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Ashley for a boy

18 replies

mandatorytakeout · 01/05/2020 19:06

While the name is originally a boy's name as far as I understand, it has dramatically shifted to being a girl's name.

What do you think of it being used for a boy now? Particularly interested in people based in the US where it seems to be a highly popular girl name

Any name combo ideas?
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ritalia · 01/05/2020 19:54

Ashley
846050 female, 15667 male in US.
Indeed far more girls than boys. But still a very decent number of boys.
www.babynamechoice.com/name/Ashley

Ashley Cole : English former footballer
Ashley Hamilton: American actor, comedian and singer-songwriter
Ashley Williams: professional footballer

Cheeseycheeseycheesecheese · 01/05/2020 19:57

I know far more male Ashley's than I do female Ashley's in real life.

Personally I think it's a nice name that can be given to either sex.

Womanlywiles · 01/05/2020 20:00

I am in the USA. It has become considered a female name here so you will be setting your son up for a lifetime of explaining himself and possibly being bullied or feeling emasculated. Sorry. Same for male Kelly, Kendall or Taylor.

Womanlywiles · 01/05/2020 20:02

Personally I think it's a lovely male name, makes me think of Scarlett O'Hara pouting "Ashley! Ooh Ash - lay!" and flouncing when he prefers angelic Melanie.

123Dancewithme · 01/05/2020 20:47

I think it’s a boys name in the UK and a girls name in the US.

It’s a bit 80s but it’s a nice enough name. I think it works best with something classic as a middle name.

Ashley James
Ashley William
Ashley Thomas
Ashley Edward
Ashley Benjamin

Whatsyourflava · 01/05/2020 21:38

In England and Wales in 2018 (last year we have official statistics for) there's double the number of boy Ashley (than girl Ashley's)
Definitely predominantly a boy name in England

Juliaplus4 · 01/05/2020 22:32

I'm from Ireland but I love Ashley for a boy. It's far nicer in my opinion.

MartiniDry · 01/05/2020 22:40

English resident here. When I hear the name Ashley I immediately assume that the person is male. The first person the name brings to mind is Ashley Cole. It's a lovely name and far more so for a boy than it is for a girl

Rtmhwales · 01/05/2020 22:41

American. It's only female here. You'd never hear of a male Ashley.

DramaAlpaca · 01/05/2020 23:26

I think of it as a male name and much prefer it for boys. I'm English. It's one of those names that I like but wouldn't use myself.

Thisismytimetoshine · 01/05/2020 23:27

It's a bit wet.

RingaRosie · 01/05/2020 23:29

Our Ash-leh, from Corrie.

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 01/05/2020 23:30

Ashley is one of the great examples of a boys name that is now used for girls so no longer suitable for boys. However boys names, James, Ashley, Noah etc are perfectly suitable for girls..

DwangelaForever · 01/05/2020 23:31

I like it. When its spelt Ashley it's very masculine, I always think of Ashley Cole. I think people are being dramatic saying you're setting your child up for a lifetime of bullying. There are far worse names out there that people call their kids these days. If you like it go for it!

Tillygetsit · 01/05/2020 23:33

I prefer Asher tbh

Marimari93 · 01/05/2020 23:45

I like this magne for a boy - great choice. I know men and women called Ashley. It's a name that's truly unisex to me kind of like Jordan.

Thisismytimetoshine · 02/05/2020 00:16

The name James is not "perfectly suitable for a girl" Confused

Whatsgoingonrightnow · 02/05/2020 08:55

I know a female Ashlie who married a male Ashley, not even kidding Grin.

I’m not keen on it personally, it’s very 80s/early 90s.

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