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Favourite neutral names

27 replies

NWnature · 11/09/2020 09:45

We are expecting our first in October and haven't found out the sex. Really struggling with names and just haven't found anything that the both of us love. We have a handful of names for boys and girls but feel pretty luke warm to them!

Would be amazing if we could find a neutral name that would work for either. I do like Robin/Robyn for a boy or girl so anything along those lines. Nothing too wacky but up for any inspo at this point please!

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Whatsyourflava · 11/09/2020 10:21

Most names aren't completely neutral. They're classed as "Neutral" but usually used for either boys or girls.

Robin/Robyn is one of the only examples really. Lovely name.

Wren is nice but more commonly used for girls.
Ellis is a gorgeous name but predominantly used for boys. Blake too!

You might like the name Aubrey for either a boy or girl?

Rowan also unisex but the name is too similar to very popular name Roman for me. I prefer Rowan for a girl (it's a girls name in Scotland and becoming so in America too looking at the statistics but is still holding up as boy name in England for the time being at least but suspect that could change perhaps, we'll see).

I suppose it's like Hillary or other names that started off boys' name but then transition.

It can be more of a risk to pick a unisex name for a boy than for a girl. I know that's unfair obviously. Robin or Robyn is a good one as there's a clear spelling differentiation.

Rory for a boy or Aurora (nickname Rory) for a girl?

NWnature · 11/09/2020 11:21

Thanks @Whatsyourflava totally true, the only other one I have come up with which feels really "neutral" is Alex (Alexander/Alexandra) but my DH isn't keen.

I love the name Rory (its my brothers!)

Agree, on Rowan, I don't mind it but prefer Robin and our friends just had a little baby Roman!

Not that keen on Aubrey or Ellis. Undecided on Blake - will moot to DH!

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pinkpinecone · 11/09/2020 11:24

Remi/Remy is nice and fairly neutral

Remy seems to be the preference for boys and Remi for girls

IggyAce · 11/09/2020 11:25

Robin/Robyn
Frankie
Charlie (charlotte/Charles)
Reagan
Ray/Rae

Dazzedandconfused · 11/09/2020 11:27

I love Theo! It could be short for Theodore or Theodora. Also names like Quinn, Harper, Sloane or Monroe are good unisex names.

Unseeliequeen · 11/09/2020 11:29

Unisex names I can think of:
Jamie
Alex
Charlie
Leigh
Reese
Morgan
Jo
Cameron
Jordan

pinkpinecone · 11/09/2020 11:29

A few more for you (although of course most will be more associated with one sex than the other)

Alex (andra or ander)
Sasha
Nico
Noah/Noa
Jess/Jesse
Stevie
Billy/Billie

SeanCailleach · 11/09/2020 11:31

Chris
Harry
Nick
Kieran/ Kiran
Lee
Jo/ Joe
Dylan

Ellmau · 11/09/2020 13:48

Jocelyn
Jordan
Robin
Morgan
Meredith

BlueChampagne · 11/09/2020 13:50

Leslie/Lesley
Lindsay
Julian/Julyan
Kai/Kay

Yellowmoonrising · 11/09/2020 13:52

Jules
Morgan
Mackenzie
Eden
Jaiden
Casey
Charlie

Ilen · 11/09/2020 13:55

Dara
Ailbhe.

NWnature · 11/09/2020 14:32

Thanks for all these. Lesley/Leslie is a family name (both boys and girls) but I can't stand it personally.

I quite like Noah/Noa and Cameron was on the list too!

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Lweji · 11/09/2020 14:34

I was thinking Robin before reading your OP.

Twizbe · 11/09/2020 14:56

Francis/Frances

Whatsyourflava · 11/09/2020 15:34

Noah/Noa is lovely @NWnature

I've heard of girls called James but it's not a unisex name really is it. It's a boys name

GoatsInBoats · 11/09/2020 15:56

Drew?

I love Robin/Robyn for a girl. Less so for a boy.

Quizeerascal · 11/09/2020 17:34

Ellis
Micah
Riley
Elliott
Breck
Brogan
Morgan

Quizeerascal · 11/09/2020 17:34

Love Noa too

RuthW · 11/09/2020 17:43

Morgan
Logan
Lesley/Leslie
Tony/Toni
Aubrey
Wren
Peter/Peta
Jordan
Taylor
Bailey
Ray/Rae
Quinn
Charlie

PoodleMoth · 11/09/2020 18:16

Love Robin for a boy, not as keen for a girl

daisypond · 11/09/2020 18:21

It sounds like you don’t actually want a unisex name, more that you’re not inspired by the girl and boy names you have come up with.

OpEd · 11/09/2020 19:31

Alex

ImHungry1989 · 12/09/2020 18:05

Alexis, Avery, River, Ocean, Skylar, Ray, Willow (Will)

TinaTraybake · 12/09/2020 20:10

Quinn, River, Rowan, Taylor, Wren, Bailey, Aspen