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Honest opinions? Cut down my boys names list

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SarahTTCx · 07/05/2020 16:47

Hi! Looking for honest opinions on my boys names list, cut it down and tell me why you've removed the ones you have? It's so long and me and OH constantly argue about which names deserve to be at the top (not pregnant yet but on month 5 of trying).

Elliot

Sullivan
Harvey

Zachary

Archer

Teddy

Joey

Wyatt

Max/Maxwell

Abel

Ashton

Elias

Axel

Kian

Grayson

Harrison

Holden/Holder
Arlo
Beau
Hayes

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FiveOutOfFiveGoldblums · 10/05/2020 03:44

Axel Beau (if he's a good looking baby Wink)
Max/Zach
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Kian Harrison
Arlo
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Not on your list: Caleb Hunter Flynn

Shamrock ------
Nancydrawn · 10/05/2020 04:12

These are very American, particularly Southern. All the lastname firstnames (Grayson, Hayes, Harrison, Holden, etc), as well as Wyatt, Beau, Ashton, even Archer--all very American.

Some of them are a bit recently dated (Arlo, Archer).

Of the names you have, I think I like Elliot and Max best (though latter ideally a longer name).

But my favorite is probably Theodore (or possibly Edward) nicknamed to Teddy.

CloudsCoveredTheSky · 10/05/2020 04:16

They're all a bit try hard for my taste

daisypond · 10/05/2020 04:17

Just curious if the Cian lovers are Irish? As thats the original name and spelling of it.
I’m not Irish, but would spell it Cian - as that is how it is spelled. Just like it is Niamh and not Neve.

K1mberlylauren · 10/05/2020 09:40

Grayson love
Holden love

DoTheNextRightThing · 10/05/2020 09:44

Elliot - love it, always have
Sullivan - that's a surname
Harvey - nah
Zachary - nice enough
Archer - no
Teddy - no
Joey - I feel like it needs to be Joseph
Wyatt - as a Charmed fan, I love it
Max/Maxwell - popular but nice
Abel - Cain and... no
Ashton - I like this, like Ash as well
Elias - nice
Axel - big no
Kian - it's okay
Grayson - very American but I like it
Harrison - love it
Holden/Holder - Holden is okay (I went to uni with a Holden) but Holder is a no
Arlo - too popular these days and idk why
Beau - it's okay
Hayes - nice

Iknewyouwerewaitingforme · 10/05/2020 09:46

Elliot YES
Sullivan NO
Harvey NO!
Zachary YES
Archer OK
Teddy NO
Joey NO
Wyatt NO
Max/Maxwell YES
Abel NO
Ashton NO
Elias NO
Axel NO
Kian NO
Grayson YES
Harrison YES
Holden/Holder NO WAY
Arlo YES
Beau NO
Hayes NO WAY

Weclapclapclapclapclaptogether · 10/05/2020 11:13

Choose Max

disappear · 10/05/2020 11:51

Elliot - I like this.
Sullivan - Not my style but I do like it.
Harvey - No
Zachary - Too common
Archer - I like this.
Teddy - Too cute
Joey - Cute, baby kangaroo, slang for condom
Wyatt - No, old man name
Max/Maxwell - I like Max short for Maxim
Abel - No
Ashton - No
Elias - Yes
Axel- Okay
Kian - No
Grayson - No
Harrison - No
Holden/Holder - Catcher in the Rye
Arlo Nice name but becoming very popular
Beau - No
Hayes - Surname or company name

NoSauce · 10/05/2020 12:04

Only like Elias.

Tatum1234 · 10/05/2020 13:19

Sullivan
Wyatt
Elias
are my favourites, they’re just a bit more interesting than the others. We had Sullivan on our list, I do wish we’d used it! Beau is quite nice too.

