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Double barrel first names - yes or no

145 replies

SillySallyStruthers · 19/07/2019 12:19

Opinions?
Any that people like?

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ladyisabelle · 20/07/2019 22:52

If you love a specific name combo I would just call your child that full name without a hyphen, eg Geoffrey Charles on Poldark (lol, have always loved that name). But I agree the hyphen is a bit cringe, this way your child has the option of only using one name.

CatkinToadflax · 21/07/2019 18:32

Francis Crawford Although maybe he took it a bit far with James James Morrison Morrison Willoughby George DuPree

Weatherby! Weatherby! (But I love the reference! Always wondered if James Morrison's parents were A A Milne fans! Grin)

Lobsterquadrille2 · 21/07/2019 19:20

@CatkinToadflax I always assumed that James Morrison was the son of a single mother, who was possibly having MH difficulties and he was effectively a (very) young carer, it at least saw himself like that. This could very well be projection on my part!

CatkinToadflax · 21/07/2019 19:43

Lobster Grin Well he’s certainly done very well for himself regardless!

Love your user name - love a bit of Lewis Carroll as well as AA Milne!

Lobsterquadrille2 · 21/07/2019 19:49

@CatkinToadflax oh sorry!! I meant the James Morrison in the poem (is it called Disobedience?). I always found it quite sad - that a three year old felt responsible for his mother's safety - and especially the line "last seen wandering vaguely, quite of her own accord" as if she'd had a breakdown. And that JJMMWGD didn't have a father so felt that he alone was responsible for her.

Or I just overthink!!

Thank you; it's my favourite of the Alice poems.

CatkinToadflax · 21/07/2019 20:03

Lobster I always assumed that JJMMWGD was a total control freak and his mother found it easier to just go along with him! Grin It’s a rather lovely poem though, I’m a fan of all of the Milne poems (although ‘Here Lies A Tree - By Owl’ is my favourite!).

Kanga83 · 21/07/2019 20:17

I hate them all with a passion. I find them tacky and classless personally.

MikeUniformMike · 21/07/2019 20:52

Anne-Marie is ok.
Jaydon-Kai or Lily-Mae seem very downmarket.
The Sarah-Janes and Emma-Janes of my age groups are known as Sarah or Emma. My DC are of the -Louise age group.
When someone told me that her GDD was Jade-Emma , I heard Jaidemma and thought ???. She refers to her as Jade these days.

Alarae · 21/07/2019 20:57

Not a fan and I have a niece with a double barrelled first name... And surname.

Odd thing is that we don't actually use the full first name, only the first portion, so I am extremely confused by my sister's decision.

chipsnmayo · 21/07/2019 21:27

I really wanted a double barrelled name for my DD, I loved Holly-Louise as Louise was my mum's middle name.

Ex vetoed the double barrelled name (incl Holly), TBH I am grateful he did, nice idea but wasn't that practical. Although DD never Louise as a middle name :(

crazycatgal · 21/07/2019 21:31

I find them awful, every other child at school is something-mae, something-jo or something-lee.

MikeUniformMike · 22/07/2019 18:49

Holly and Louise are both nice but Holly-Louise is a bit of a tongue twister.

WutheringBites · 22/07/2019 18:57

I am going to read the entire thread just to see if my name turns up. (Yes, I’m actually wuther-ing)

Love all the judgeyness, tho. Seriously, people. I’m in my 40s and life’s enough of a bloody great upwards struggle without people being unkind about my name (which I didn’t bloody choose, but quite like?).

Hyphen; no hyphen discrimination? Fuck that. Hmm

WutheringBites · 22/07/2019 19:09

Oh no; my hyphenated first name doesn’t come up.
I like it.
And I’d not particularly consider myself either “tacky” or “classless”. But, maybe I’ve missed other people thinking that about me.

Answer to this; go for a hyphen if you like the names together. Smile

ZillaPilla · 22/07/2019 19:23

WutheringBites My name's come up quite a bit on this thread.........oooooooo. I am 48.

AlecOrAlonzo · 22/07/2019 19:48

Extremely common to do this where I live - especially for boys:

John Norman
Iain George
Murdo John

Etc

HotChocolateLover · 22/07/2019 20:06

Hideous, so chavvy.

notacooldad · 22/07/2019 20:34

I don't see how names like Anne Marie, Marie Claire or John Paul are ' hideoes' ' chavy' or " awful'

ZillaPilla · 22/07/2019 21:33

@HotChocolateLover charming! I post that I have a db name and two posts later you say they are hideous and chavvy.

MollyHuaCha · 22/07/2019 22:18

No to hyphenated first names.

They sound even more silly on grown up people.

Lobsterquadrille2 · 22/07/2019 22:34

@WutheringBites @ZillaPilla my hyphenated name hasn't come up on this thread either. I like mine too and I'm nearly 50 - people I've met during my life must have pretended to like it ...

Lilyannarose · 23/07/2019 09:58

I'm in the minority and although none of mine have double barrel names, I do quite like them!
I know they are way over used but still love...
Rosie-Mae
Mollie-Kate
Clara-Louise
Heidi-Rose.
I was never brave enough to use them for mine but I think they're fine.
They can always drop the hyphen as they get older if they want a stand alone name.

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Lilyannarose · 23/07/2019 10:44

I'm not afraid to disagree with the crowd. I think hyphenated names are fine!

ZillaPilla · 23/07/2019 13:17

Thank you Lily-Anna-Rose Grin

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