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Aurelia/ Amalia/ Amelia?

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chiarazuri · 15/04/2019 12:54

We have still not decided on the perfect name and it's proving to be quite a challenge to decide!
We want a name that is

  1. easy to pronounce
  2. fits in with an arab background
  3. Classic, timeless and sophisticated
  4. Sounds pretty and strong I would really love to hear honest opinions! Surname is pretty straightforward and easy to pronounce.

Shortlist:
Aurelia (I am aware of the jellyfish/ areola connection, is this an issue? Also would it seem out of place as a name for an arab baby?)

Amalia (I know this may be confused with Amelia but what do you think of the sound of this name? Does it come across well?)

Amelia (slightly put off by the medical limb abnormality association, but still like it as it works well in both cultures)

Eliana
Aliana (an arabic name, I love the arabic meaning but I don't want this to be perceived as a "made up" name ?)

Sara - lovely but boring to my ears
Any other suggestions?

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Wallabyone · 15/04/2019 16:43

I'm of Greek origin and Amalia is pronounced uma-lia like u in umbrella. It's lovely but probably not the easiest to pronounce!

chiarazuri · 15/04/2019 16:53

Thank you everyone for the feedback on pronunciation! It seems that Amalia/ Aurelia will both have their own pronunciation challenges so I don't think one is superior over the other in that sense.
Could Aurelia come across as pretentious?

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InvisibleToEveryone · 15/04/2019 19:38

I know an Amaelia.
Pronounced A may lee a .

I like Aurelia, I'd say it Oar ray lee a

chiarazuri · 15/04/2019 19:48

I'm really siding towards Aurelia at the moment, love the meaning! Please keep your thoughts coming!

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 15/04/2019 19:49

LOVE Aurelia, and I don't think it's pretentious. There are so many Amelias, Amelies, Emilias around.

DramaAlpaca · 15/04/2019 19:50

Amalia is really lovely.

chiarazuri · 15/04/2019 20:03

Thank you lobster!
I have a few middle name options for Aurelia:
Aurelia Rosalie
Aurelia Noor
Aurelia Safia
Aurelia Camila
Aurelia Serena
Aurelia Eliana
Aurelia Sara
What do you think? These are also options for Amalia. Please let me know if you have any others. :)

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 15/04/2019 20:40

Aurelia Noor flows really well, but in reality middle names aren't used that much.

As before, I really love Aurelia. With Amalia, I'd be a bit unsure as to the pronunciation.

OopsOhNoZHM · 15/04/2019 20:41

I love Aurelia, beautiful name. Of those I would go for Aurelia Noor, as too many syllables can be a mouthful.
Would you pronounce Amalia as Ah-marley-uh or Ah-may-lee-uh?

jamtart30 · 15/04/2019 20:43

Emilia Smile

Hoplittlebunnies · 15/04/2019 20:47

I know an Amalia (pronounced like Ah-Marley-Ah but without the R in Marley) and I love it. Mali for short. As far as I'm aware her parents haven't had pronunciation issues from others!

Also as I was typing this, I'm watching season 2 of Sabrina on Netflix and one of the war locks just said his familiar is called Amalia. Spooky....

ZebraKid71 · 15/04/2019 21:14

I'd go aurelia.
Amelia is too common, and I know an Amalia who is constantly correcting people, on both spelling and pronunciation. I know it is a legitimate name, and quite common in some European countries, but in the UK it will just blend in with all the Amelies and Amelias. Plus her friends call her Marlie as a nn which I don't really like.

chiarazuri · 15/04/2019 21:28

OopsOh, now that you've mentioned it, Aurelia Noor is growing on me! I'd like a one syllable middle name ideally but there aren't that many to choose from, Rose is quite common so I want to avoid it.

I'm pretty much set on Aurelia, I totally agree with the issue of Amalia being too similar to Amelia which is so common. Do you think Aurelia is a timeless/ classic name or will it seem dated in a few years time?

Now I just need to choose a middle name!!

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OopsOhNoZHM · 15/04/2019 21:54

Same problem I had with my daughter. She has a 4 syllable first name so wanted a single syllable middle name. I thought Rose too and it fit her name perfectly but it is so so common. I ended up going against my own rule and gave her Sylvie as a middle name, after a good friend Sylvia, who passed away while I was pregnant.
For me I think Aurelia will stay a classy name and won’t become overused.

birdgal4848 · 15/04/2019 22:00

Aurelia is, in my opinion, just such a beautiful name, I would pronounce it ‘or Ray lia’ but i know there are different ways, how are you planning on saying the name?
Middles could be - Aurelia Belle
Aurelia Eve
You’ll need a name that doesn’t end in a hard ‘a’ sound to follow it.

The other one I love from your list is Amalia, I’ve known a little girl with this name - she is about 9 now, it’s never been mispronounced and I think of it as a completely different (& classier name) to Amelia but maybe that’s because I’ve known of a child with the name.

campion · 15/04/2019 22:04

The Amalia I know pronounces it

Am-uh-leeya.
She's very particular about it too

jiggsymalone · 15/04/2019 22:10

What about Alia?

Lobsterquadrille2 · 15/04/2019 22:11

I would say Aur - REE - lia.

Middle names: Grace, Blythe, Fay, Joy, Kate.

Still like Noor.

chiarazuri · 15/04/2019 22:22

Thank you everyone for all the suggestions! I agree the middle name should not and in an "a" sound.
I like Aurelia Noor as it means golden light
I also love the suggestion of Aurelia Eve.
Any similar suggestions for middle names that would go well with Aurelia?
I Would pronounce it Au ree lia, I just think this flows better? Au ray lia is nice too. Is there a correct pronunciation out of the two or do both work?

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Prettylittlelady · 15/04/2019 22:39

It really is a beautiful name.
The meaning of Aurelia Noor is lovely. I think it’s one of those names that has more than one acceptable pronunciation, whichever one you choose once you’ve told people once, they’ll remember - don’t worry.
I would say oar ray lia but I’ve seen threads on this name before and it’s usuallt split on how it’s said. Both are fine.

MercyBodle · 16/04/2019 07:48

Amalia is my favourite from your options.

chiarazuri · 16/04/2019 10:25

Thank you!
There are a few different spellings for Noor,
Aurelia Nur
Aurelia Noor
Aurelia Nour
Which of these looks best in your opinion?

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Lobsterquadrille2 · 16/04/2019 10:37

Aurelia Noor per your original. Timeless and elegant.

chiarazuri · 16/04/2019 13:42

Lobster, thank you! I am still undecided however. I'm not sure if the sound of Noor is something that I like, it's very "ooo " heavy..

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SallyWD · 16/04/2019 14:39

Amalia is lovely. People will get used to it. I also love Amara. Have you considered that name? I know 2 girls of Arabic heritage who are called Jennah and Leila. I think they are lovely strong names and quite western too.

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