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Iolanthe

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justabunchofbunting · 20/04/2018 09:41

Iolanthe. Means Violet in Greek. Also the name of a fairy who falls in love with a mortal in a Victorian opera. Pronounced eye-oh-lan-thee.

We had previously settled on Isolde but were worried that she would be called Izzy which is okay, but seeing as how Isabella and Isabel were some of the most popular girls names last year she would probably be one of many Izzys in her year.
I love the story of Isolde and think its a beautiful name.
We were thinking that even though Iolanthe is less personal to us, it is similar but has better potential for shortening. Could use Io or Lana or Thea.

Were thinking of perhaps using both names, as middle and first......... but do people think thats too over the top as they are similar to each other and both quite a mouthful?

what are peoples thoughts?

Thanks

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daisypond · 20/04/2018 13:51

If Isolde is more personal to you, I think you should go with that, but not with Iolanthe as a middle name. It sounds like that is the name you really want, you're just put off by Izzy as a short form. If you want to shorten Isolde, you could have forms like Zolda/Iso, etc, you're not stuck with Izzy.

SilverHairedCat · 20/04/2018 13:59

Iolanthe is beautiful, but I know the opera.

As for the nicknames, no you don't get to dictate. My mums friend named her daughter Victoria then spent the next 20+ years kicking off that everyone called her Vicky, not Toria and refusing to acknowledge anyone who addressed her that way.

Vicky finally told her mum to stick it when she was 24.

TatianaLarina · 20/04/2018 14:11

Comic opera not proper opera.

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justabunchofbunting · 20/04/2018 14:21

Well that puts Isolde ahead as its a 'proper' opera. But... Wagner.... is it a bit fascist?

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TatianaLarina · 20/04/2018 14:25

What I actually meant is that it doesn’t really count - it’s a funny little cod opera with only incidental relevance to the name Iolanthe.

rebeccabecca · 20/04/2018 14:25

I like them both individually but think they sound a bit pretentious together.

slippermaiden · 20/04/2018 14:26

Looks nice written down but no one will know is to say it!

slippermaiden · 20/04/2018 14:28

How!!

boxyfingo · 20/04/2018 14:34

Nobody will be able to spell it or pronounce it. if that doesn't bother you, go for it!

LiviaAD · 20/04/2018 14:38

I work with an Isolde and she's lovely, I much prefer it to Iolanthe - reminds me of school operettas!

SomeKnobend · 20/04/2018 14:48

Is it a version of Yolande/Yolanda? I'd go for that tbh. Eye-0h-lan-the isn't pretty and would be a pain in the arse for her.

Saisong · 20/04/2018 14:48

I think Isolde comes from the Welsh name Esyllt originally, might that be an option? Pronounced approximately ess-ilt (but with the 'l' longer in the Welsh way). Yseult perhaps comes closer. I like all variations.

Iolanthe is a bit more of a mouthful, but I've come across much worse. I've also come across Iola (eye-ola) though that also has a Welsh pronunciation (Ee-o-la, o as in orange).

I wouldn't use them both together

Dixiestampsagain · 20/04/2018 14:52

I’m now in full on G&S mode..

TatianaLarina · 20/04/2018 15:01

Not sure the Welsh was the original actually - the narrative comes more from Irish legend (Iseult is an Irish princess, Tristan is Cornish) - altho broadly they’re all Celt - and all of the 3 earliest written versions of Tristan and Iseult - were in Norman French.

The Welsh have their own versions of Irish myth - Merlin/Myrrddin is Suibhne, Lleu/Llew is Lugh etc

trueblueari · 20/04/2018 19:47

I know an Ioanna from Greece who is always correcting people for calling her "eye-oh-anna" - it's "ee-oh-anna."
So before I read your pronunciation I assumed it was a Greek name and so read it as "ee-oh-lan-thee." My point is, it could get mispronounced a lot. That said, either pronunciation is pretty and I like the name. I love Greek names and debated Dionysia for DD but XH vetoed it.
I wouldn't use it with Isolde though. Sol means sun in Spanish and is part of Isolde - how about Ioanthe Sol?

Athrawes · 20/04/2018 22:30

I love it. It is classic. Literally. And she was only turned into a cow to hide her beauty from a jealous wife. She was known to be a very beautiful bovine.

BringMeCoffeePlease · 20/04/2018 22:36

I agree that they look nicer written down than they sound. I don’t like either.

LastNightsMakeUp · 20/04/2018 22:45

I think as a first and middle name
Together they do sound a bit too much. I'd also caution using two favourite names on one child in case another comes along and you've blown both your favourites!

Personally I would find both a bit difficult to pronounce, but as long as you're comfortable with nn that will work!

YesThisIsMe · 20/04/2018 22:47

He will be troooooooly happier for
He’s such a susceptible Chancellor.

I went to see it at the ENO last month and very funny it was too - I never knew the ENO surtitles could do bouncing balls for singalongs.
m.youtube.com/watch?v=ejsyALvQxCc

I think it’s a nice name but
A) nobody apart from G&S fans and a tiny number of hardcore classicists will be able to pronounce it (and you’ll be completely screwed outside Europe and North America)
B) the aforementioned G&S fans will be humming under their breath as soon as they’re introduced.

FourFriedChickensDryWhiteToast · 20/04/2018 22:48

its not pronounced 'eye o lan thee ' though is it?

gillybeanz · 20/04/2018 22:56

Operetta, actually. Grin

I think people who know G&S will associate the two, but how many people have never heard of G&S anyway.

Lifeaback · 20/04/2018 23:05

I'm not a fan of iolanthe sorry. It looks really weird written down and think your daughter would have a lifetime of correcting people and being embarrassed about her name. I much prefer Isolde and think it's a very pretty name

TatianaLarina · 21/04/2018 10:10

It only looks odd to you written down because you’re not used to it.

SundayGirls · 21/04/2018 10:22

Personally I do love the names however I can't help but think how long it will be before someone calls her "I Sold E".

Iolanthe is pretty but I do think it a bit of a mouthful and as someone with a name that's fractionally unusual (but still known) I can tell you she'll be spelling it out in her sleep. Also with modern typeface it looks like Lolanthe as the typeface makes the I look like an l. Or, L. See?!

Ianthe (Eye-Aahn-Thee) is on the same lines but less of a tongue-twister and at least shorter to spell than Iolanthe.

But, there are plenty of unusual names around so if you really love it.... and I do think it's pretty. I just don't think it's practical. The name equivalent of wearing a ball gown every day Grin