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sofia vs jemima

40 replies

toughgetsgoing · 23/05/2020 12:15

Obviously love them both, but Jemima's just got this public school vibe that gives Sofia the edge as it blends in better if you get me? Like Sofia also travels better and works in America - Jemima doesn't quite so well apparently - and other cultures too. However, Sofia is more popular but in certain circles Jemima can be more so. Popularity doesn't matter that much though. Also Jemima has nn potential whereas Sofia has Sof which is OK but will she be 'Sofia with an F' and get mixed up spelling wise - really annoying? I just don't like how Sophia looks tbh. If anyone has any thoughts I'd love to hear them.

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OnlyToWin · 23/05/2020 12:17

Prefer Jemima - think it is a lovely name.

ArriettyJones · 23/05/2020 12:18

Erm Confused

RusholmeRuffian · 23/05/2020 12:18

Prefer Sofia by a mile.

megrichardson · 23/05/2020 12:20

I love Jemima

sweetnosugar · 23/05/2020 12:22

I prefer the spelling Sophia, Sofia is a capital city! However there are loads of people named after places so if you like Sofia then go for it. Where I am Sophia is extremely popular.

I do know a sweet little girl in my area called Jemima but since she’s started school she has been given the nn Jem by her friends, which I’m not a fan of, neither is her mum! But the only one I know.

ArriettyJones · 23/05/2020 12:23

travels better and works in America - Jemima doesn't quite so well apparently

There’s quite a serious “not working quite so well” issue for Jemima in the US. So if likely to live there at all, just avoid totally, don’t worry about “vibes”.

Whatsyourflava · 23/05/2020 12:23

Prefer Jemima and I'm from state school

OnlyToWin · 23/05/2020 12:24

What is the issue with Jemima and America?

inwood · 23/05/2020 12:24

Sophia is much nicer than Sofia.

I like Jemima. I know one with the nickname puddle though. Apparently it just stuck at school.

LotusClover · 23/05/2020 12:30

I don't like Jemima at all, it feels very dated to me. Sofia is lovely. I prefer Sophia but I think Sofia works better internationally. It seems like a 50/50 split in England between Sophia and Sofia, so she may have spelling problems but it's not like she'll be the only Sofia in the country or anything.

Mucklowe · 23/05/2020 12:30

Sofia by a mile. Jemima is such an ugly name.

Mucklowe · 23/05/2020 12:30

What is the issue with Jemima and America?

Aunt Jemima is a racist term there.

OnlyToWin · 23/05/2020 12:33

@Mucklowe thanks for explaining. I had never heard of that before.

user495275 · 23/05/2020 12:40

Jemima is horrid. Sorry Confused

Sofia is nice but Sophia looks better. But I prefer Sophie above all of them.

Singingatmidnight · 23/05/2020 13:05

Sofia is lovely. I love this Italian spelling.

Jemima is Jemima Puddleduck for me! Also travels less well.

elfran · 23/05/2020 13:17

Jemima by about a million, Sofia (no matter the spelling) is a bit boring and run-of-the-mill to me.

However, I am biased - my best friend's daughter is called Jemima and she is the CUTEST kid ever. She lives in North America, for what it's worth, and her mum gets great feedback on the choice there. People find it surprising and adorable, not problematic (that I know of).

SionnachRua · 23/05/2020 13:21

Sofia.

Jemima is dreadful - fussy, frilly and racist in the US too!

milkysmum · 23/05/2020 13:32

I prefer Sophia, with that spelling, but I'm biased as that's my daughter's name. I don't like the nn Soph though ( I neither does she!) and she is generally know as a Phi, or Phia

LondonTowers · 23/05/2020 13:46

Sophia/ Sofia is much more of a toff name if you ask me, but who cares if you like it!

Personally, I don't like the name. I think it sounds awkward Hmm and dull. Jemima is much better.

daisydukes7576 · 23/05/2020 13:54

Sofia c

daisypond · 23/05/2020 13:56

They are both nice.
Sophia, not Sofia, unless you have links to a country where it’s spelled that way. I think it’s odd otherwise.
Jemima is nice, but the Aunt Jemima figure might put me off.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 23/05/2020 14:11

Sofia without contest. I can't abide Jemima. Unless you're upper class it's just trying to be something you're not.

Peachbubble · 23/05/2020 14:14

I prefer Jemima

Ellmau · 23/05/2020 14:34

Jemima makes me think of a rag doll.

Sofia sounds quite exotic. If you don't have a family connection with a culture that spells it with the f, I think the ph spelling is more classic.

effiehabb · 23/05/2020 15:12

We originally chose Jemima for our dd, but the 'Aunt Jemima' issue made us feel too uncomfortable, particularly as we travel a lot to a states. It is a beautiful name though.

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