Itsallthedramamick · 10/05/2020 15:41

Elliot - nice
Sullivan - OK. Sully for short?
Harvey - reminds me of Katie Price
Zachary - ok
Archer - try hard
Teddy - nice as a nickname for Edward or Theodore. Not a name in its own right for me
Joey - ok
Wyatt - dislike
Max/Maxwell - ok
Abel - ok
Ashton - dislike
Elias - dislike. Ellis is similar and much better imo
Axel - try hard
Kian - dislike
Grayson - ok
Harrison - ok. Prefer Harry
Holden/Holder - dislike
Arlo - nice
Beau - ok
Hayes - dislike

Elliot is the winner for me. Good, strong and classy name imo

Strokethefurrywall · 10/05/2020 16:02

I responded on your previous thread OP, because DS2 is Sullivan (he's 6). He prefers Sully or Van because he says Sullivan is too long to write. I call him whatever springs to mind!

Our surname is also a Scottish surname (Ramsay) and it flows well. DS1 also has a surname as first name.

We don't live in the UK so there is very little "classism" that exists around naming conventions here (Caribbean). Massive mix of Brits, Aussies, American, Canadian, Jamaican and Caymanian.

We got nothing but positive feedback when we named him, and honestly if you love it go for it. You can have an opinion on a name that has been formed from a different influence, but when you meet a baby you love with that name, it changes your opinion.
For example, I think the name Ptolemy is a massive wanker name, genuinely because it sounds so try hard and the only person I met with that name clouded my judgment. But if my sister were to have a baby name Ptolemy, my opinion would change to one of love, because I'd see my baby nephew named Ptolemy, not the dickhead I used to know.

Gathering the opinion of strangers on Mumsnet is a bit futile because all posters will offer their preconceived opinion of a name.

It's what you love that matters. If it makes your heart sing when you say it, then that's your name...

My Sullivan was either going to be Sullivan or Lachlan but he was born on St Patrick's day so it had to be Sullivan. In my heart, from the first time i heard the name I knew that was for him.

Named after one very hot actor as well (Sullivan Stapleton) and I'm not even ashamed to admit it 😁

Jj2431 · 10/05/2020 23:03

Elliot- Really like
Sullivan- No
Harvey- No
Zachary- yes really like
Archer- No
Teddy- lovely as a nickname but not on it's own
Joey- same as teddy
Wyatt- Too American
Max/Maxwell- Dogs name to me
Abel - No
Ashton- No
Elias-No
Axel-No
Kian- like
Grayson- ok
Harrison- no
Holden/Holder- no
Arlo-no
Beau-no
Hayes- no

DoctorBambino · 11/05/2020 11:22

Elliot - there is just something I dont like about this name
Sullivan - sounds like a surname to me
Harvey - again surname but I like it anyway
Zachary - Great name
Archer - I like it, cool name
Teddy - a 40 year old man called teddy? No
Joey - friends but yes
Wyatt - girls name to me
Max/Maxwell - like it
Abel - too biblical
Ashton - used to like it but bored of it already
Elias - hmm maybe
Axel - LOVE it
Kian - love it
Grayson - its ok but it's a bit like grey interiors, why is everyone obsessed with grey and ash!?
Harrison - cute
Holden/Holder - no no no
Arlo - no
Beau - maybe
Hayes - no

MrsJoshNavidi · 11/05/2020 11:36

Elliot - no

Sullivan - no
Harvey - no

Zachary - maybe

Archer - no, not a name

Teddy - ok as a nn for Edward

Joey - Joe is better. Joey is a nn

Wyatt - God no

Max/Maxwell - Max yes, Maxwell no
Abel - love it

Ashton - no

Elias - no

Axel - ok

Kian - Cian yes (K names not good)

Grayson - no

Harrison - no

Holden/Holder - no
Arlo - yes
Beau - no
Hayes - no

Flymetothestars · 11/05/2020 13:09

My favourites from your list are:

Elliot
Archer
Teddy
Max/Maxwell
Abel
Axel
Grayson
Harrison
Arlo
Beau

Love Axel by the way - pick that ! Grayson and Arlo have been favourites of mine for a while too

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