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Reusing a middle name for a second child

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mrsmamaleone · 15/07/2019 08:14

What is the opinion on using one child's middle name as another's first name? For example, my first-born is called Mary Margaret but we rarely refer to her as both, 96% of the time she's simply Mary. We're expecting our second daughter now and we were originally going to call her Molly but I asked everyone here what they thought and it ended up getting vetoed. We decided to go with Jane Alice but now we're not sure. Simply put, I'm in love with Margaret and that extended to my love of it's nickname "Molly". My husband is also equally into the name, not surprising, since our first daughter's middle is Margaret.

I know some people do it and it works, like Eva Mendez and Ryan Gosling with daughters Esmerelda Amada and Amada Lee.

Is it bad form or should we go for it? She'll be here in a couple weeks according to the docs, but if she's anything like my older daughter we'll be meeting her sooner.

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Tonks101 · 15/07/2019 20:46

I think it's fine

PrincessLouis · 15/07/2019 23:32

I wouldn’t

Maybe another alliterative pair?

Jane Jemima
Jane Joanna
Jane Juliet

Alice Amelia
Alice Annabel

Alice in the Mary / Margaret / Jane / Alice vibe, what about:

Charlotte
Anne
Elizabeth
Eleanor
Frances

PrincessLouis · 15/07/2019 23:33

Sorry ALSO in the Mary vibe...

pregnantncnc · 15/07/2019 23:38

The duke and duchess of Cambridge did it, so I would say etiquette dictates that you can too (George Alexander Louis, then Prince Louis).

pregnantncnc · 15/07/2019 23:38

I didn't read the thread before posting! Oops

mrsmamaleone · 16/07/2019 06:16

We've decided that one of the names will be Scarlett or Charlotte since they both sound very similar to Margaret and we like them both a great deal. We'd like both the girls to have similar naming style, ie short first name long middle. Right now we're balancing Olivia Charlotte and Olivia Scarlett. We'll see when we meet her. Nothing concrete yet.

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mrsmamaleone · 16/07/2019 08:36

We've decided on Bonnie Scarlett or Bonnie Charlotte.

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Nova324 · 16/07/2019 16:20

Aww I like Bonnie Scarlett!
But just for reference I'd never heard of Molly being a NN for Mary.. considering its longer than Mary anyway

daisypond · 16/07/2019 17:50

Molly is a ”pet” form of Mary, along with Polly, not a diminutive as such.

user1493494961 · 16/07/2019 21:23

Name her Molly, much nicer than Bonnie.

user1493494961 · 16/07/2019 21:27

Mary and Bonnie don't go together, they are different types of names.

ladycarlotta · 17/07/2019 00:07

Bonnie is lovely! I think it does go with Mary.

Astronica · 17/07/2019 06:49

I really like Bonnie and think it sounds great as Mary's sister. Love the middle name options too.

BertrandRussell · 17/07/2019 06:55

But Mary is such a wonderful sophisticated grown up name. And Bonnie...isn’t.

I still think Jane is lovely. Jane Charlotte and Mary Margaret.

daisypond · 17/07/2019 07:00

Agree with Bertrand. Both Bonnie and Scarlett are very different names to Mary and Margaret and it does seem odd to me. Jane is great and fits loads more.

FenellaMaxwell · 17/07/2019 07:04

I didn’t think the first kid’s name actually was Mary...? I like Bonnie.

I wouldn’t reuse - it’s edging towards George Foreman territory. (All his sons are called George Foreman)

Sparklypurpleunicornsaremyfav · 17/07/2019 07:57

Personally I don't think scarlet or bonnie go with Mary Margaret but it's your decision, go with what you love. I really love something like Annie Beatrice it fits your naming pattern and I think they go with dd's name

Cookit · 17/07/2019 09:05

You decide so quickly!

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