Is this a big issue? My partner and I have very different tastes in names and all of a sudden both agree on a name for a boy. The problem is, the shortening that I like and would use rhymes with the shortened version of my partner's name. I kept thinking that the name flowed well with his surname... Now it makes sense! The full names don't rhyme, however.
E.g. Stanley and Daniel = Stan and Dan, or actually Martyn and Bartholomew = Mart and Bart is more accurate as there isn't a similar sound between the names at all in their full forms
Am I overthinking or is that weird?