different to all the soft sounding girls names popular at the moment.

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ThatIsNotMyUsername · 30/12/2020 12:53

Bet or bettee?

SemperIdem · 30/12/2020 13:21

Bet rather than Bettee

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WilyKat · 30/12/2020 13:23

Love it, I think of the powerhouse that was Bette Davis

Ellmau · 30/12/2020 13:24

I don't like the Bet pronunciation myself. Makes me think Bet Lynch.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 30/12/2020 13:29

I think it’s horrible. Betsy is far prettier and sweeter

SemperIdem · 30/12/2020 13:34

@WilyKat Audrey will forever ruined for me because of Coronation Street, despite loving Audrey Hepburn. So totally get what you mean there.

@Awwlookatmybabyspider as my op might suggest, I don’t like sweet, pretty, cutesy names particularly. So Betsy is a no for me.

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reprehensibleme · 30/12/2020 13:35

How about Elizabeth, NN Bette - also loads of other great NN.

SemperIdem · 30/12/2020 13:40

Usually I am a big fan of longer given names with a nn and do like Elizabeth, but I think I’d have the devils own job avoiding Liz etc

My daughters name is technically a diminutive of a Russian name, though more commonly used as a standalone name in the UK. I just didn’t think people would play ball if I used the full name and used the nn.

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Yennefer19 · 30/12/2020 14:16

I like it, I like the fact that it’s on trend with older names coming in to fashion but it’s not one that I’ve heard too much.

I do think though that it depends what your surname is, I think it requires a slightly longer surname to balance the name out.

sandandso · 30/12/2020 14:21

I never know if it's pronounced Bet or Betty.

GintyMcGinty · 30/12/2020 14:23

Classic

daisypond · 30/12/2020 14:24

I think most would say Betty -because Bette Davis is the most well known holder of the name. I’d go for Elizabeth and shorten. I know a few and none are called Liz.

wonderpants · 30/12/2020 14:27

Bette Middler?

CryptoFascist · 30/12/2020 14:28

Belle et Bette... Sorry!

daisypond · 30/12/2020 14:29

Oh, yes, Bette Middler didn’t occur to me.

BettyBo33 · 30/12/2020 14:32

If you got it from Netflix Tiny Little Things...she’s Elizabeth isn’t she? I like it but probably influenced by the beautiful actress who plays her..the character is a nutcase!

unmarkedbythat · 30/12/2020 14:32

Bet is ugly. Betty is ok. Bette is a spelling that confuses people.

EileenGC · 30/12/2020 15:09

I don't like it. Too similar to the word for bed in one of my languages, and I find the sound a bit... wet?
How about Beth? I know someone called this, not short for Elizabeth, and I think it's a beautiful name.

ShivD · 30/12/2020 15:12

I really like it and would pronounce it Bet.

KatherineJaneway · 30/12/2020 15:13

I think of Middler or Davis. Nice name though.

PlantPotting · 30/12/2020 15:42

Love it

yellowhighheels · 30/12/2020 15:47

I love it!

crabette · 30/12/2020 15:51

I love it! I do get a little confused if it's pronounced Bette single syllable or two syllable, as I think it varies with the same spelling. But once you / she's made it clear once on introduction it'll be fine. Gorgeous name.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 30/12/2020 17:53

Very few young Elizabeth's get Liz these days - it's a dated nn. I'd call her Bette from day one (it's a cool retro nn) but stick Elizabeth on the BC, (unless you really hate it) because it gives her a lot more options if she wants when older.

SemperIdem · 30/12/2020 18:04

That’s good to know about young Liz’s not getting Lizzie/Liz these days. I don’t know any younger than 20, so just assumed they did. Makes me lean more towards Elizabeth nn Bette rather than just Bette on the birth certificate.

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