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Too many t's

18 replies

WilsonandNoodles · 26/12/2020 10:04

Would you use names like Harriet (Hattie) or Henrietta (Hettie) if your surname begins with a T or is that just too much? She would have a non T containing middle name but it wouldn't often be used.

I say its too much but my husband thinks not.

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 26/12/2020 10:07

I think Harriet is a bit much, because I would trip slightly over Harriet Taylor - but Henrietta Taylor is fine because the names don't end and begin with the T. If she would always be known as Hettie or Hattie then fine too.

Chilldonaldchill · 26/12/2020 10:09

No I think both are fine.

ofwarren · 26/12/2020 10:10

Sounds fine to me
Harriet Taylor
Henrietta Taylor
It's not awkward or clunky to my ears.

Mamette · 26/12/2020 10:12

I would avoid having a name that ends with the same letter of the surname, so not Harriet Taylor. Henrietta Taylor is fine though.

Idontgiveagriffindamn · 26/12/2020 10:22

Hettie is my all time fave girls name and would have been used but we had boys. I’d use it unless the surname is Tettie as I just think it’s a fab name!

diddlediddle · 26/12/2020 10:26

I agree with you, too many Ts. Although names ending in a solid T are worse.

Ellmau · 26/12/2020 10:27

Henrietta works better than Harriet.

elfran · 27/12/2020 08:08

As others have said, Harriet Taylor elides but Henrietta Taylor sounds fine. I rather like repeating sounds in a full name, as long as the first and last don't run into each other and become "one word" as in the first case.

MispyM · 27/12/2020 10:51

Yes, I would.

Henrietta works better imo. (and I personally prefer it to Harriet.)

beautifulclouds · 27/12/2020 10:53

I think Harriet wouldn't work, but Henrietta would.

Plum34 · 27/12/2020 10:59

I think its fine x

WilsonandNoodles · 28/12/2020 17:15

Thank you all for your comments. It's completely made me rethink any T sounding names as I had ruled them all out. I think Henrietta is our front runner as we both love Hettie and Etta.

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bridgetreilly · 28/12/2020 18:10

It's completely fine to have one 't' sound in the first name and one in the second name. I think you are way overthinking this.

daisypond · 28/12/2020 18:15

They are both fine. I agree with others in that Harriet elides into the surname somewhat, but it’s still OK. Henrietta is completely fine.

nettytree · 28/12/2020 18:23

I have 5 ts in my name. My maiden name had 3 and my married name has too. Its a stupid surname too, but I love it.

NickMyLipple · 28/12/2020 18:31

My daughter is a Harriet with a T surname. I can't see or hear an issue.

Matilda (Tilly) on the other hand.....!

Whatsyourflava · 28/12/2020 20:04

I don't see an issue at all and think you've chosen a lovely name

It's worth remembering that 99.9% of the time, a first name is used on its own so I'd really focus on picking a first name you love and not on whether it sounds perfect with a surname

ConcertinaWorm · 28/12/2020 20:08

I love Henrietta. It is a bit different and has lots of scope for shortening/nicknames. I’ve only ever come across one Henrietta (Hetty) when I worked in schools.

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