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Why do people double barrel first names?

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FlawlessFuckup · 27/01/2018 22:29

Inspired by the ‘somebody explain Nando’s to me’ thread to find answers to my own personal mysteries.

I just don’t get it. I think hyphens look ugly, and most people only get called the first half of the name anyway, Sofia for Sofia-Rose etc.

I personally feel hyphenating names with a made up misspelt half-name like -Mai is odd. But I find it even odder when people hyphenate two ‘normal’ names, that have no obvious connection to each other, like Sofia-Rose, to use the same example.

I just don’t get it. Could someone explain it to me? Why would/did you do this? Is it because you couldn’t decide between two names, or another reason?

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alphajuliet123 · 31/01/2018 10:48

I'm not keen on double-barrelled either, especially if combined with a double-barrelled surname. There is a boy at our school with both, and all his names could also be surnames. Poor kid sounds like a solicitors - think Taylor-Dale Carrington-Smith. Naff.

Danglingmod · 31/01/2018 12:08

I work in a secondary school. I can't think of a single exception to my realisation that all the children with double-barrelled first names choose to drop one of them. This is also almost completely true for double-barrelled surnames too. I just think teenagers don't think that cutesy names are cool.

So, almost every Ava-Rose Wilson-Smith prefers to go by Ava Smith. I'm not sure if their parents are aware...

Kokeshi123 · 31/01/2018 12:33

It's considered a bit lower-class in the UK (which is funny, because in France there is no such connotation. Just goes to show how random it is).

Have been told by a double barrel that it gets annoying because people remember your name is DB but not what DB name it is. So if you are Mary Anne, you get Mary Lou, Mary Beth, Anne Marie, Lucy Anne etc. etc.....

MikeUniformMike · 31/01/2018 13:08

It was quite common where I come from for the mother to use her surname as a middle name when she gets married. Middle names, especially two middle names were not that common.
Jane Taylor would marry John Smith.
Jane Taylor Smith and John Smith would have children.
A child, often a daughter would get her mother's maiden name as a middle name and the boy the father's first name.
The children would be Peter John Smith and Sarah Taylor Smith.
The full name tended to get used.

RosieCotton · 01/02/2018 14:22

I have a double barrel first name. Oh god is it a pain in the ass. They didn't give a normal spelling either so I ha r to spell the whole thing out. And some forms need your name as printed on passport but don't accept hyphens. It's a nightmare. My mum did it because "it was done" she came from a very roman Catholic household, we all have Saint middle names to please my nana but I hate it. The only time she has ever used my full first name is when I'm in trouble. Even my husband didn't realise for 2 years that I don't have a middle name I actually have 2 first names.

Lennythelion14 · 04/02/2018 23:03

My youngest child has a hyphenated first name. The 2nd part is after a child that died. Each to their own tho. Some names sound nice put together and others are clunky.

sweetkitty · 04/02/2018 23:13

I'm double barrelled with hyphen and I hate it. It's a pain with online forms and I got teased about it when I was younger.

Lennythelion14 · 04/02/2018 23:31

At my children's school its a cultural thing. Mohammed-Azaan, Muhammad-Ali or Mohammed something. All boys known by their full 1st name. There was also a Muslim girl with triple 1st names.The girls usually just had 1 first name tho.

Belindabauer · 05/02/2018 01:02

I have to agree that most people I know have dropped the second part. I've never met anyone with a double barrelled name I liked.
They are either cutesy- Lilly mae etc or don't sound nice Victoria-Marie.

TatianaLarina · 05/02/2018 13:12

I find the fashion unbearably twee.

BabyMum17 · 05/02/2018 22:00

Sometimes hyphenated first names have a meaning behind them. My dad wanted me to be called Louise but my half related cousin is called Louise so my mum didn't feel comfortable having that just as my first name so they decided to call me Zoë-Louise so my dad could have part of his way but my name would always get shortened to Zoë so hyphenating it made him happy but no one would ever realise that my name was
Zoë-Louise is no one would ever really say that

TatianaLarina · 06/02/2018 09:29

There’s meaning behind the name not the hyphen. It didn’t have to be hyphenated, they could have just used Louise as a middle name.

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