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AngSam · 21/02/2020 17:06

I have a question. Are there any rules on spelling and pronouncing names? How about correcting people on how to spell and pronounce names, would you bother?
Example, girl named Joan (general pronouncing sounds like John) but her is Jo An?
Or Laura not Lora but LAUra
Your thoughts?

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SleepingStandingUp · 24/02/2020 15:11

So the same pronunciation as if you were saying the person drawing was the drawer?

dementedpixie · 24/02/2020 15:16

Well yes, they both sound the same to me

LizzieAnt · 24/02/2020 15:35

To me too. I'm Irish. And Dora aounds like Dough-ra and nothing like Laura in my accentGrin

LizzieAnt · 24/02/2020 15:39

And Joan rhymes with cone/phone etc.

Corneliawildthing · 24/02/2020 16:45

We always laugh at law and order being pronounced as Laura Norder as if it's a person Grin

SleepingStandingUp · 24/02/2020 17:06

Just a rhyming poem to suit the thread

I own
A scone
It's all my own
I took a picture in my phone
Please don't moan
Or heave and groan
Because the scone
I own
Is my own

NatashaAlianovaRomanova · 24/02/2020 22:32

Ah but is it:

Scone to rhyme with own, on or spoon (possibly only Scottish folks will get the last one Grin)

SleepingStandingUp · 24/02/2020 22:38

Definately own 😂😂😂😂

steppemum · 25/02/2020 12:10

Elena is only the same as eleanor as people pronounce it wrong

Er no!

So the German Elena is pronounced Elle- e -na
The Southern English accent Eleanor is ponounced Elle -e -na

The Russian etc versions of Elena is pronounced Elle- lay- na

The Scottish version of Eleanor is pronounced Elle -ee- a- nor (have I got that right?)

The point is, the same name can have different pronunciations in different countries. It isn't 'wrong' it is a different accent or language.

None of which applies to Joan and Joanne though!

Double3xposure · 25/02/2020 12:19

The Scottish version of Eleanor is pronounced Elle -ee- a- nor (have I got that right?)

No it’s pronounced Elinor, the same as in standard English.

dementedpixie · 25/02/2020 12:26

I'd say it more like Elenor (I'm scottish)

FuckADeeDooDaa · 25/02/2020 13:07

Depends where they are from. I live in Spain. Joan is a boys name here pn Jo-Anne. Laura is pn Lau-Ra

FuckADeeDooDaa · 25/02/2020 13:11

Lau - To rhyme with Sow, in case anyone wonders how they pn Lau.

dementedpixie · 25/02/2020 13:14

Is that sow as in to sow seed or sow as in a female pig?

FuckADeeDooDaa · 25/02/2020 13:25

sow as in a female pig

steppemum · 25/02/2020 14:04

apologises to the Scottish mn.

I was going by this in the previous page:

So, (me being Scottish), Elena is Eh lay nah and Eleanor is El en or

and trying to distinguish it from the English pronunciation

No it’s pronounced Elinor, the same as in standard English.

that's the point, in southern English there is no 'or' at the end it is Elener or Elena, we don't say 'or'

so, Elena and Eleanor are said exactly the same. (unless the person uses the Russian etc pronunciation of Elena)

WaxOnFeckOff · 25/02/2020 16:39

I think it's to do with Rhoticity. Some south accents remove Rs that are there and add them where there aren't any. In Scotland and the North we don't. It's just the way it is, so for example Draw up here would be like saying drop without the P (not exactly, but close enough) whereas Drawer is like drop without the p and finished with err or urr (again, not exact but close enough for an example).

Which is why people get confused when someone writes, "i put it in the draw".

SoupDragon · 25/02/2020 16:51

Southern accents don't add in Rs

SayNoToCarrots · 25/02/2020 17:11

Many do, and so do lots of Northern accents.

Laura Adams becomes LaurarAdams
Draw a picture becomes drawra picture.

You don't notice you are doing it because it is a normal feature of your accent.

SoupDragon · 25/02/2020 17:24

Draw a picture becomes drawra picture

It really doesn't.

SoupDragon · 25/02/2020 17:26

Its like claiming that rhotic accents add in an "uh" sound to make the "Ruh" of an R. They don't.

FrancisCrawford · 25/02/2020 17:32

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steppemum · 25/02/2020 17:52

The name Eleanora is simply Eleanor plus an A. It would sound very strange if you didn’t pronounce the R - Elen-oh-ah?

so in my accent, Eleanora has the 'r'
but it also has an 'or' sound
So it actually sounds different to Eleanor
We say Elle n er
and then elle n OR a

stress is in a different place too.

Southern accents don't 'add' an r, they use a long A sound. It is easier to think of it as an 'Ah' than an 'ar'
it avoids confusion

so rather than saying - I say barth for bath, it is better (I think) to say that I say bahth for bath.

we don't pronounce the r, but it changes the sound
so car is pronounced as a long a sound because of the r.

southern accents tend to condense words, whereas scottish (and others I'm sure) tend to use more syllables, hence the draw/drawer thing. Both are one syllable in southern English

steppemum · 25/02/2020 17:55

I find it fascinating
and havign just re-read the posts about, yes you are right, we add an r in drawing!

steppemum · 25/02/2020 17:59

I taught phonics in an American International school once, and there was a whole section on wh sounds versus w sounds. eg wheel, when. Whale v. wail etc

I remember going into the staffroom and asking about it, one (southern) American lady was adamant that they sounded different. 2 other Americans, one scottish and one English woman (me) couldn't hear the difference.
Obviously the place the phonics curriculum came from there was a clear difference in their accent!

Mind you, try teaching the phonic sound 'o' for orange to kids with a strong accent where it sounds like 'aahhrange'