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Opinions on hyphened first name (second part May)

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PSL1990 · 14/04/2019 19:24

What do people this of hyphened first names? Eg Alice-May

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sunshineandshowers21 · 14/04/2019 19:27

i think they are much too popular. half of the kids i know have either may in its variations or rose as a hyphenated first name, and the majority of the time the second part of the name is rarely used anyway.

BendydickCuminsnatch · 14/04/2019 19:28

I do think -May names generally sound pretty but I wouldn’t use one as they’re so popular and overused.

NannyR · 14/04/2019 19:30

Personally, I really don't like them. I think May and Rose are beautiful names on their own, but they are so popular/common as middle or hyphenated names, they sound very unoriginal.

WingingWonder · 14/04/2019 19:30

It’s too 80s for me... half my peers were Sarah-Jayne

DramaAlpaca · 14/04/2019 19:32

Hyphenated names are never popular on MN, so you might not get the validation that you are looking for.

Personally I don't mind the traditional ones, like Anne-Marie or Mary-Ann, but I dislike the contrived modern versions.

As for Alice May, I'd do that - without the hyphen. You can always call her by both names if you want to, the hyphen isn't necessary.

YoureAllABunchOfBastards · 14/04/2019 19:33

As a teacher, I know very few students who continue to use the hyphenated version past the age of 11.

CloserIAm2Fine · 14/04/2019 19:40

I really don’t like them, Alice on it’s own or with May as a middle name is much nicer

bellinisurge · 14/04/2019 19:48

My DD's classmate has dropped her May now she is at secondary.

seeingdots · 14/04/2019 19:55

Not keen, sorry. I find them -May names often a bit twee. Especially if the first name ends in ie/y.

Ellieboolou27 · 14/04/2019 20:01

Can’t stand them, sounds so twee and it’s one of my pet hates! I know 2 adults with hyphenated names and I cringe when I have to use them. Sorry you did ask Grin
Sarah - Jayne, Sally - Sue etc AngryAngryAngry

Hoppinggreen · 14/04/2019 20:05

Alice is a lovely name, no need to hyphenate it with anything

JumpingFrogs · 14/04/2019 20:28

I work in a senior school. Many, many girls have hyphenated names, but very few use them, so what's the point ? My daughters all have middle names, and I sometimes call them by first name-middle name, as a kind of pet name, but feel it's too cumbersome for everyday use. Alice is a lovely name.

concernedforthefuture · 14/04/2019 20:39

There are loads of something-Mays at DCs nursery / school (both of which are quite small so not a huge population sample). We have:

Evie-May
Matilda-May
Erin-May
Amelie-May
Emily-May
Ellie-May (x2)
Daisy-May
Lily-May

It's really popular

DarlingLittleBabyName · 14/04/2019 21:10

oh I just love the name Alice, but I think it makes it so much tackier putting the -May in one the end. Alice May (as in May is the middle name) is much prettier x

PlatypusLeague · 14/04/2019 22:13

There is usually a "filler" name after the hyphen, usually also popular as a non-hyphenated middle name. It used to be Jane, Louise or Ann, but these days more likely to be May, Grace, Kate etc. IMO it might be nice to see some other middle or post-hyphen names more often. Seren Alexandria, Lucy Meredith, Iris Octavia or whatever.

Bellaposey · 14/04/2019 22:16

Alice May is lovely. Alice-May is awful. Rightly or wrongly hyphenated names instantly sound "scummy" to me and I say that as someone firmly "working class" for want of better phrases!

PlatypusLeague · 14/04/2019 22:19

Alice Juliette
Alice Coralie
Alice Georgiana
Alice Victoria
Alice Marianne
Alice Roxanna
Alice Aurelia

CrispbuttyNo1 · 14/04/2019 22:22

Chavvy.

And I say that as someone who has a hyphenated name myself. (but like Anne-Marie).

Bookworm4 · 14/04/2019 22:24

Cute as a toddler not as an adult.

MercyBodle · 15/04/2019 03:32

Both May and Rose are very popular as the 2nd part of hyphenated names, so they can feel a bit predictable and overdone to me. I do tend to prefer the 2 names not hyphenated. You can still say them both together if that's what you like.

Sophronia · 15/04/2019 16:39

I think they are going to sound so dated in a few years.

bellinisurge · 15/04/2019 16:45

Theresa-May . Grin. Sorry, I couldn't resist. I know a perfectly nice person whose kid has a "something-May" name. Great kid.
But to myself I say "what were you thinking?".

MikeUniformMike · 15/04/2019 16:51

April-May?

nelsonmuntzslingshot · 15/04/2019 16:53

I really can’t stand hyphenated ‘May/Mae’ names.

NutMeghan · 15/04/2019 21:22

I agree leave the hyphen off and just do Alice May.

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