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51 replies

MrsDarcy4092 · 19/05/2019 20:20

Hi all,

I’m keen give find unisex names. I’ve chosen Robin for if I have a girl but went to find a unisex name for if I have a boy.
Any suggestions?

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Shadow1234 · 20/05/2019 01:48

Quinn
Harley
Billy
Hayden
Riley

NaughtToThreeSadOnions · 20/05/2019 02:07

Unisex names are less obvious in boys and lots sound the same but have different spelling to hint at the gender

What are you talking about whoops where is the spelling difrerence between sam and sam, please do tell me.

And really you can't think of any names at all

Teddy - robbie williams daughter who was a bridesmaid at princes eugaines wedding spells her name this way

Sam
Billy
Phil

All spelt exactly the same way male or female

MrsDarcy4092 · 20/05/2019 03:30

I prefer Robin to Robyn. Robin is the true spelling. Robyn has been created to make the name more feminine and show gender through names. Robin is the original spelling, the spelling of the bird. To use the word unkind when describing how to spell a name is absurd.

If you prefer Robyn it’s also a lovely name. But I prefer Robin. My post was to ask for ideas for other unisex names which I can use if I have a boy as I do not like Robin for a boy. The post was not to ask for opinions on Robin for a girl.

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MrsDarcy4092 · 20/05/2019 03:31

Once again, some really lovely name suggestions on here so thank you all for taking the time.

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Polestar50 · 20/05/2019 04:13

Jax
Laurie
Ellery/Elery

I'd love to know why you want a unisex name OP. No judgement I promise, just curious.

user920 · 20/05/2019 06:21

Eden
Tate
Harley
Phoenix
Marley
Spencer
Alex

Calixtine · 20/05/2019 06:47

Robin is lovely!

Sorrel
Larkin
Eden
Auden
Blake
Briar
Rowan
River
Winter
Quinn
Bay
Avery
Emory
Luca
Linden
Morgan
Rue
Darcy
Shea
Wren
Aspen
Corin
Sandy
Esca

PollyShelby · 20/05/2019 07:00

Robin is a boys name. As a teacher if I saw it on the register I'd think it was a boy.

Alex is a pretty well known unisex name.

loz1986 · 20/05/2019 07:02

I love Jude .. also Francis

Whoops75 · 20/05/2019 09:43

What are you talking about whoops where is the spelling difrerence between sam and sam, please do tell me

I said lots not all, I think most are a stretch for a girl.

You’re examples are abbreviations of boys names that are also used for girls.

Phil is short for Philomena
Sam for Samuel or Samantha
Billy is boy spelling
Billie is for girls

Robin is a boys name. As a teacher if I saw it on the register I'd think it was a boy.

^ I would too

parabailarlabamba · 20/05/2019 10:40

Spell it Robyn

MrsDarcy4092 · 20/05/2019 10:44

Heaven forbid someone see a child’s name and assume the wrong gender

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Theoldwoman · 20/05/2019 10:49

Spell Robyn with the Y though, otherwise it is particularly masculine!

Jordan
Aubrey
Lee
Ashley
Tyler
Blair
Cameron

redhotchill · 20/05/2019 11:03

Robin isn't a unisex name. It's a boys name. And throughout her life people will assume male. I'd be so irritated by that.

Sam is a unisex name

redhotchill · 20/05/2019 11:06

I'd also wonder why you want a unisex name? I know of 4 girls who are now saying they are "boys" and wish to be called their new chosen boy name. Is it to potentially avoid this?

One of them has chosen Dan if that helps

MrsDarcy4092 · 20/05/2019 11:10

Thank You everyone. Some great suggestions for another unisex name for if I have a boy.

I’m very happy with Robin if I have a girl so do not need opinions on that.

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codenameduchess · 20/05/2019 11:19

Sam is a unisex nickname, usually Samuel or Samantha- neither are particularly unisex.

The notion of 'unisex for a boy' is ridiculous though.

MrsDarcy4092 · 20/05/2019 11:19

This thread is fascinating though. I wonder why some people think it would be so unkind or annoying to have someone assume you were Male from your name.
As soon as Robin met someone or spoke to them they would know the gender. But what does it matter even if they got it wrong? If your female and on paper you are assumed Male you are likely to have access to Male privalages- more chance of being invited to certain job interviews for example. What’s the harm it would cause if some individuals assumed the wrong gender?

Is this why we are so attached to blue and pink? Because so many people are scared their children will be assumed the wrong gender?

Bonkers

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Leakinglikeacolander · 20/05/2019 11:22

Rudy

MrsDarcy4092 · 20/05/2019 11:23

I did not phrase it well. When I say I want a unisex name for a boy I mean that I like Robin but not for a boy so I’m holding that for if I have a girl and So I’m looking for another unisex name that I like. It’s jusf my preference that I dislike Robin as a boys name. A name can be unisex but they are not given to unisex children.

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codenameduchess · 20/05/2019 11:25

OP I am often assumed to be male because I have a unisex name, not really a problem but certainly no male privileges based on an assumption of my name. It's not an issue now but did used to bother me in my younger days... children can be cruel.

A close relative is a female Robyn and is rarely assumed to be male but does get annoyed when it happens still.

You are however bringing gender into this. if you like robin as a unisex name whether the baby is male or female doesn't matter. Staying you want unisex for a boy is where the questions are coming from, what difference does a penis make to a unisex name? None, exactly none.

MrsDarcy4092 · 20/05/2019 11:27

It doesn’t, it’s just my preference.

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TrixieFranklin · 20/05/2019 11:35

Grin ok then

NaughtToThreeSadOnions · 20/05/2019 17:35

Sam is a unisex nickname, usually Samuel or Samantha- neither are particularly unisex

I didnt ask for the difference between samuel and samatha code i asked for the diffence between Sam and Sam. Both not nicknames both just those three letters on the birth certs one female one male born within 7 months of each other at the same hospital

So as you are so clever what is the differece between Sam and Sam

TailsoftheManyPaws · 20/05/2019 17:44

I'd spell Robin with an i for either, because I don't see the point of adding a y to a perfectly good 'nature' name.

This Robin is definitely not a chap - I've met her!
www.linkedin.com/in/robin-wallach-718219a