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Very similar first name and surname.

59 replies

Milasmummy · 14/01/2019 08:48

what’s the consensus regarding the surname sharing two letters from the first name.

Examples are:
Freya Farmer

Heidi Hayden

Is that a no go? Too mean?

Thanks!

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haverhill · 14/01/2019 13:37

Marilyn Monroe.

CookieBlue · 14/01/2019 13:41

I used to go to school with someone called Joe Jones. Always thought that was a bit of a strange one!

irisheyesaresmiling7 · 14/01/2019 13:43

I love illiterate names as long as they don't sound silly.

I knew a Val Valentine and it was only after he died I realised he was actually called Valentine Valentine (he was born on Valentine's Day).
I couldn't do that to my child but then again it didn't seem to do him any harm and he was a lovely man.

DitzyPrints · 14/01/2019 13:43

I love alliteration names my son has one and I’ve had lots of comments it sounds like a movie star name :)

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 14/01/2019 13:46

I don’t think it’s a definite no - depends on the names.

I knew a John Johnson too!

Icklepup · 14/01/2019 13:46

The ones you've suggested are fine.

canibehereifimnotamum · 14/01/2019 13:47

I know some called David Davies and William Williams 🤦🏼‍♀️

binkyblinky · 14/01/2019 13:58

I went to school with a William Williams

MawkishTwaddle · 14/01/2019 14:03

Or the Klu Klux Klan.

MawkishTwaddle · 14/01/2019 14:05

Sorry, that was to goldengummybear

BikeRunSki · 14/01/2019 14:05

I went to school with someone called Ronnie Renney. Anything is possible.

OrdinaryGirl · 14/01/2019 14:12

One of my DC has the first two letters the same in his first name and surname. Two syllables then two syllables. I didn't choose it but I like it a lot - it sounds more strong / superhero than twee.

It's personal preference I think, rather than an accepted general view of it being awful / amazing. It's lovely to have a monogram of the same 2 letters though! Marilyn Monroe - MM etc. #helpful

NicoleNoPants · 14/01/2019 14:15

I love aliterate names! They do sound like movie stars!

MoggEatMoggWorld · 14/01/2019 14:19

I think it usually sounds cool and like they could be an actor or something eg Amy Adams.

BIL/SIL’s DD has the same initial for all three names! All good as long as it’s not KKK Grin

thatmustbenigelwiththebrie · 14/01/2019 14:56

I love names that have alliteration. do it!

OutPinked · 14/01/2019 18:00

It’s really weird. I know a woman who didn’t just do it with one of her DD’s but with both of them. They have the same first name bar one letter and the names are very similar to the surname. Can’t say the names because it’s outing but it’s bad...

RedDwarves · 14/01/2019 21:10

I think it sounds a bit ridiculous in the examples you've offered, but don't listen to me because I'm 100% convinced I could have a Lillian Lee i.e. Lily Lee. Grin

FancyDrew · 14/01/2019 21:46

My favourite alliterative name is January Jones (the Mad Men actress). Love the 3(4?) syllables with a single syllable surname too.

ABitOTT · 14/01/2019 21:48

My first & last names alterate after I married DH. I prefer this to what I had before, particularly as both names are unusual.

OP, it depends on the names you wish to use & many can work while others sound daft.

wishingitwasfriday · 14/01/2019 22:15

Not quite the same but I know someone who took their husbands name when they married and became Hayley Bailey. I always think it's weird to have a rhyming name

mistermagpie · 14/01/2019 22:22

I had never, until this thread, realised that my DS's first name and surname share three letters. Which should indicate how much of a non-issue it is! They are alliterative but I like that, whilst others don't.

I agree with others, as long as it's not silly then it's probably not noticeable either

stambirk · 14/01/2019 22:47

I love illiterate names as long as they don't sound silly.

Yeah, we all know an illiterate parent with a ridiculously names offspring.

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AhoyDelBoy · 15/01/2019 01:44

Not quite the same but I know someone who took their husbands name when they married and became Hayley Bailey

I also know someone who took her husbands name and is now Phillipa Phillips Grin awful.

MerryMarigold · 15/01/2019 02:01

Most of my fav names rhymed with dh's surname. Had to find alternatives as thought it sounded silly eg. Judith Smith. Alliteration is better, so I guess it depends where the letters are and do they made same sounds?