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Middle name - strong woman

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Misslemon01 · 07/12/2017 13:12

We’ve pretty much settled on the first name for our baby girl - it’s a traditional Victorian name, begins with E.

Now we’re looking for a middle name, after a strong woman in literature or history. So far we’ve considered:

  • Simone (de Beauvoir)
  • Marie (Curie)
  • Sylvia (Plath)
  • Helen (of Troy) - though not very strong!

Any other thoughts? Also open to Shakespeare characters, but not the rubbish ones who are accessories to men!

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daisypond · 07/12/2017 20:07

may I ask who Colette is in history?
She was a French writer, writing in the early half of the 20th century. She had an interesting life. Her real name was Sidonie Gabrielle

wizzler · 07/12/2017 21:08

Bess ( of Hardwick)
Edith (cavell)

Misslemon01 · 07/12/2017 21:15

Love the suggestions of Valentina! What a great name. Josephine (Josie) is also a great one but sounds really odd with the first name we’ve picked.

Tonight, my husband has tried to cast aspersions on Florence Nightingale’s credentials, saying her achievements were exaggerated by her own media machine... Sad I still think she’s a great statistician and pioneer of modern nursing!

I don’t think I saw any suggestions of (Mother) Teresa - to a degree discredited these days and the name tainted by May too...

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BikeRunSki · 07/12/2017 21:19

Mary (Anning or Seacole)
Florence (Nightingale)
Amy (Johnson)
Amelia (Earhart)
Boudicca ????

Muddywellies10 · 07/12/2017 21:34

Brontë sisters so Charlotte, Emily or Anne? Or Jane (Austen).

LongDivision · 07/12/2017 23:42

Grace (Hopper)

HoratioNightboy · 08/12/2017 00:57

"Strong woman" to me always conjures up Pansy Potter, the Strongman's daughter! Not what you had in mind, I'm sure, but would Pansy work?

mathanxiety · 08/12/2017 03:55

Maeve (feisty queen, terrific character from Irish saga)
Constance (Markiewicz) first women elected to Parliament; Irish Republican so did not take her seat, second woman in the world to hold a cabinet position (Minister for Labour 1919-22, Ireland), devoted her life to the poor in the tenements of Dublin, sister of...
...Eva Gore Booth, muse of the poet William Butler Yeats.
[From Wikipedia - fashion advice attributed to Countess Markiewicz was: "Dress suitably in short skirts and strong boots, leave your jewels in the bank and buy a revolver."]

Christabel (Pankhurst)
Adela (Pankhurst)
Mary (Woolstonecroft, Shelley and Astell). Shelley is nice too.
And of course there is the great Mary Beard.
Emily (Wilding Davison) suffragette, threw herself under the King's horse in the Derby 1913.

Jane (Addams) - reformer, focused on needs of women and children, pioneer social worker, suffragette, activist, and much more, including winner of the Nobel Peace Prize.
Susan (B. Anthony) - abolitionist, suffragette.
Alice (Paul) - author of the proposed Equal Rights Amendment - US.
Sojourner (Truth) - abolitionist, suffragette
Araminta (original name of Harriet Tubman, author of 'Uncle Tom's Cabin'). Also Harriet.
Rosa (Parks)
Eleanor (Roosevelt)

mathanxiety · 08/12/2017 03:59

Your DH must have read Lytton Strachey's 'Eminent Victorians', Misslemon

ShizzleYoDrizzle · 08/12/2017 04:01

Well what women in history do you personally admire? Seems more sensible to take a name from a woman in a field you're interested in rather than looking for any 'strong woman'.

Misslemon01 · 08/12/2017 07:13

@ShizzleYoDrizzle you’re absolutely right, but I’ve loved reading everyone’s suggestions and learning about empowered women! 💪🏼

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annandale · 08/12/2017 07:38

Ellen (wilkinson) Red Ellen, who raised the school leaving age, instituted free school milk, loved fashion, marched for Jarrow and published both political books and mystery novels.

Dorothy (Hodgkin) Nobel prize winner for chemistry

Margaret (Thatcher) who as a scientist accepted climate change was a real threat and used our EU membership to bring employers like Nissan to Britain

Not Malala - she's too young. She has big political ambitions and I hope she achieves them but who knows what the results will be.

undertheradarplease · 08/12/2017 08:38

I respectfully disagree @annadale. Malala may be tender in age, but imo this only goes in her favour. She's current, relevant and a fabulous role model to young women throughout the world.

Her resilience, courage and maturity are characteristic of someone much older. She stands up for what she believes. Malala was raised to believe in education. Her father encouraged her to go to school. She was true to her deepest self and did not waiver in the face of opposition, but rather held fast to that which she knew to be true and right.

laelti · 08/12/2017 10:17

Some that I liked for similar strong women reasons (before being rather confidently told baby is a boy!)

Ada (Lovelace) - considered the first computer programmer (also daughter of the poet Byron and generally very interesting!)

Grace - very popular now but Grace Darling was always a local hero growing up in the North East. A lighthouse keepers daughter who rescued stricken sailors in a storm.

Hera - wife of Zeus/goddess of woman in Greek mythology. Admittedly a bit crazy but they all were in Greek mythology.

Minerva (McGonagall in Harry Potter, but I think the name is from the Roman goddess of Wisdom)

To agree with the others posted, any of the suffragettes.

Florence - as in Nightingale, though I have heard that is starting to be disputed? I'm also a massive Florence and the Machine fan though...

laelti · 08/12/2017 10:20

Oh, and Octavia, as in Octavia Hill, a social reformer who was one of the founding figures of the National Trust.

(Sadly my other half veto-d everything but Grace!)

Misslemon01 · 08/12/2017 11:00

Hera, and of course Juno - I liked that she was empowered enough to challenge her husband (and brother...) Zeus when he played away, but c’mon, he was taking the p! That’s why Jupiter (Roman version) has so many moons. If ever there was a case for LTB...

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WhenLoveAndCakeCollide · 08/12/2017 11:12

Millicent - after Millicent Fawcett. Would be quite fitting at this time, given that it was in the last couple of months, announced she would become the first woman to finally get a statue in Parliament Square.

Agustarella · 08/12/2017 20:37

Agree with Octavia! Best suggestion yet!

How about Diana rather than Artemis? Same goddess. Or is the Princess Di association unhelpful perhaps, IDK.

I like Valentina. Also the name of the heroine of Les Huguenots in its Italian version, Valentine in the original French. I can't decide if she's heroic for choosing martyrdom or a doormat for converting to Protestantism in order to marry the man she loves. Victorian era portrayals of virtuous femininity are complicated like that. Great name anyway.

mathanxiety · 09/12/2017 07:44

Inspired by your post of Fri 08-Dec-17 07:13:07, Rosie the RIveter.
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NoelNiki · 09/12/2017 21:01

Alexandra. Meaning defender of
humankind

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