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OhToBeASeahorse · 30/09/2020 09:45

Due in a week and a half. Don't know the sex but we are decided on our boy's name.

Shortlist:
Matilda (growing on me, DH thinks it's a bit boring)
Hadley (I loved until about 2 weeks ago. This is DH's favourite).
Orla (too popular now?)
Iris (feel like this is a better middle name!)
Saoirse (my fave but I feel like we will be saddling her with a lifetime of spelling issues)

All 4 go with our surname, no issues there.

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daisypond · 30/09/2020 20:23

I like Iris.

FolkSongSweet · 30/09/2020 20:24

[quote OhCaptain]@FolkSongSweet I'm Irish too and there are two Orlaighs in DS's class. And yes, that is how they spell it.

They're not the only ones I've heard of spelt that way either.[/quote]
They’re still wrong - makes no sense according to Irish spelling rules.

Kanaloa · 30/09/2020 20:26

All lovely names really, you can’t go too far wrong with any of them. If it was me I think I’d go for Matilda Hadley, just because I think it’s the nicest!

whattodo2019 · 30/09/2020 20:39

Hadley is awful sorry
I adore Saoirse. It's beautiful and interesting

ifiwasascent · 30/09/2020 20:47

I love your list! What about Persephone?

OhToBeASeahorse · 30/09/2020 20:48

Ah thanks!
Got rejected by DH

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LizzieAnt · 30/09/2020 20:49

Where are you @OhCaptain? I agree with @FolkSongSweet in that I've never met an Orlaigh either. I'm in Munster where that spelling would give you a different pronunciation too - the "ig" bit would be pronounced (so Oar-lig?) That said, it isn't in Connacht afaik so I guess both spellings would give the same pronunciation there.
I don't think it's a standard spelling of the name though.

LizzieAnt · 30/09/2020 20:51

I'm not a fan of Hadley either OP, I'm afraid. Any of the others are lovely.

BackforGood · 30/09/2020 21:24

To me, Hadley is a surname.
I personally don't like surnames as first names.

I wouldn't didn't saddle my dc with names that are difficult to spell.

Not really keen on any of your list but I'd choose Matilda first and Orla second from those you've offered.

Brighterthansunflowers · 30/09/2020 21:27

I adore Saoirse

Matilda is also gorgeous

Iris and Orla are fine, and I’m not keen on Hadley

JudgeMeNot · 30/09/2020 21:29

Hadley. It's a great name

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 30/09/2020 21:36

I actually think Iris Hadley is a brilliant combination!!

micc · 30/09/2020 22:06

My vote is for Orla, it is gaining in popularity but its not overly popular and it sounds lovely.

WildCherryBlossom · 01/10/2020 05:09

I think Gregory and Hadley are a little too rhymie (is that a word?). So I would save Hadley for a middle name and choose another first name.

Personally I love Matilda and Iris from your list.

Matilda Hadley
Iris Hadley

Both work very well.

sunyla · 01/10/2020 06:52

Matilda - I agree is a little bit boring but I don't hate it either.

Hadley - If I'm being completely honest, I find this name ugly, sorry.

Orla - I like Orla, only negative thing that comes to mind is that it looks a bit like Oral.

Iris - Beautiful, definitely my favourite from your list.

Saoirse - Sorry but I'm not sure how this is pronounced and I could definitely see that being a problem.

Good luck.Smile

MercyBodle · 01/10/2020 08:08

The only one I'm not keen on is Hadley. But it would make a good middle name. I agree that Iris Hadley sounds good. I like all your other names, but particularly Matilda, Florence and Dorothea as they feel feisty and substantial compared with the softer sounds of Orla. I do really like Saoirse too - and again, Saoirse Hadley sounds good.

MikeUniformMike · 01/10/2020 08:13

Matilda - nice but somewhat overused.
Hadley - no, I don't think so, it's a surname.
Orla - too popular and boring
Iris - fine
Saoirse - celebrity inspired and with spelling and pronunciation issues.

AriesTheRam · 01/10/2020 08:13

Matilda is clunky. i like Iris

missmouse101 · 01/10/2020 08:24

Saoirse is beautiful, as is Orla. Hadley and Matilda are terrible, Iris is part of the eye and boring. What about Aithne if you like Irish names?

OhCaptain · 01/10/2020 10:43

@LizzieAnt I’m from Leinster, now in Connaught.

There are plenty of Orlaighs around. Have a look on Twitter for example.

I don’t think it’s for one poster on MN to decide it’s wrong but there you go! (Not you).

LizzieAnt · 01/10/2020 11:52

@OhCaptain
Ah okay, just hadn't come across it, maybe because of the pronunciation differences where I am. Or possibly it's a newer spelling that's becoming popular? I think I'd choose the traditional Órlaith or Órla personally though.

I've now moved on to fretting over the spelling of Aithne as mentioned by a pp Smile. I think Eithne would be more usual?

I also really like Florence from your list OP, I love Flora too.

FolkSongSweet · 01/10/2020 17:26

[quote OhCaptain]@LizzieAnt I’m from Leinster, now in Connaught.

There are plenty of Orlaighs around. Have a look on Twitter for example.

I don’t think it’s for one poster on MN to decide it’s wrong but there you go! (Not you).[/quote]
Well it’s not any of: the traditional spelling in old Irish (orflhaith), either of the shortened versions of that (orlaith, Orla) or the anglicised version (Orlagh), and in the part of Ireland I’m from it would be pronounced Orlig, not Orla.

Just because more than one person uses it doesn’t mean it’s right. Of course “unique” and incorrect spellings do end up becoming popular, but if I saw an Orlaigh I’d have the same reaction as if I saw an Emmalee (Emily) or Jaike (Jake) - id think the parents were trying to make a point or were uneducated (or both).

OhToBeASeahorse · 01/10/2020 17:58

I thought I'd do a scientific experiment and see which my 2 year old could or could not say.

He can say them all which doesn't help!!

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WildCherryBlossom · 01/10/2020 19:30

Does he have a favourite though OP?

WildCherryBlossom · 01/10/2020 19:31

If I had asked my DS to name his baby sister at that age she probably would have been lumbered with Train or Fire Engine... Hmm